"Just settle for Mr. Nice Guy." (Fun fact: a lot of self proclaimed "nice guys" really aren't that nice.) How about..... No! Don't get me wrong, safety, security, stability, compatibility, etc are all very important attributes of a relationship. However, if you have all of those things but there is no passion, no attraction, no spark, no fire..... what you have is a glorified friendship. If I wanted that, I'd honestly probably rather be roomies then with a gay male bestie. Chemistry, attraction, and passion is an absolute MUST in a relationship. It needs to be mutual for both parties that we each strongly desire one another (I'm a Scorpio rising after all). If that's not there, I refuse to settle for someone "just to be with someone." I'm more content and happy being on my own than unhappy in a connection that feels like a dead end. Whoever is my person will need to be able to keep up to run free and wild and will see that as an opportunity. Don't settle for society's standards. I feel less and less people are these days, which is a good thing. It's an exciting time to see what comes of people actually going for what they want, whether that's in relationships, their career, or otherwise. Keep shooting for that fire and passion. It's worth fighting for in the end! 💟 Purchase my new oracle deck, Written In The Stars here ➡️ https://etsy.me/3vmubWn 🔮Join the Shadow N Shine Family on YouTube! ➡️ https://www.youtube.com/c/heatherschultz/ 💖Follow my adventures here! ➡️ https://shadownshine.com ✨Whatever you do…. do it with sparkle!✨ #twinflames #soulmates #twinflamecouple #soulmatecouple #twinflamereading #soulmatereading #lovereading #psychicreading #intuitivereading #twinflamelove #soulmatelove #divinefeminine #divinemasculine #divinecounterpart #tarot #tarotreading #oraclereading #oraclecards #tarotofinstagram #tarotreadersofinstagram #oraclereadersofinstagram #twinflameunion1111 #twinflameunion #tarotdaily #oraclecardoftheday #tarotcardoftheday #tarotreadersofig #tarotgram #twinflamejourney #twinflamehealing https://www.instagram.com/p/CjRdbIoOKXA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=