#victum

[hale-my-nathan]

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[baphymittens]

BABY!

[catrincasino]

It is not customary to talk about violence in our culture. 

the stereotype of "the victim asked for it is too persistant. but after more than a year, I want to say at least one word anonymously. writing a statement is not "someone's life breaking." when people broke yours, they didn't think about the consequences.

[hale-my-nathan]

Trump Weird News - MAGA, Vance & Assault Rifles

[fairycat11]

Not ok behavior!

Last night I was preyed upon by someone whom I though was my friend. He offered to help me with my physics homework so I took up that offer. I sent him pictures of the homework questions that I was having issues with and then called him so he can explain how he got the answer.

The conversation was totally normal at first. Then he started to complain about how helping me was taking up to much of his time. Shortly after that he started talking about how he misses me and all the things he would like to do to me.

It made me feel very uncomfortable and I voiced my feeling to him. He made me feel bad for voicing my opinion by telling me how lonely he is and how he misses the feeling of intimacy.

I had to remind him I am in a very happy and full filling relationship right now. He then started asking very personal questions about my relationship.

You don't say things like that to someone you consider your friend. It is not ok behavior. And because of that behavior I dont want to be friends with you anymore!

[roxieroad]

Slut

So, i grew up in a society where slut shamming is normal. Like a girl is wearing short shorts, shes a slut, a girl is wearing tight clothing, shes a slut. And the thing is wearing something conservative can get you called a slut too, but whats worse then slut shamming because of the clothes a person chooses to wear, is we slut shame when a girl gets raped. If the girl was wearing a pair of shorts and a tank top, it was her fault because she was provoking the guy, "asking for it, if you will. But, ive also seen it be where a girl was wearing a long sleeve turtle neck and a pair or jeans, and it is still her fault, why you may ask, because she was not showing enough and the guy wanted to know what was under those clothes. Blaming the victum is so common now that if a guy rapes her and she intends to press charges, that guy will try to press charges against her for "destruction of character" to get her to stop. And more often then not, it works. Rape should not be acceptable. We also shouldn't ask what the victum was wearing, because that does not apply to why she was raped. Instead, we should try and help her by getting her the medical attention she needs, taking her to a therapist to talk it out, anything you can do to help her and to get that rape criminal behind bars, end of story.

[salvagedtitle-blog]

To be Truly Loved

“Don’t kid yourself,” she said, “you don’t know what it means to be truly loved by a man. You have yet to find out what that’s like.”

The counselor said this to me. It absolutely floored me. I have no brothers and my father was my abuser. She said, “your father did not truly love you because real love would not have abused you.”

… And this is where I began to really see the selfishness of my father. This allowed me to get angry at my father for what he took from me and how he used me. This anger would show up throughout the following months as it processed its way out of my heart and soul. It was a healthy anger, a righteous anger.

I didn’t expect to be so clueless about what being truly loved means but I guess we don’t know what we don’t know and we can only compare concepts to the closest things we think apply. I have yet to know what it means to be truly loved by a man. #mindblown