#umbreonxespeon

[dannyuko]

My boyfriend, male espeon~ Me, female umbreon~

[wormguydraws]

I just like how they both have the ability synchronize

[nyctophillist]

Happy Pride Month !!

[mysticelement]

Old piece was fugly, so here is a new version!

[my-hero-headcannons]

Idk if you’re still active but if you are: May I ask for headcanons on how Deku, Kacchan, todoroki, and Shinso (separately) would be on dates with their female s/o? Like where would they go and what would they do?

So sorry for the inactivity, but I absolutely can answer your ask! Buckle up this one is gonna be long!

Deku- 

Deku was an absolute mess working up the nerve to ask his s/o on their first date if he was the one to initiate it. He was probably also a mess if he was the one asked too. He definitely overthought just about everything too, he just really wants everything to be the best for his s/o because she is the best!

Deku tries to dress up nicely for dates- even if it is just one of the nicest T-shirts he has and a clean pair of pants on casual ones, he’s always hoping to impress them.

He prefers to take his s/o somewhere simple, maybe to go see a favorite movie, or maybe even just favorite local shops shopping, visiting and getting lunch at quiet little cafes as they chat and get to know each other even more. 

If she ever dropped some hints that she’d prefer something fancier or a specific event, in particular, you bet that the boy would do everything he could to make that happen too. As long as she is happy he is happy.

Lots of conversations about anything and everything. if its a new relationship he talks a lot from nerves, but later on he’d just talk a lot because he’s eager to know each other more. 

Expect a LOT of blushing. Also, expect a lot of badly hidden awestruck glances. He thinks his s/o is amazing and it makes him nervous and doubtful at first, but with reassurance and slow and steady pace, he’d be most comfortable with holding her hand and even a little cuddling on dates, of course, the longer they are together the more comfortable he’d be with PDA, but don’t expect anything too flashy from him in public- he is still a cinnamon roll.

Kacchan- 

Kacchan would totally take his date to some kind of amusement park at some point. He likes the adrenaline of the rides and he also likes how public it is. 

Bakugo likes how he can show off his s/o and boy, would he. He wants everyone to see that she is his and that they are together. 

He’d dare her to go on all the rides with him and she’d better expect some ruthless teasing and taunting from him if she tries to wimp out on him. In a way, it is his way of having a bit of fun with her, but also he really likes when she gets on and holds his hand like a lifeline and getting to hold her close after the ride if she is still a bit shook. He’d never force her on if it was actually too much for her though, he might be a tiny bit disappointed.

there would also be dates that are just at other places, just hanging out or training together and those would be the norm. 

Bakugo isn't one to shy away from PDA. If his hand isn't holding hers its because he’s got his arms wrapped around her waist or shoulder. If he catches someone staring at his s/o while they’re out, he’ll be very fast to get agitated and will either tell the other person off then and there or maybe even shock his s/o with a sudden embrace or even kiss. though normally he’d probably save anything very intimate when they are in private. 

If they are training then don’t expect any slack from him. She might not be that thrilled that their “date” amounts ultimately to her bf bossing her around and sparing, but it would be very important to him that she can defend herself. and she’s super hot when she gets frustrated. It totally has nothing to do with how close combat can get.. or how she sometimes gets so tired after that its guaranteed cuddles after…. not at all.

Todoroki- 

Shouto would honestly go wherever his s/o preferred. He doesn’t really care so much about where and what they are doing as much as the fact that he gets to be with her for a little while.

If he had to choose where to go, he’d probably take her out to a nice dinner- like a really nice dinner. paid for unwittingly by his dad. He’d dress up nicely, buy her small things before even coming to get his s/o like chocolates or flowers or any other small gift he thinks that they would appreciate.

He plays it really cool the entire night but he is dying on the inside because “oh, her hair is so beautiful. The way she laughs is driving me crazy.”

He might honestly start smoking. He has very little actual experience with anything like this, but he wants it to go well very badly and he tries probably a little too hard. The best way it ends is if his s/o can help him to relax and get comfortable again and they can both enjoy the time. 

He’d definitely want to hold her hands, and small touches on he arms and shoulders would happen naturally once he calmed down a bit. He is also less shy about kisses in public than you would think.. most of the time he forgets that they were in public when it happened he was so focused on her. 

He’d definitely spoil his lucky s/o. and once they were both steady he’d trust her with almost anything. expect deep conversations and sometimes just quiet cuddling sessions without any talking, just enjoying the company.

Shinso- 

Shinso is absolutely a quiet, not flashy, stay at home and watch movies date kinda guy. His favorite dates with his s/o are when they can both bundle up on a couch, eat ridiculous amounts of junk food and watch corny movies together. 

He’s shy at first, and the first date probably felt more like a kinda awkward hangout than a date but he is trying. I’d imagine he is kind of shy at first to any new relationship and because of that, it’d be a slow and sweet start. 

he loves it when she gets comfortable and leans on him when they are lazing around and he would 100% do the yawn & arm drape move when he wants to get closer but slyly. 

In public, he’d be a lot less clingy and a lot more stiff and uncomfortable, especially if it is in a crowded place, but if she was adamant about it he would go along. He’d enjoy being with her and seeing her in her element, but she shouldn’t be shocked if he suddenly starts acting like he did when they first met. He just has a hard time opening up, but it wouldn’t be impossible with a little work! 

If anyone messed with his s/o on a date he would handle the issue very quickly with his quirk- so she would never need to worry about causing a big scene or needing to get out of an awkward situation. Shinso would always have her back. 

[katsukiboom]

Just stopping by to say I hope you’re having an awesome day! 🧡

not that awesome my friend, but I hope yours is far better! ^^ 

[sassygaara]

People are shipping gaara with shinki??? The hell???

Do yourself a favor and don’t go onto the Gaara tag for a while.

It’s nothing nsfw YET (dear lord who art in heaven please don’t let me see that) but it’s still very uncomfortable.

[crobones]

Okay, thank you for your stance on Clarke slapping bellamy. If it had been the other way around, people would riot. How soon people seem to forget that Clarke had bellamy chained up in season 4 and left Octavia out to die. And that Clarke pulled a gun on him.

.See exactly! I’m actively against violence against women! I’ve had close friends and family that were victims of abuse, and i hate every day that i can’t do something about the people who did it. a woman telling me it was an ex who beat beat her and broke her bones, but now he’s states away because she left that life behind. a young mother tells me her baby daddy is exhibiting signs of stalking and throwing things at her but i don’t know his name or anything about him and she refused to tell me. I show these woman my support any chance i can, any way i can, and offer to listen if they don’t want to go to anyone else. these are women that were seen to be stupid for not doing anything but they are so fucking strong for pulling themselves out of these situations with their own fucking hands.

But most of the fucking time, violence against men is excused or, god forbid, made to seem as a joke or something amusing! my former coworker, who is a man, was snuck up on from behind and brutally hit and scratched by his ex-girlfriend but refused to do anything about it because they were both doped up at the time. it was in the street! he thought he deserved it, too. i tell him no one deserves that and it’s not okay, but he didn’t fucking believe me. can’t force someone to believe you, but can only listen.

and the thing of it all? the people who say “it’s just tv” or “it’s fiction” are the people who really just piss me off. i may not be a psychologist, but i studied media in television and film for my useless college degree and what you learn is media influences society, and society influences media. mexico was teaching people about birth control in fucking soap operas in the 70′s. sales of contraceptives went up by 27%. you don’t think violence in tv leads to an increase in violent behaviour as they grow up? surprise!

now, there’s always outliers, and the fact that a lot of the violence we see these days is sensationalized by news outlets. “why isn’t anyone talking about this?” because the news has people looking in the other direction sometimes! gotta dig for some stuff, but hey, if you don’t do that, i can’t blame you. when hearing about mass murder, i tend to dissociate because my brain knows i will break down if it lets me feel it.

why did i get so off track? i’m just really fucking passionate about this shit, and i’m tired of people (not you @umbreonxespeon , the general use of “people”) shoving words in my mouth when i know damn well what i’m saying. i might not be saying it well! but i’m saying it!

tl;dr - violence against men in television and movies is still not o-fucking-kay