Kabaeebaee~but I Doubt I’ll Be Your Bae

You found me. Now what ?

[kabaeebaee]

Life Path / Attitude 1….be serious

( especially when it’s 3 and 11 energies combined )

From my experience, this has to be one of the most manipulative, immature, competitive, and slightly abusive numbers yet. I also feel like it’s one of the most common Life Path/Attitude numbers people have as well.

You can usually tell when someone is a 1 because of how controlling they come off, but other people around them just see it as “influential” or “badass.” Meanwhile, the undertone of 1 energy is very energy vampire-ish.( not that they are a literal vampire but they emotionally suck the energy out of you but they this is probably a compliment to them lol …)

I also fully believe 1s know other energies don’t really like their energy, so they tend to play psychological games with people. And somehow they always get away with it too because they “care too much.” Lol, such a pathetic excuse.

1s are very attention-seeking while being insecure as hell, and it’s such a draining combo because they’ll publicly hype you up, show up for you, and act super empathetic… while being the most devious individuals behind the scenes.

This number seriously needs to work on mental stimulation and learning how to genuinely love themselves internally.

Realistically, all they need is sleep and to stay away from Porn…

Because not only are they “energy vampires,” but a lot of them are sex addicts as well, and it can be very uncomfortable to be around. They sexualize everything and everyone, then complain when that same energy comes back to them.

1s can also be very ignorant. These are the types to be like:

“Bruh just communicate, we’re GROWN. I got my own crib, make my own money, and I’m finally sober.”

Yeah dude… you’re finally on the right track, as if you weren’t on house arrest for aggravated assault and domestic violence before 🫤like uh okay… you won I guess???

They wanna seem so grown and sexy, yet no matter how much they improve, they still struggle with consistency.

Masculine energy is also very tied to 1s. They’re usually interested in masculine-coded topics/activities, and even the way they dress can come off masculine or androgynous. ( I think of Furries when it comes to 1’s )

Especially female 1s—you’ve probably been told you come off as an alpha before or have even been bullied because of it.

They hate seeing other people confident too, let’s be honest. All bark no bite type of number . Confrontation is their biggest fear but they only dominate or feel like they have when they talk over someone. Just because you louder don’t mean you won .

Y’all be looking a hot mess while simultaneously shaming everybody else because your ego is too high.

Isolation and developing a mind of your own is honestly what 1s need most.

And the crazy part is, confidence seems like it should come naturally to 1s, but a lot of y’all struggle deeply with commitment to even getting in the shower

Say it with me:

Self-Love <3

Jeez… I’m about to turn this into a series.

-@Kabaeebaee;)

[kabaeebaee]

Astrology Observations…..Yeah

Lilith in the 10th house / Sun in the 4th

Can be closer with their dad than their mom. It doesn’t always indicate a bad relationship with the mom, but it can show a stronger connection with the father—shared interests, or just being around masculine energy that makes you feel more like yourself.

With Sun in the 4th, I also noticed this can show being the first to have a child that’s consistently in the spotlight. Whether it’s you putting them there or them naturally being the “golden child” (only child, oldest, miracle baby, etc).

The downside? Some parents feed off that attention and put the child on a pedestal because it makes them look good… meanwhile they’re not the best parent behind the scenes.

Image isn’t always reality.

Venus square Asc

These are the types that don’t like pictures unless they control it. Specific angles, filters, apps.

Might avoid social media completely or constantly change their aesthetic to the point their page feels inconsistent.

This aspect can actually make someone unforgettable… or dangerous.

People might like the fact , how private they are and it makes them look like a “ tease “ I even seen cases where people accused them of being a “ Catfish “ because they look like too good to be true .

Libra Rising (especially near Virgo) + Ketu in the 1st

People will say you look different every day. Hard to read, but somehow people are still intrusive about your life.

Politeness gets mistaken for access (it’s not).

People project identities onto you that you don’t resonate with.

You can come off standoffish, suspicious, or like you don’t need anyone.

Add Mars in the 8th and you naturally give mysterious energy without trying.

People are intrigued but don’t know why.

Shape-shifter placement fr.

Capricorn placements (unevolved) can be predatory.

I’ve seen this with control issues, boundary testing, obsession with status, and projecting their insecurities onto others.

People love to say Capricorn = “go-getter” or “daddy energy” but let’s be real… some of them are just miserable and controlling.

I also seen cases where they go for woman and usually get played badly because they have bad perception on what their ideal type is actually not their type yk ?

And a lot of the time? People around them lowkey want their downfall.

Realistically I can list aspects that really connect it all together but on the more simple but yet specific side I seen this with Capricorn men sun , moon , mars & asc

Virgo / Libra / Aries / Cancer placements (Sun, Moon, Rising, Mars) Jupiter in 1st/2nd , Mercury in 1st/2nd , Moon in 1st,2nd,4th , Mercury-asc aspect, Venus-asc aspects & Jupiter-asc aspects

Get comments about looking young (“baby face effect”).

It’s not always a compliment either.

People use it to infantilize them, talk down to them, or feel superior.

Certain placements I’ve noticed in people who get taken advantage of (especially by men):

Mars square Neptune

Sun opposite Mars

Mars in Taurus, Pisces, Virgo

Mars in 1st, 4th , 8th , 10th

Nessus in 1st, 4th, 6th, 12th

Lilith in 1st, 3rd, 11th, 12th( any Lilith but more emphasis on the asteroid , bml & h58( Waldemath)

Pluto in 1st, 3rd, 8th, 11th

This isn’t “all men are bad”—it’s a pattern of prolonged psychological damage, gaslighting, and cycles that take years to break.

I’ve seen it go as far as restraining orders, therapy, even mental breakdowns.

And the worst part?

The person who caused the damage often acts like nothing happened—and people believe them.

Example: Mars in Taurus

You come off sensual, slow-burning, elegant.

Some men interpret that as a challenge or tease, which leads to boundary pushing.

Comments like “you look toxic” or “I know what I’d do to you” type energy.

Lilith / Pluto in the 3rd

People don’t take you seriously or they sexualize everything you say.

You get labeled as “cute” in a patronizing way until you assert yourself—then suddenly you’re a problem.

Can lead to rumors, projection, and people being intimidated but not admitting it.

You’re energy here is very raw and people can be intimidated but fascinated with the idea of you but won’t admit it because the energy you have here shouldn’t be trusted easily because you say things that can come off as angry or unreliable.

Aries Sun women

Give Lilith in the 1st energy. ( I’m not saying they all have Lilith in the 1st but it screams that … Unevolved ofc )

Seen as bold, impulsive, mean, bit**y , but that side usually comes out toward people they feel threatened by.

Very good at image management.

Can switch personalities depending on the audience.

And yes… they will compete with you even if you’re not competing.

Regardless if you find yourself cool or not . That Aries sun will still find a way to be in competition with you and at some point it will get draining as hell .

Leo Moon / Mars

Tend to neglect themselves when they’re focused on a partner.

All the attention goes outward instead of inward.

I’ve seen this lead to insecurity, anger, or even narcissistic tendencies.

They need validation BAD, but don’t always realize when they’re not being treated well until someone else points it out.

Can also be overly focused on other people’s bodies while neglecting their own.

And in groups?

They’re usually the “leader” and others follow their behavior—even when it’s questionable.

Awareness isn’t for everyone

You either see it or you don’t — @Kabaeebaee 🃏︎

[kabaeebaee]

Hello,

I just read your post on Venus dominance and I only wanted to let you know how grateful I am that someone finally chose to see it beyond what is often depicted as it's attributes...

It resonated so much with my experiences in life and all this time I've had such conflicting opinions about them. However, I've always ended up harboring some kind of guilt in the end about these situations, even when I knew that things weren't my fault especially since I was literally just a child and the adults around me were supposed to do better. Alas, they kinda failed at being safe adults (especially emotionally and psychologically), I am now a closed book and they resent that too but always behind my back. I really hope that someday I won't have to fear losing myself and getting my heart trampled on repeatedly for trusting them but I don't know if I can do that just yet (also- people really tryna be slick with the manipulation and getting mad when I don't entertain it 😞🙌). Again, thank you so much, I'm nowhere near a perfect or faultless individual but I don't wish to be reduced to just another damsel playing into the society's toxic expectations of me and my gender, it gets exhausting- being weighed and judged and poked while knowing full well that I'd never be good enough to those who haven't even admitted their own insecurities. Reading your post soothed a part of me I didn't know was aching for acknowledgement. May your pillows be cool, your favourite icecream always stocked in the stores and may you always receive back threefold the love you give to others...🫂💜✨

(Sincerely- a Venus (29° Cap) dominant with Venus conjunct Lilith and Neptune in 4th house, 2h stellium, venus square moon and asc + a number 4 life path…)

Thank you for trusting me enough to share this with me, truly. I'm really glad my post resonated with you in some way. What you described sounds really heavy to carry, especially when those experiences happened when you were so young. None of that should have been yours to hold alone.

I also think people tend to highlight the “pros” of Venus dominant energy a little too much and give it a lot of grace without acknowledging the other side of it. Everything has light and shadow, whether people want to admit it or not. Sometimes being perceived through that Venusian lens can feel like being placed on a shelf like a doll — admired, but not really seen as a full person. That can be exhausting and frustrating, especially when you're already navigating your own insecurities.

You deserve spaces and people where you don’t have to shrink yourself or doubt your experiences. Nobody is perfect, and you deserve family, friendships, and relationships that allow you to feel safe, open, and loved for your authentic self. Please be gentle with yourself and move at your own pace with trust. Also your little “may your pillows be cool… “note is very genuine I hope that same radiance you give out always finds its way back to you too

Sincerely, Kabaeebaee 𓆩♡𓆪

[kabaeebaee]

Venus Dominance Is Not Innocence

Romanticization is not respect.

Venus dominance is usually described as being physically attractive, charming, idealized, sweet, innocent, or non-threatening ~ whether that's in relationships, friendships, family dynamics, or public settings like school, work, daily routines, and even first impressions. People love listing the pros of this energy, but almost never the cons. Venus dominance isn't the blessing people market it as. If anything, it's a blessing that should come with a warning label ~but that part makes people uncomfortable.

A huge reason Venus dominants struggle with identity is because people interact with them based on appearance, not personhood. One moment they're being critiqued mid-conversation (*that hairstyle isn't giving"), the next they're being hyper-praised by strangers. Over time, this creates hyper-self-awareness, insecurity, and withdrawal.

Many evolved Venus dominants become socially distant ~not because they're cold, but because they're tired of being watched, infantilized sexualized, and consumed. Women may feel pressured to harden themselves or adopt masculine traits just to be taken seriously, while still grieving the version of themselves they never got to fully embody. Men may feel their masculinity doesn't "match" the dominant models around them "cast as the "boy next door" instead of the authority figure. When Venus runs the chart, you're rarely allowed to just exist and that's the part nobody romanticizes.

Venus dominant people often don't get along with other feminine energies. They naturally gravitate toward more masculine dynamics, and that's usually when the "pick me" accusations start flying. But let's be real ~ don't call a Venus dominant a pick me when you're watching from afar. That might look like "pick me" behavior on the surface, but the obsession underneath? That's fan behavior.

Venus dominants tend to attract people who talk badly about them while copying everything they do

And when I say everything, I mean everything.

This isn't a phase either; it can go on for years.

When confronted, these individuals usually play dumb, deny everything, or switch into manipulation mode - acting innocent around mutuals while privately stalking, studying, and mirroring the Venus dominant person. It's subtle, invasive, and honestly disturbing to watch play out.

I've seen this pattern most with Venus dominant people who have heavy 2nd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 8th, or 11th house emphasis ~ especially Venus, Sun, Moon, Mars, Neptune, or Lilith in those houses. It shows up even more when they have Life Path 4, 5, 7, 9, or 11. Venus dominance doesn't just attract admiration ~it attracts fixation, competition, and people who confuse proximity with entitlement.

Venus square Ascendant can make you feel like you're a threat to other women ~not because you're trying to be, but because you naturally possess something they secretly desire. Yes, sometimes it's physical, but a lot of the time it's the Delicacy mixed Elusiveness & Refinement you carry without realizing it. Instead of addressing their insecurity, some will infantilize you, compete with you quietly, or act innocent in front of people you're close to while being overly critical in subtle ways.

It's covert competition masked as concern. This dynamic is especially strong in Venus square asc dominant charts with Moon square Venus as well.

The irony is that while others are reacting to your light, you may struggle to even see it. Squares create inner tension, so compliments can feel uncomfortable, praise can feel exaggerated, and self-doubt can show physically in how you carry yourself. You might shrink, overanalyze, or question your worth while others are projecting their insecurities onto you. It's painful, but self-acceptance with this aspect is a process - and once you integrate it, you stop shrinking, stop explaining, and stop competing for spaces that were already yours.

The relationship side of Venus dominance needs to be talked about more honestly. If you're an unevolved Venus-dominant person, you might prioritize relationships over yourself without even realizing it. Even if you grew up with loving parents or stable dynamics, you can still romanticize love to a delusional degree. I've seen Venus-dominant people come off as extremely male-centered ~ not in a cute or quirky way, but in a way that feels uncomfortable to witness. For some, relationships become a hideout. They crave the validation, the sexual tension, the sense of power or security that comes from being chosen. If they're insecure, they may never admit it, but being in a relationship can feel like it "fixes" something internally.

On the other hand, evolved Venus dominants can appear like "teases" or "hard to get" when someone has a crush on them. In reality, they're not playing games ~they just have strong boundaries and a low tolerance for nonsense. Many of them have seen relationships play out badly, either through personal experience or observing others, so they're naturally cautious. They get turned off quickly when they sense entitlement or performative affection. When they do entertain a crush, people might accuse them of "leading someone on," but often it's just projection from someone who doesn't understand boundaries. If they don't say it verbally, their energy will.

Trigger Warning

A difficult truth is that Venus-dominant people can attract individuals who see them as a challenge rather than a person. Because they're not easily accessible, some people take that as something to conquer. That mindset can escalate into manipulation, coercion, verbal abuse, or even physical harm. That is never their fault. Being desired does not equal being responsible for someone else's lack of self-control.

You don't owe access just because you're attractive.

And you don't owe softness to people who only value you when it benefits them.

~ @Kabaeebaee <3

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If this hit or you've experienced this, talk to me in the comments. I want real stories about Venus dominance ~ the good, the weird, and the uncomfortable.

[kabaeebaee]

Desserts That Flirt Back: Venus x Mars Edition

Everyone’s got a sweet side, a soft spot, and a flavor that ruins people just enough to keep them coming back.

These desserts aren’t just snacks—they’re archetypes. Venus-blessed, Mars-stirred, craving certified 💋

💋 Slutty Brownies

Scorpio Venus ,Mars in the 8th - Layers on layers. It’s sweet, dark, a little dangerous—people swear they can handle it, then can’t. Forbidden pleasure in dessert form.

💋 Cotton Candy Ice Cream

Aquarius Venus , Mars in 1st (In Aquarius)

Weirdly addictive—you can’t explain why, but you’re hooked.

They love like it’s an experiment: electric, free, and gone before you notice.

Elusive? Maybe. But somehow, you still crave another taste.

💋 Rice Krispie Treats

Gemini Venus ,3rd house Venus -Simple but nostalgic. You flirt through humor and comfort, not flash. Everyone underestimates you until they realize you’re addicting.

💋 Churros

Sagittarius Venus - Wild, messy, fun. You smell like cinnamon and rebellion. You’re everyone’s “bad idea” they secretly wish would text them again.

💋 Fruit Rolled Ice Cream

Leo or Libra Venus- Looks matter—presentation is the love language. Flirty, fun, takes time to make but worth the show. “Aesthetic soft launch” energy.

💋 Funfetti Cinnamon Rolls

Cancer Venus- Soft, sentimental, and chaotic good. You heal people by feeding them sugar and validation. The “I baked you something” love language.

💋 Tiramisu

Venus in the 4th — elegance with a secret. You love deeply but reveal it in layers. You look calm, but your soul flirts in espresso and revenge.

💋 S’mores

Aries Mars , in the crave warmth but always end up setting something on fire. Flirt like it’s survival, love like it’s an adventure. You’re messy, magnetic, and impossible to forget—people always come back for one more taste, even when they know they’ll get burned

💋 Strawberry Shortcake

Venus in the 5th -romanticized reality. You make everyday life look like a montage scene. People project softness onto you, but you’re the one setting the tone.

💋 Donuts (Lemon Poppy)

Virgo Venus , Libra mars - Understated, classic, but when you pay attention—you notice the detail. Sweet, grounded, “you’ll miss me when I’m gone” flavor.

💋 Sugar Cookie :(Target ones , the one everyone hates lol ):

Pisces Venus, 12th house Venus - Everyone claims they hate it, but somehow eats two. Childlike, comforting, and slightly tragic—like sweetness you didn’t believe you deserved.

💋 Dubai chocolate (with angel hair)

Capricorn Venus ,Venus in the 1st - Luxury, restraint, and quiet seduction. You don’t show your sweetness—you let people earn it. Expensive taste, soft heart, dangerous calm.

💋 Cheesecake Deviled Strawberries

Taurus Mars - Looks romantic, tastes sinful. It’s all about temptation and presentation—half dessert, half dare.

💋 Tanghulu

Aquarius Venus ,Venus in the 8th house — sharp-sweet duality. You pull people in with aesthetic perfection, then leave them rethinking their decisions. Icy, precise, irresistible.

💋 Little Bites Muffins

2nd House Venus , Mars in Cancer - soft launch luxury. you’re not flashy, you’re irresistible by accident. people crave your calm, your warmth, your “come over, I baked something” energy. you make comfort look like seduction — it’s the bite-sized sweetness that lingers longer than it should.

💋 Three-Layer Cake

7th house Venus , Mars in Capricorn - you love in layers — presentation, substance, then soul. people fall for the surface first (you always look put together), but the real sweetness is underneath. you crave balance, not games; partnership that feels earned, not performed. there’s a maturity to your charm — frosting outside, foundation inside.

So… are you the sugar rush, the slow burn, or the one they never stop craving?

-Kabaeebaee💋😼

[kabaeebaee]

Astrology Observations with Bite 🩰

TW~ food, Eating themes & Fantasies

🧖🏽‍♀️Piercing / Tattoo Astro Observations🩰

🩰Capricorn placements (especially risings) should get an industrial piercing. Capricorns tend to have very defined, almost elf-like ears (lowkey one of their best features), and the industrial really enhances that sharp, structured look.

🧖🏽‍♀️Cancer placements — and Cancer Mars especially — are very nipple-piercing coded. Cancer is mommy energy , the chest ( boobs ) . It fits the placement way more often than people want to admit.

🩰Leo placements (Sun/Mars), Mars–Saturn aspects, Mars in the 6th or 1st are back-tattoo people. Leo rules strength, pride, and the upper body — these placements usually have a naturally strong , upper dominant body so back tattoos just work .

🧖🏽‍♀️Libra placements either have a lot of tattoos or none at all — no in between. If they do get tattoos, hip or under-butt placements look insane on them. Libra rules symmetry, hips, and balance… and yes, the bum lol.

🩰Gemini Venus / heavy Gemini placements are very sleeve-tat coded. Gemini rules the arms and hands, but I do notice a lot of individuals with Gemini Venus always have a sleeve . Sometimes it can look overpowering so that’s usually the first thing you notice about them .

🧖🏽‍♀️Moon in the 4th house people go through way more than you’d ever expect because they’re extremely private. Their lives are unpredictable — mood swings, living situations, body changes (physically and environmentally). Especially loud if the Moon aspects the ASC, Chiron, Mars, Neptune, or Uranus. You don’t really know a 4th house Moon until you live with them or watch them adapt in real time.

Mercury–Voice Astro Observation

🩰Mercury conjunct Pluto (especially in draconic), Mercury & Pluto in the 3rd, Mercury square Uranus, or Mercury in Sagittarius — natal or draconic — almost always get comments about their voice. Heavy tone, strong accent, or people constantly asking “where are you from?” even when you’re literally from here . It’s not that you sound fake — it’s that your voice carries weight. People feel something behind your words.

🧖🏽‍♀️Adding Jupiter in the 2nd house amplifies this even more since the 2nd also rules the voice. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter (foreignness, philosophy, travel), so the voice can sound “not local” or larger than life. If you have any of these placements/aspects — what’s your experience?

Speaking of Jupiter in the 2nd house needs to be talked about more. I hate when people only associate appearance with the 1st house when it’s really 1st + 2nd together. Jupiter-2nd individuals often get told they look like they’re from an ethnicity they’re not… and yes, eating habits come up too lol. Jupiter in the 1st or 2nd does not automatically mean someone is fat — aspects matter, especially Venus.

For example…….

🩰Venus conjunct/square/opposite Jupiter → indulgence may show earlier in life.

🧖🏽‍♀️Venus sextile/trine Jupiter → indulgence shows later.

It’s really about mindfulness, not punishment

Degrees matter. A lot.

🩰I have my Sun at 15° and Mars at 15° (Gemini degree), with Mars retrograde in Taurus in the 8th. I’m a slow burner, but when I’m mad? I’ll put someone on blast LOLLLL. The amount of conflicts I’ve had — especially online — because I let anger talk first is embarrassing, like I talk so much mess about people but I’ll laugh while doing it truly sometimes you gotta watch what you say tho . but the thrill is great honestly. It still takes a lot to get me there though… blame Sagittarius Mercury as well .

🧖🏽‍♀️Taurus Mars is sneakier than people admit. Their sister sign is Scorpio for a reason. They don’t react immediately — that doesn’t mean they aren’t processing. They store it. Then days, weeks, months later… they bite back harder and when you least expect it. And that’s when they get called dramatic, bipolar, or liars because “they can’t let it go.” Taurus holds grudges. Be serious. But that’s not only from my personal experience but from observations as well .

TW :(

🩰Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate food control or food shame in childhood. Think being the kid who couldn’t eat what everyone else was eating ( wether it was pizza , Oreos , or candy ) These individuals usually had their lunch bag packed with strictly organic foods or snacks — often raised around almond moms, gym-obsessed relatives, vegetarians, or people projecting their insecurities onto them. It puts the Lilith-2nd person on a pedestal they never asked for. This is also common with heavy 2nd house energy and Chiron in the 6th. It’s not your fault, even if it sticks with you.

🩰 I have my Sun in the 2nd house, and growing up, food was always around me. I had family members who worked at different food places, so eating was constant and unrestricted. Because of that, I never really developed clear boundaries around food.

When I was younger, people would make jokes about my eating habits, which stuck with me more than I realized at the time. Over time, that environment also contributed to certain health issues. I played a lot of sports growing up, so it was easy to manage — movement balanced things out. But once you stop moving your body, you’re often forced to confront what was already there.

This placement also shows up for me as health anxiety. I’m very sensitive to food-related environments — I hate hearing people eat, watching people eat, or eating around others in general. It’s less about food itself and more about control, awareness, and the body holding memory.

TW ~ idealized Tendencies

🩰Placements like Moon square Pluto, Moon square Venus, Venus square ASC, Lilith conjunct or quincunx Moon Pisces moon , Cancer Mars, Mars in Leo, Virgo Moon, Taurus Sun/Moon/Rising, or Lilith contacts often show admiration mixed with envy toward younger women. Not in a weird way — more like unresolved comparison. It’s the tension between who they wanted to be vs. who they became. I notice this a lot in older charts (late 30s+) and celebrity charts too.

🩰Leo Sun men — especially with a Gemini Venus — crave validation bad. I’ve known Leo Sun men with surprisingly low self-esteem, constantly needing approval from everyone around them. A lot of them grow up surrounded by men, which pushes them toward hyper-masculinity and makes it harder for them to connect with femininity in a genuine way.

They love to lean into the “I’m a good guy” persona — which is funny, because no one said you were bad. But the way you communicate can come off… very hoe-ish. Like why are you asking someone you just met to rate you from 1–10?? Be serious

🧖🏽‍♀️Alabama Barker’s chart explains why people project so heavily onto her. Capricorn Sun gets reputation scrutiny, Libra Moon + Taurus Mars amplifies aesthetics, charm, and pleasure — which attracts attention.Whether people like it or not, these placements often attract what they want — but the boundaries can blur. A Libra Moon prioritizes politeness and harmony, sometimes at the expense of discernment, which can make interactions feel surface-level or confusing to others. That’s where the “fake” or “leading people on” narrative can come from — though we don’t actually know her personally, so this is purely observational.

🩰Venus conjunct Chiron (exact) paired with Mars square Neptune is especially heavy. These are aspects I often see in charts where someone experiences betrayal, projection, and misplaced blame — being hurt, then painted as the problem. Mars–Neptune can make others feel entitled to project fantasies onto her, then react negatively when reality doesn’t match the image they created. It can also attract obsessive or disrespectful behavior, regardless of her intentions.

And with themes of inconsistency tied to the maternal bond and a stronger identification with the father figure, a lot of this makes sense astrologically. Add a Sagittarius Mercury and… yeah. No wonder she’s always online ( specifically on live ) saying exactly what’s on her mind .

A little more grace won’t hurt she’s still evolving just like the rest of us :)

For educational (and emotional) purposes only.

• (@Kabaeebaee) ୨୧𓂃☁︎

Side note ;)

If your Black Moon Lilith doesn’t fully click for you, check your asteroid Lilith (1181) instead. Sometimes that’s where the story actually lives. Other asteroids as well ( which I will talk about in future posts :)

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[kabaeebaee]

👻SCREAM 7 👻Vote for what you think carries intent, not attention. Attention is obvious. Intent isn’t

🔪Sagittarius Rising & Juno opposite Lilith at 22°

Mercury conjunct Neptune & Pluto in the 3rd

🔪Chiron in the 10th & MC square Saturn

Sun opposite Mars & Ascendant at 0°

🔪Asteroid Nemesis in the 8th & South Node in the 4th

Mars square Jupiter & Saturn in the 6th

🔪Uranus in the 3rd & Vertex in the 11th

Lilith square asteroid Fama & Mars in the 12th

🔪Venus opposite Neptune & 5th ruler in the 8th

Moon conjunct Mars & asteroid Maniac conjunct the Ascendant

Voting ended onJan 31

Attention is the distraction.

Trust the reaction, not the logic

~ @Kabaeebaee ☾🩸

[kabaeebaee]

Astrology Observations with Bite 🩰

TW~ food, Eating themes & Fantasies

🧖🏽‍♀️Piercing / Tattoo Astro Observations🩰

🩰Capricorn placements (especially risings) should get an industrial piercing. Capricorns tend to have very defined, almost elf-like ears (lowkey one of their best features), and the industrial really enhances that sharp, structured look.

🧖🏽‍♀️Cancer placements — and Cancer Mars especially — are very nipple-piercing coded. Cancer is mommy energy , the chest ( boobs ) . It fits the placement way more often than people want to admit.

🩰Leo placements (Sun/Mars), Mars–Saturn aspects, Mars in the 6th or 1st are back-tattoo people. Leo rules strength, pride, and the upper body — these placements usually have a naturally strong , upper dominant body so back tattoos just work .

🧖🏽‍♀️Libra placements either have a lot of tattoos or none at all — no in between. If they do get tattoos, hip or under-butt placements look insane on them. Libra rules symmetry, hips, and balance… and yes, the bum lol.

🩰Gemini Venus / heavy Gemini placements are very sleeve-tat coded. Gemini rules the arms and hands, but I do notice a lot of individuals with Gemini Venus always have a sleeve . Sometimes it can look overpowering so that’s usually the first thing you notice about them .

🧖🏽‍♀️Moon in the 4th house people go through way more than you’d ever expect because they’re extremely private. Their lives are unpredictable — mood swings, living situations, body changes (physically and environmentally). Especially loud if the Moon aspects the ASC, Chiron, Mars, Neptune, or Uranus. You don’t really know a 4th house Moon until you live with them or watch them adapt in real time.

Mercury–Voice Astro Observation

🩰Mercury conjunct Pluto (especially in draconic), Mercury & Pluto in the 3rd, Mercury square Uranus, or Mercury in Sagittarius — natal or draconic — almost always get comments about their voice. Heavy tone, strong accent, or people constantly asking “where are you from?” even when you’re literally from here . It’s not that you sound fake — it’s that your voice carries weight. People feel something behind your words.

🧖🏽‍♀️Adding Jupiter in the 2nd house amplifies this even more since the 2nd also rules the voice. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter (foreignness, philosophy, travel), so the voice can sound “not local” or larger than life. If you have any of these placements/aspects — what’s your experience?

Speaking of Jupiter in the 2nd house needs to be talked about more. I hate when people only associate appearance with the 1st house when it’s really 1st + 2nd together. Jupiter-2nd individuals often get told they look like they’re from an ethnicity they’re not… and yes, eating habits come up too lol. Jupiter in the 1st or 2nd does not automatically mean someone is fat — aspects matter, especially Venus.

For example…….

🩰Venus conjunct/square/opposite Jupiter → indulgence may show earlier in life.

🧖🏽‍♀️Venus sextile/trine Jupiter → indulgence shows later.

It’s really about mindfulness, not punishment

Degrees matter. A lot.

🩰I have my Sun at 15° and Mars at 15° (Gemini degree), with Mars retrograde in Taurus in the 8th. I’m a slow burner, but when I’m mad? I’ll put someone on blast LOLLLL. The amount of conflicts I’ve had — especially online — because I let anger talk first is embarrassing, like I talk so much mess about people but I’ll laugh while doing it truly sometimes you gotta watch what you say tho . but the thrill is great honestly. It still takes a lot to get me there though… blame Sagittarius Mercury as well .

🧖🏽‍♀️Taurus Mars is sneakier than people admit. Their sister sign is Scorpio for a reason. They don’t react immediately — that doesn’t mean they aren’t processing. They store it. Then days, weeks, months later… they bite back harder and when you least expect it. And that’s when they get called dramatic, bipolar, or liars because “they can’t let it go.” Taurus holds grudges. Be serious. But that’s not only from my personal experience but from observations as well .

TW :(

🩰Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate food control or food shame in childhood. Think being the kid who couldn’t eat what everyone else was eating ( wether it was pizza , Oreos , or candy ) These individuals usually had their lunch bag packed with strictly organic foods or snacks — often raised around almond moms, gym-obsessed relatives, vegetarians, or people projecting their insecurities onto them. It puts the Lilith-2nd person on a pedestal they never asked for. This is also common with heavy 2nd house energy and Chiron in the 6th. It’s not your fault, even if it sticks with you.

🩰 I have my Sun in the 2nd house, and growing up, food was always around me. I had family members who worked at different food places, so eating was constant and unrestricted. Because of that, I never really developed clear boundaries around food.

When I was younger, people would make jokes about my eating habits, which stuck with me more than I realized at the time. Over time, that environment also contributed to certain health issues. I played a lot of sports growing up, so it was easy to manage — movement balanced things out. But once you stop moving your body, you’re often forced to confront what was already there.

This placement also shows up for me as health anxiety. I’m very sensitive to food-related environments — I hate hearing people eat, watching people eat, or eating around others in general. It’s less about food itself and more about control, awareness, and the body holding memory.

TW ~ idealized Tendencies

🩰Placements like Moon square Pluto, Moon square Venus, Venus square ASC, Lilith conjunct or quincunx Moon Pisces moon , Cancer Mars, Mars in Leo, Virgo Moon, Taurus Sun/Moon/Rising, or Lilith contacts often show admiration mixed with envy toward younger women. Not in a weird way — more like unresolved comparison. It’s the tension between who they wanted to be vs. who they became. I notice this a lot in older charts (late 30s+) and celebrity charts too.

🩰Leo Sun men — especially with a Gemini Venus — crave validation bad. I’ve known Leo Sun men with surprisingly low self-esteem, constantly needing approval from everyone around them. A lot of them grow up surrounded by men, which pushes them toward hyper-masculinity and makes it harder for them to connect with femininity in a genuine way.

They love to lean into the “I’m a good guy” persona — which is funny, because no one said you were bad. But the way you communicate can come off… very hoe-ish. Like why are you asking someone you just met to rate you from 1–10?? Be serious

🧖🏽‍♀️Alabama Barker’s chart explains why people project so heavily onto her. Capricorn Sun gets reputation scrutiny, Libra Moon + Taurus Mars amplifies aesthetics, charm, and pleasure — which attracts attention.Whether people like it or not, these placements often attract what they want — but the boundaries can blur. A Libra Moon prioritizes politeness and harmony, sometimes at the expense of discernment, which can make interactions feel surface-level or confusing to others. That’s where the “fake” or “leading people on” narrative can come from — though we don’t actually know her personally, so this is purely observational.

🩰Venus conjunct Chiron (exact) paired with Mars square Neptune is especially heavy. These are aspects I often see in charts where someone experiences betrayal, projection, and misplaced blame — being hurt, then painted as the problem. Mars–Neptune can make others feel entitled to project fantasies onto her, then react negatively when reality doesn’t match the image they created. It can also attract obsessive or disrespectful behavior, regardless of her intentions.

And with themes of inconsistency tied to the maternal bond and a stronger identification with the father figure, a lot of this makes sense astrologically. Add a Sagittarius Mercury and… yeah. No wonder she’s always online ( specifically on live ) saying exactly what’s on her mind .

A little more grace won’t hurt she’s still evolving just like the rest of us :)

For educational (and emotional) purposes only.

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Side note ;)

If your Black Moon Lilith doesn’t fully click for you, check your asteroid Lilith (1181) instead. Sometimes that’s where the story actually lives. Other asteroids as well ( which I will talk about in future posts :)

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Astrology Observations with Bite 🩰

TW~ food, Eating themes & Fantasies

🧖🏽‍♀️Piercing / Tattoo Astro Observations🩰

🩰Capricorn placements (especially risings) should get an industrial piercing. Capricorns tend to have very defined, almost elf-like ears (lowkey one of their best features), and the industrial really enhances that sharp, structured look.

🧖🏽‍♀️Cancer placements — and Cancer Mars especially — are very nipple-piercing coded. Cancer is mommy energy , the chest ( boobs ) . It fits the placement way more often than people want to admit.

🩰Leo placements (Sun/Mars), Mars–Saturn aspects, Mars in the 6th or 1st are back-tattoo people. Leo rules strength, pride, and the upper body — these placements usually have a naturally strong , upper dominant body so back tattoos just work .

🧖🏽‍♀️Libra placements either have a lot of tattoos or none at all — no in between. If they do get tattoos, hip or under-butt placements look insane on them. Libra rules symmetry, hips, and balance… and yes, the bum lol.

🩰Gemini Venus / heavy Gemini placements are very sleeve-tat coded. Gemini rules the arms and hands, but I do notice a lot of individuals with Gemini Venus always have a sleeve . Sometimes it can look overpowering so that’s usually the first thing you notice about them .

🧖🏽‍♀️Moon in the 4th house people go through way more than you’d ever expect because they’re extremely private. Their lives are unpredictable — mood swings, living situations, body changes (physically and environmentally). Especially loud if the Moon aspects the ASC, Chiron, Mars, Neptune, or Uranus. You don’t really know a 4th house Moon until you live with them or watch them adapt in real time.

Mercury–Voice Astro Observation

🩰Mercury conjunct Pluto (especially in draconic), Mercury & Pluto in the 3rd, Mercury square Uranus, or Mercury in Sagittarius — natal or draconic — almost always get comments about their voice. Heavy tone, strong accent, or people constantly asking “where are you from?” even when you’re literally from here . It’s not that you sound fake — it’s that your voice carries weight. People feel something behind your words.

🧖🏽‍♀️Adding Jupiter in the 2nd house amplifies this even more since the 2nd also rules the voice. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter (foreignness, philosophy, travel), so the voice can sound “not local” or larger than life. If you have any of these placements/aspects — what’s your experience?

Speaking of Jupiter in the 2nd house needs to be talked about more. I hate when people only associate appearance with the 1st house when it’s really 1st + 2nd together. Jupiter-2nd individuals often get told they look like they’re from an ethnicity they’re not… and yes, eating habits come up too lol. Jupiter in the 1st or 2nd does not automatically mean someone is fat — aspects matter, especially Venus.

For example…….

🩰Venus conjunct/square/opposite Jupiter → indulgence may show earlier in life.

🧖🏽‍♀️Venus sextile/trine Jupiter → indulgence shows later.

It’s really about mindfulness, not punishment

Degrees matter. A lot.

🩰I have my Sun at 15° and Mars at 15° (Gemini degree), with Mars retrograde in Taurus in the 8th. I’m a slow burner, but when I’m mad? I’ll put someone on blast LOLLLL. The amount of conflicts I’ve had — especially online — because I let anger talk first is embarrassing, like I talk so much mess about people but I’ll laugh while doing it truly sometimes you gotta watch what you say tho . but the thrill is great honestly. It still takes a lot to get me there though… blame Sagittarius Mercury as well .

🧖🏽‍♀️Taurus Mars is sneakier than people admit. Their sister sign is Scorpio for a reason. They don’t react immediately — that doesn’t mean they aren’t processing. They store it. Then days, weeks, months later… they bite back harder and when you least expect it. And that’s when they get called dramatic, bipolar, or liars because “they can’t let it go.” Taurus holds grudges. Be serious. But that’s not only from my personal experience but from observations as well .

TW :(

🩰Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate food control or food shame in childhood. Think being the kid who couldn’t eat what everyone else was eating ( wether it was pizza , Oreos , or candy ) These individuals usually had their lunch bag packed with strictly organic foods or snacks — often raised around almond moms, gym-obsessed relatives, vegetarians, or people projecting their insecurities onto them. It puts the Lilith-2nd person on a pedestal they never asked for. This is also common with heavy 2nd house energy and Chiron in the 6th. It’s not your fault, even if it sticks with you.

🩰 I have my Sun in the 2nd house, and growing up, food was always around me. I had family members who worked at different food places, so eating was constant and unrestricted. Because of that, I never really developed clear boundaries around food.

When I was younger, people would make jokes about my eating habits, which stuck with me more than I realized at the time. Over time, that environment also contributed to certain health issues. I played a lot of sports growing up, so it was easy to manage — movement balanced things out. But once you stop moving your body, you’re often forced to confront what was already there.

This placement also shows up for me as health anxiety. I’m very sensitive to food-related environments — I hate hearing people eat, watching people eat, or eating around others in general. It’s less about food itself and more about control, awareness, and the body holding memory.

TW ~ idealized Tendencies

🩰Placements like Moon square Pluto, Moon square Venus, Venus square ASC, Lilith conjunct or quincunx Moon Pisces moon , Cancer Mars, Mars in Leo, Virgo Moon, Taurus Sun/Moon/Rising, or Lilith contacts often show admiration mixed with envy toward younger women. Not in a weird way — more like unresolved comparison. It’s the tension between who they wanted to be vs. who they became. I notice this a lot in older charts (late 30s+) and celebrity charts too.

🩰Leo Sun men — especially with a Gemini Venus — crave validation bad. I’ve known Leo Sun men with surprisingly low self-esteem, constantly needing approval from everyone around them. A lot of them grow up surrounded by men, which pushes them toward hyper-masculinity and makes it harder for them to connect with femininity in a genuine way.

They love to lean into the “I’m a good guy” persona — which is funny, because no one said you were bad. But the way you communicate can come off… very hoe-ish. Like why are you asking someone you just met to rate you from 1–10?? Be serious

🧖🏽‍♀️Alabama Barker’s chart explains why people project so heavily onto her. Capricorn Sun gets reputation scrutiny, Libra Moon + Taurus Mars amplifies aesthetics, charm, and pleasure — which attracts attention.Whether people like it or not, these placements often attract what they want — but the boundaries can blur. A Libra Moon prioritizes politeness and harmony, sometimes at the expense of discernment, which can make interactions feel surface-level or confusing to others. That’s where the “fake” or “leading people on” narrative can come from — though we don’t actually know her personally, so this is purely observational.

🩰Venus conjunct Chiron (exact) paired with Mars square Neptune is especially heavy. These are aspects I often see in charts where someone experiences betrayal, projection, and misplaced blame — being hurt, then painted as the problem. Mars–Neptune can make others feel entitled to project fantasies onto her, then react negatively when reality doesn’t match the image they created. It can also attract obsessive or disrespectful behavior, regardless of her intentions.

And with themes of inconsistency tied to the maternal bond and a stronger identification with the father figure, a lot of this makes sense astrologically. Add a Sagittarius Mercury and… yeah. No wonder she’s always online ( specifically on live ) saying exactly what’s on her mind .

A little more grace won’t hurt she’s still evolving just like the rest of us :)

For educational (and emotional) purposes only.

• (@Kabaeebaee) ୨୧𓂃☁︎

Side note ;)

If your Black Moon Lilith doesn’t fully click for you, check your asteroid Lilith (1181) instead. Sometimes that’s where the story actually lives. Other asteroids as well ( which I will talk about in future posts :)

You can calculate it on https://www.astro.com/horoscope or https://www.astro-seek.com/

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What are your opinions on Scorpio sun and mercury, cancer moon and rising and sag mars (+Capricorn Venus and Jupiter 7th ) ??

thank you lol , I probably love you :) damn you really dropped the whole chart 🫵🏽 you said “give me the real deal” frfr. I’m not reading charts atm (busy time), but feel free to slide a dm with your full chart + one specific question and we can get to it later. Appreciate the trust.

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👻SCREAM 7 👻Vote for what you think carries intent, not attention. Attention is obvious. Intent isn’t

🔪Sagittarius Rising & Juno opposite Lilith at 22°

Mercury conjunct Neptune & Pluto in the 3rd

🔪Chiron in the 10th & MC square Saturn

Sun opposite Mars & Ascendant at 0°

🔪Asteroid Nemesis in the 8th & South Node in the 4th

Mars square Jupiter & Saturn in the 6th

🔪Uranus in the 3rd & Vertex in the 11th

Lilith square asteroid Fama & Mars in the 12th

🔪Venus opposite Neptune & 5th ruler in the 8th

Moon conjunct Mars & asteroid Maniac conjunct the Ascendant

Voting ended onJan 31

Attention is the distraction.

Trust the reaction, not the logic

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👻SCREAM 7 👻Vote for what you think carries intent, not attention. Attention is obvious. Intent isn’t

🔪Sagittarius Rising & Juno opposite Lilith at 22°

Mercury conjunct Neptune & Pluto in the 3rd

🔪Chiron in the 10th & MC square Saturn

Sun opposite Mars & Ascendant at 0°

🔪Asteroid Nemesis in the 8th & South Node in the 4th

Mars square Jupiter & Saturn in the 6th

🔪Uranus in the 3rd & Vertex in the 11th

Lilith square asteroid Fama & Mars in the 12th

🔪Venus opposite Neptune & 5th ruler in the 8th

Moon conjunct Mars & asteroid Maniac conjunct the Ascendant

Voting ended onJan 31

Attention is the distraction.

Trust the reaction, not the logic

~ @Kabaeebaee ☾🩸

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Astro Film Theory: The Placements That Write the Movies You Can’t Forget

[Viewer Discretion Advised — Contains Explicit & Mature Themes]

Some movies don’t just tell stories—they expose placements.

The ones that hit too close, that feel like your chart is being screened in real time.

These aren’t films, they’re birth charts unraveling in 4K.

Let’s decode them.

🫥Get Out — Pluto in the 4th, Saturn in the 8th

Colonized ancestry. Pluto in the 4th makes the past a prison; Saturn in the 8th forces survival through fear. His body isn’t his anymore—it’s a generational experiment.

🫥Joker — Sagittarius Moon, Chiron in the 5th, Mars in the 6th

Existence as protest. Sag Moon seeks meaning in madness, Chiron in the 5th turns laughter into pain relief. Mars in the 6th is the grind that kills compassion. Society made him sick, then mocked the symptoms.

🫥 Burlesque — Leo Lilith, Pisces Midheaven

Visibility as vengeance. Leo Lilith reclaims the stage they told her she didn’t deserve. Pisces MC turns her performance into prophecy—pain that looks like glitter. She didn’t find fame, she became it.

🫥 What Happened to Monday — Aquarius Stellium, Saturn in the 1st

Individuality under surveillance. Aquarius placements scream freedom, but Saturn in the 1st forces conformity. Seven faces, one identity—it’s the system’s cruel joke on autonomy.

🫥 Phone Booth — Mercury square Pluto, Saturn in the 3rd

Confession under pressure. Mercury–Pluto exposes the rot in your words; Saturn in the 3rd makes every sentence a verdict. He’s not negotiating with a sniper—he’s answering to his own guilt.

🫥 Hypnotic (Netflix) — Neptune conjunct Mercury, Chiron in the 12th

Healing turned haunting. Neptune–Mercury bends words into control, while Chiron in the 12th lets her pain be studied like a specimen. Vulnerability becomes hypnosis when empathy’s a trap.

🫥 The Menu — Pluto in the 2nd, Chiron in the 2nd, Capricorn undertones

Mastery gone rancid. Pluto in the 2nd clings to value until it chokes it. Chiron adds the ache of being consumed by what you create. It’s the artist who realizes devotion and resentment taste the same.

🫥 Luckiest Girl Alive — Cancer Midheaven, Sun square Saturn

She carries her past like proof. Cancer MC hides the ache behind ambition; Sun square Saturn makes every success feel like survival. Her silence wasn’t submission—it was strategy.

🫥 Bad Teacher — Venus square Jupiter, Lilith in the 6th

Pleasure over duty. Venus–Jupiter squares crave comfort, luxury, shortcuts—anything that makes life bigger, easier, louder. Lilith in the 6th rejects the grind entirely—she’s allergic to expectations and only shows up when there’s something in it for her. Underneath the sarcasm though, there’s a woman who’s just tired of pretending effort equals worth.

🫥 Silver Linings Playbook — Lilith in the 7th, Venus conjunct Chiron

Love through damage, not despite it. Lilith in the 7th refuses to be the “nice girl,” and Venus–Chiron makes every connection an act of exposure. They don’t fix each other—they mirror the parts that were never safe to show. This is what healing actually looks like: messy, triggering, and human.

🫥 Ready or Not — Aries Mars in the 8th, Saturn in the 4th

A bloodline test disguised as a wedding night. Mars in the 8th says: survival is inherited, not taught. Saturn in the 4th adds generational rot—tradition as punishment. She’s the first woman in that family to turn victimhood into vengeance.

🫥 Queen & Slim — Venus conjunct Mars in Scorpio, Pluto in the 7th

Love as rebellion, intimacy as war. Venus–Mars in Scorpio burns for meaning, not safety. Pluto in the 7th turns “us” into “against the world.” It’s not romance—it’s legacy forged through tragedy.

🫥 The Girl Next Door (2004) — Venus square Uranus, Neptune in the 5th

Desire that shocks itself. Venus–Uranus is instant attraction that feels like danger and freedom at once. Neptune in the 5th glamorizes it—love as illusion, innocence as marketing. It’s the fantasy of connection that collapses the second you touch it.

🫥 Prisoners — Pluto in the 8th, Mars square Saturn, Moon square Pluto

When protection turns into punishment. Pluto in the 8th lives where morality dies—grief becomes ritual, control becomes comfort. Mars square Saturn gives the trapped, frantic energy of someone who can’t act without consequence. Moon square Pluto is the emotional rot that grows under duty. He doesn’t want justice—he wants the universe to hurt like he does.

🫥 Easy A- Neptune in the 3rd, Lilith in the 11th

The rumor that became religion. Neptune in the 3rd distorts truth through words—say something once, and it grows fangs. Lilith in the 11th teaches her to own the lie so no one else can weaponize it.

🫥The Call — Chiron in the 6th, Moon square Pluto

Empathy as torment. Chiron in the 6th turns duty into guilt; Moon–Pluto replays trauma like it’s a job requirement. She saves others while slowly disintegrating herself.

🫥Level 16 — Virgo Stellium, Venus square Saturn

Cleanliness as control, obedience as armor. Virgo placements here represent survival through perfection. Venus square Saturn—the girls crave approval but fear it at the same time. They’ve been told to be good, to be silent, to earn safety. It’s not discipline, it’s a trauma response mistaken for grace.

🫥 Coraline — Moon square Neptune, Saturn in the 4th

Escapism as defense. Moon–Neptune can’t always tell what’s safe, just what feels magical. Saturn in the 4th adds the cold parents, the loneliness, the craving for warmth in dangerous places. Coraline just wanted to be seen—Neptune gave her a trap that looked like love.

🫥 8. The Truman Show — Sun square Neptune, Uranus in the 1st

A life that isn’t yours but looks perfect on camera. Sun–Neptune blurs identity; Uranus in the 1st starts revolutions just by existing. Everyone’s watching, but no one sees you.

🫥 Beauty and the Beast — Libra rising, Capricorn 4th, Cancer Lilith, 6th & 9th house themes

Love as restoration, not rescue. Libra rising craves harmony; Capricorn roots learned affection through effort. Cancer Lilith hides its softness behind pride. The 6th wants to fix, the 9th wants to believe. Two people teaching each other that vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway back to love.

🫥 Tangled — Sagittarius Lilith, Aries Moon, Gemini rising, 9th & 12th house energy

Curiosity as rebellion. Sagittarius Lilith aches for freedom but gets labeled reckless for dreaming. Aries Moon fights the cage before it even knows the way out. Gemini rising keeps it light, but that 12th house isolation runs deep. The world calls it defiance—she calls it finally breathing.

🫥 Jennifer’s Body — Lilith in the 1st, Sun opposite Ascendant, 8th house stellium

Pretty turned predator, but not by choice. Lilith in the 1st is the girl they ruin, then fear for surviving it. The 8th house rebirth comes with blood on her hands — not revenge, just aftermath. Sun opposite Asc makes her reflection feel like an accusation. She wanted to feel untouchable; instead, she became unforgettable.

🫥 Trust (2010) — Pisces Venus, Mars square Neptune, Neptune in the 8th, Chiron in the 3rd, Moon–Pluto aspects

Naivety mistaken for safety. Pisces Venus wants to believe; Mars square Neptune blurs the lines between affection and manipulation. Neptune in the 8th hides cruelty behind charm, while Chiron in the 3rd turns every word into a wound. Moon–Pluto learns what it means to rebuild from something you never asked for. Innocence doesn’t return—it transforms into wisdom no one should have to earn.

🫥 Blink Twice (2024) — Venus in the 8th, Neptune conjunct Ascendant, Pluto square Lilith

It starts like paradise, ends like a warning. Venus in the 8th wants intimacy that feels like reincarnation—until it turns into possession. Neptune rising glamorizes the cage, makes control look like care. Pluto square Lilith burns underneath it all—power games, pleasure as rebellion, beauty as survival. You don’t escape the fantasy; you outgrow it.

🫥 Wonder (2017) — Cancer Sun, Pisces Moon, Chiron in the 1st, Venus trine Neptune

Softness as resistance. Cancer Sun forgives even when it shouldn’t. Pisces Moon feels everything all at once, turns pain into empathy. Chiron in the 1st carries visibility as a wound; Venus–Neptune believes love can heal what cruelty exposed. It’s not about being seen—it’s about being understood.

🫥 Don’t Worry Darling

Neptune in the 7th — where love becomes illusion. Relationships blur between fantasy and reality, built on projection instead of truth.

2nd house placements chase safety in what looks stable — luxury, affection, belonging — even when it costs them authenticity.

Air risings perform the ideal partner, keeping up appearances until the mask fractures.

When the illusion fades, so does the comfort. She wakes up — and the dream collapses with her.

End credits roll, but the transits never stop Kabaeebaee :)

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Astrology notes written at 12:30pm lol ;)

👛Pisces Moon women tend to get very spiritual as they age, but it lowkey comes off contradictory because their energy be aggressive as hell , it just don’t match. Like one IG story is Jhene Aiko, incense, and moon water… next slide is them arguing or fighting somebody. No shade, just an observation.

👛Heavy 3rd house placements can be difficult to communicate with—not because they’re unintelligent, but because they tend to override conversations, miss subtext, or talk around the point. This can cause others to underestimate them or avoid relying on them. I’ve noticed this most strongly with Mars, Neptune, and Uranus in the 3rd, where communication becomes impulsive, confusing, or disruptive. Other planets here play out very differently depending on aspects.

👛Cancer women can be quiet competitors with other women, especially when they notice someone has something they deeply desire but feel they can’t access. This comparison can disrupt their emotional balance and turn into subtle resentment if unprocessed. It’s not always intentional, but it’s deeply tied to insecurity and unmet emotional needs.

👛Sagittarius mixed with Virgo can be a lot. From what I’ve observed, this combo tends to overanalyze and over-exaggerate situations until everything feels like a crisis. It can come off hypercritical or even “Karen-ish,” though it usually stems from anxiety rather than entitlement. These individuals are extremely sensitive to life in general and struggle with balance. Interestingly, I’ve also noticed recurring themes of physical depletion (like anemia or burnout) with this combo.

👛Capricorn placements reject people easily—not always out of arrogance, but because they’re rarely impressed by surface-level connection. Their standards are high, and basic interaction doesn’t move them emotionally. This often bothers others, who label them contrarian or cold. It’s especially pronounced when paired with 8th house placements or Libra energy, where others expect warmth or diplomacy and don’t get it.

👛Pluto in the 2nd house tends to swing between extreme money habits—either very disciplined or completely chaotic, sometimes both at once. I’ve noticed a tendency toward hoarding (objects, clothes, food, or even money itself). These people often spend impulsively on things they don’t actually need, yet somehow struggle to obtain the essentials. There’s also a subtle intensity to them that can make others uncomfortable without knowing why—this is especially noticeable with Scorpio influence in the 2nd. That discomfort can turn inward and create deep insecurities around self-worth. I’ve also observed struggles with eating or body-related issues, particularly when Pluto is joined by the Sun, Moon, Jupiter, or Uranus in the 2nd. Heavy emphasis on Pluto here amplifies all of this.

👛From patterns I’ve noticed, Libra, Aquarius, Capricorn, and Sagittarius Moons show up a lot in sugar baby, yacht, and OF spaces—especially with heavy 2nd, 6th, or 8th house energy. These Moons tend to separate emotions from survival and value, so transactional dynamics feel safer. Clear exchanges > emotional uncertainty. Structure gives them control, not commitment.

👛If a parent has Mercury in the 5th house, the child may show neurodivergent traits, unconventional learning styles, or early creative intelligence. Communication around play, self-expression, or emotional validation may have been inconsistent, which can shape how the child processes attention, creativity, or social cues later in life.

👛People with Ketu on the 1st/7th or 2nd/8th axis live in a constant state of déjà vu. Their life feels repetitive—not because they’re stuck, but because the lesson hasn’t landed yet. Same situations, different people, different costumes. They’re the friend whose life plays out like a Netflix series, then their FYP randomly starts explaining their exact experience through tarot, synchronicities, or astrology. It’s intense, exhausting, but also a blessing—once they trust their intuition, they become unstoppable.

Especially if they have a life path 5,7,8,9 or 22 ( ik very specific)

👛Sagittarius placements joke to avoid being emotionally cornered.

Laughing ≠ not serious.

👛Kanye West having Pluto in the 3rd house and Lilith in the 11th truly fits because Pluto in the 3rd often feels like the world is against you mentally. Your thoughts are louder than what you actually say or write, yet you still feel compelled to express them anyway, regardless of the backlash you know is coming. And the backlash does come—but never in the way you expect. Since Pluto rules trauma and power, people often act like what you say is out of pocket, disturbing, or too much, yet it always carries weight. They may reject it publicly, but later they remember it and realize how intelligent or ahead of its time it sounded. With the 3rd house ruling communication and social media, this placement often manifests online, where your expression can be polarizing and you may be labeled as “mentally unstable” or controversial (sometimes true, sometimes exaggerated). But as long as the expression feels authentic, you don’t care. Adding Lilith in the 11th only intensifies this—bringing even more backlash, rejection, and projection from groups, audiences, and communities.

👛4th house placements are highly susceptible to energetic intrusion. People often project onto them as “safe,” “naive,” or “emotionally stable,” which invites others to overstep boundaries. Because the 4th house is under the horizon, these natives are deeply private, but not obviously so. You don’t really know a 4th house person unless you live with them or become family—and even then, access is selective. The 4th house isn’t soft or easy; it’s protective, ancestral, and deeply guarded.

👛Taurus women (especially emphasized in the Big 3 or Lilith) can struggle with jealousy — not just romantically, but in friendships and family dynamics too.

This isn’t always loud jealousy; it can come out as subtle humiliation, comparison, or quiet resentment when someone has something they want or feel entitled to.

(Of course, aspects + maturity matter. This is more prominent when undeveloped.)

👛♋︎ ♏︎ ♓︎ Water sign men often act as instigators in drama — whether intentionally or unconsciously.

They’ll stir emotions, provoke reactions, and then deny involvement completely.

If you want the real story, don’t ask them — ask the person who actually felt it.

👛Aries Moon men

(especially at ♉︎, ♓︎, or ♋︎ degrees)

often have unresolved mother wounds and emotional volatility, but tend to deny it or deflect.

They struggle with rejection, take “no” personally, and can act entitled to access.

Everyone talks about ♏︎ being intolerable, but these placements can be just as unhinged when immature.

👛Pluto placements in general are not light work.

Pluto shows where trauma happens and where you can unconsciously traumatize others if you’re not self-aware. It’s heavy, obsessive, and extreme energy — kind of similar to asteroid Nessus (7066) in that sense.

Asteroid Nessus in the 3rd themes; manipulation, power imbalances, abuse cycles, and breaking them.

A lot of Nessus-dominant people were the black sheep of their family or community. You may have had groups of people who disliked you for no clear reason, felt scapegoated, or experienced people trying to brainwash you, control your thinking, criticize your voice, or twist your words.

Strong dislike for your hometown and a deep urge to move away is also common.

👛Not all Capricorn Venuses want older partners.

Some of us just want someone who’s mentally stable, not controlling, not manipulative, and not trying to brainwash us.

Same wavelength > “boring but safe” any day.

👛Virgo Moon women (underdeveloped) can be very easy to manipulate in relationships.

Overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing — bird brain behavior fr 🐦

Developed Virgo Moons are unstoppable but undeveloped ones can get played badly.

👛Mercury in Sagittarius at ♎︎, ♓︎, ♋︎, or ♉︎ degrees often isn’t taken seriously — and it’s weird because they’re not lying at all. It’s more like their tone throws people off. Something about how they speak makes others question them, even when they’re telling the truth. Because of that, they might stop fully expressing how they feel, since people shut them down for no real reason. Ironically, people love hearing them talk… until they actually say something real. Definitely gives “mocked when younger,” but everything they say hits later on. (House placement matters too.)

Placements don’t doom you, patterns do.

(self-awareness is the real dominant placement)

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