Hello,
I just read your post on Venus dominance and I only wanted to let you know how grateful I am that someone finally chose to see it beyond what is often depicted as it's attributes...
It resonated so much with my experiences in life and all this time I've had such conflicting opinions about them. However, I've always ended up harboring some kind of guilt in the end about these situations, even when I knew that things weren't my fault especially since I was literally just a child and the adults around me were supposed to do better. Alas, they kinda failed at being safe adults (especially emotionally and psychologically), I am now a closed book and they resent that too but always behind my back. I really hope that someday I won't have to fear losing myself and getting my heart trampled on repeatedly for trusting them but I don't know if I can do that just yet (also- people really tryna be slick with the manipulation and getting mad when I don't entertain it 😞🙌). Again, thank you so much, I'm nowhere near a perfect or faultless individual but I don't wish to be reduced to just another damsel playing into the society's toxic expectations of me and my gender, it gets exhausting- being weighed and judged and poked while knowing full well that I'd never be good enough to those who haven't even admitted their own insecurities. Reading your post soothed a part of me I didn't know was aching for acknowledgement. May your pillows be cool, your favourite icecream always stocked in the stores and may you always receive back threefold the love you give to others...🫂💜✨
(Sincerely- a Venus (29° Cap) dominant with Venus conjunct Lilith and Neptune in 4th house, 2h stellium, venus square moon and asc + a number 4 life path…)
Thank you for trusting me enough to share this with me, truly. I'm really glad my post resonated with you in some way. What you described sounds really heavy to carry, especially when those experiences happened when you were so young. None of that should have been yours to hold alone.
I also think people tend to highlight the “pros” of Venus dominant energy a little too much and give it a lot of grace without acknowledging the other side of it. Everything has light and shadow, whether people want to admit it or not. Sometimes being perceived through that Venusian lens can feel like being placed on a shelf like a doll — admired, but not really seen as a full person. That can be exhausting and frustrating, especially when you're already navigating your own insecurities.
You deserve spaces and people where you don’t have to shrink yourself or doubt your experiences. Nobody is perfect, and you deserve family, friendships, and relationships that allow you to feel safe, open, and loved for your authentic self. Please be gentle with yourself and move at your own pace with trust. Also your little “may your pillows be cool… “note is very genuine I hope that same radiance you give out always finds its way back to you too
Sincerely, Kabaeebaee 𓆩♡𓆪
