"The regulation of #intimacy and #aggression, disrupted by psychological #trauma, must be restored. This requires that others show some #tolerance for the survivor’s fluctuating need for closeness and distance, and some #respect for her attempts to reestablish #autonomy and #selfcontrol.” (-#JudithHerman, in “#TraumaAndRecovery”) #dinner #postworkout #OnATuesday #IAmNotWearingAnyPants #DIY #handmade #homemade #polkadot #bowtie #shirtandtie #dapper #neckwear #ootd












