#tw para

[the-elysium-collective]

hot take apparently: if you want people who touch animals to DNI, don't say "zoophiles DNI". zoophilia is a paraphilic disorder that causes a sexual attraction that *cannot be controlled*. What can be is people's actions. By saying "zoophiles DNI", you are only putting everyone in a box and demonizing a disorder that is already seen badly enough. same goes for other harmful paras. have some common sense.

edit; ive seen some folks ask what they should say instead. You can say « beastialists » or « pro-c/pro contact zoophiles »

[eggshelling]

guys i love being a pervert <3 i grew up guilt-ridden, always over-policing my own desire and attraction (i’m sure lots of us did)

FUCK that. i don’t deserve to feel like shit and hate who i am when i have done no harm

i honestly HOPE people think i’m disgusting, broken, twisted, deviant, dirty. that’s so much better than lying to myself and pretending I’m perfect for my whole mortal life. that’s still only half the story, though. my queerness, my paraphilias, my self-expression through body modification, my experience in s/w… all of that is just as beautiful as it is disgusting. it makes me who i am

anyways, fellow freaks and pervs! you deserve the world <3 and i’m so grateful for all those who helped me feel less alone

[the-elysium-collective]

if you are anti para. do not fucking interact with me. block me, PLEASE. paraphilias are not evil, they aren't bad, they're inherently morally grey. if you are pro-c on harmful paras. do not fucking interact with me. block me, PLEASE. harmful paras target people/beings who cannot consent. sex without consent is rape. it is not okay.

[eggshelling]

hiiiiii does anyone know what a good tag for acne fetish / acnephilia might be ? I’m not really looking for “popaholic” content (not that I won’t watch a blackhead extraction from time to time, just not my main focus). I don’t like *extreme* extractions/pops in general; I don’t have trypophobia particularly, but a bunch of bleeding gaping holes shifts my attraction to concern and secondhand pain

I like descriptions of people with acne, people who pick their skin, acne scars with speckles of new acne on the unscarred skin, how red and blushy someone with dense patches of acne can get, someone trusting me enough to help them pop a painful spot, feeling the bumpy or rough texture of the other’s skin… i like that it’s kinda gross but very normal, and I like how it decorates the skin like freckles or birthmarks. It’s just cute (sexy) and very human

soooo… how do I find fellow blemish appreciators and pics or art of broken-out babes ?

[eggshelling]

a proper host keeps lube and lotion in their guest bathroom shower so whoever comes to stay and takes a shower feels welcome to “get comfy” hehe <3

[weeedbunny]

Update: Fuck is allowed on Demodatchi island!

you can also make she her gays and he him lesbians i heard bc the gender and pronouns are seperate ^_^

unfortunately you cannot make child and adult miis have relationships 💔