coiner of heartqueer is a system, but they were specifically one alter named Lamb, or they now go by Bun and some other names (they're present on the site but people have a really bad history of harassing them, so I won't touch on their more uncommon names). I think "violent" is a bad way to put it, they have said a few things that were a little over the top, but not all that much.
In some private groups they have discussed reclaiming heartqueer, so I wouldn't recommend using it. I think its within their right to redefine it and use it for themself since they originally created the term.
i see, well if that's the case wi're more leaning on the fence of removing it. but wi still would like to hear others' opinions on this before wi make a judgement mourselves to see where the majority of the community stands. since the carrd is made for the community
