#tw polyamphobia

[zebulontheplanet]

As a polyamorous person in a monogamous queer relationship, you would not BELIEVE the amount of blatant homophobia and polyamphobia (is that even the right word?) i experience. People telling me I’m not polyamorous because I’m in a monogamous relationship, the amount of people who’ve called me a creep, weird, slurs, just because they think I’m stringing along my partner or not happy. Not to mention the things I face as a polyamorous person in general.

[crazyalien87]

tl,dr: personal rant. tw mention of forced marriage, transphobia, polyamphobia.

So, lemme get this straight. My mom thinks polyamory is either cheating, creepy, or some forced polygamy bullshit involving 14-year-old girls like that creep in texas.*

My parents try the bare minimum to call someone their name and pronouns (when around them). They also trans people in general, and especially nonbinary people, are a fucking joke. They regularly make shitty jokes like the attack helicopter one. I don't know whether to laugh along or fucking slap them with words.

Guess I'm just a joke and a fucking cheater, apparently. This "supporting me regardless" or whatever they said is clearly a fucking lie. I mean, they wouldn't disown me or slap me or whatever, so I guess I'm lucky. They would just laugh at me and try to explain to me that I'm a delusional cheater, that god or the universe or whatever fucking made me to be woman and that I shouldn't hate my body.

You think I WANT to hate body? You know how much I would give to not hate my body, to maybe even LIKE it without specific outgits and angles and whatever to make me look good for a little bit. Well, I would give tens of thousands, or perhaps over a 100 thousand bucks, because that's how kuch my fucking transition is gonna cost if my insurance doesn't cover it. Hopefully, I can use their damn insurance before I'm 26. Show them I'm fucking serious, and save me a college education's worth of money. Although, I don't think my insurance will cover my Brazilian Butt Lift, but at least that one is much cheaper.**

Nice to be loved for who I'm not, I guess. /s

*like waco texas or some shit idk. the fbi shot his cult house or whatever.

**yes, I'm transmasc and I want a bbl. I probably shouldn't consider it part of my transition, but I'm intersex and genderqueer af and I don't care.