NOTHING outside of you will give you any validation
I’ll start this by saying I’ve been there, I’ve been there multiple times actually and because I’ve been there I tell you with absolute certainty, it’s all you.
I could go on multiple storytimes about how I’d always want validation from my best friend or people around me but if I did, we’d be here for the whole year.
This year, I was very discouraged, my self concept was absolute trash when it came to manifestation and my life and because of that, I consistently manifested bad outcomes. I don’t like saying that, but it’s actually what happened to me, but it’s not what’s gonna happen to you.
Even though I had success stories, I graduated university when all odds were against me, I did manage to sabotage myself when it came to continuing my studies, where to live, love life, etc.
I realized at some point, I was denying myself of everything I wanted and everything I had because I wasn’t getting the validation I wanted from a person who’s opinions I valued so much, and in turn I realized, sure, I might not be looking for validation from Twitter posts or tumblr posts/asks, but I was doing the exact same thing with my then best friend. Identifying this made me realize, I really didn’t believe it was all me, I don’t truly think I was limitless cause I kept asking for their validation and not my own.
It’s been so freeing realizing what was “delaying” me and I honestly don’t believe in delays, I also don’t necessarily believe in divine timing but I do think I needed this to finally step into my best self, my innermuse
Don’t limit yourself, don’t look for your manifestation, don’t beg the universe and/or people for your manifestations. Believe me when I say, it’s all you but this is where self concept plays a part, my self concept was so bad I started searching for flaws in everything, started applying logic to every aspect of my life as if I didn’t know how this actually worked.
Self concept isn’t needed, but I do swear by it. Embrace who you are and what you’re capable of, saturate if that’s what you like, visualize, affirm, persist.
I know for a fact all I desire, all I want and all I envision for myself has happened, there’s no dangers I face, I am secure in myself and in my abilities.
You’re not close, you’re there, you’re way past the finish line, you’ve arrived.















