Your blog is the most beautiful and wholesome thing. I am a Bi woman and I was wondering if maybe you could give me some advice for asking a girl out on a date.
Aw, thank you SO MUCH!!!! You’re so sweet!!!! I’m glad you like the blog! :D <3
As for the advice, I’m afraid baby and I have been together for about 12 years, so I haven’t asked a girl on a date in a very, very long time (except when I ask her on dates, but that’s a different dynamic, haha). But my two cents (with limited experience in these matters) is that it’s always good to start casual! Coffee or lunch rather than dinner or drinks. It takes the pressure off, for sure!!! Though, the problem there is you definitely don’t want her assuming it’s a friend date (ah, the woes of dating women! We’re socialized to believe wlw don’t exist so obviously any interest is in friendship!), so I’d be intentional with your language-- “Do you want to go out sometime? I’ll treat you to lunch!” Or something like that. It’s casual but also clear!
Any followers who have better advice and more recent experience, feel free to weigh in! And good luck, dear untoldintrovert! <3 I wish you luck in finding your person! Or if this ask is about your person, then I wish you luck in asking her out!!! <3 <3