Other Perceptions
In this world we have pretty much two perceptions; your own and that of everyone else. I’m not saying it matters what other people think of you, but we have all experienced frustration with those other perceptions. These perceptions who misunderstand our motives and try to group together those who they ‘believe’ are like minded to make sense of the abstract nature of our minds. Out of all of this one thing can remain true, people only understand things based off of the length of their own perception. So, say if your going through something and for some reason people start to tell you that your mistaken, there could be various factors that are in play within their own lives that are stopping them from understanding your needs. This could be based off of the environment they were raised in, the people they hang around with, and how they like to deal with their own problems.
Most of the time in order to get the attention that we need we do have to say something, but if we had to explain every little thing we would be explaining ourselves to the rest of the world for our entire lives. This as a result can become exhausting. This might be able to explain why we keep our circles of trust small, and why people have a tendency to kick people out of their lives for one reason or another. There is no real solution to this problem, it will persist until the end of time because human beings are curious and fickle creatures who get distracted by everything. What can be considered a solution to this on going dilemma would be just be accepting the fact that people go through shit at different times and most of the time it isn’t convenient for everyone else. Sometimes these misunderstandings with others can even happen simultaneously, as their life and your life might feel like its in a downward spiral. So it is very important to have a universal understanding of this concept of perception, but it is also more important to continue through life the way that you want and do it the way that it makes you happy.
