I don't like how ppl have opinions on all these #BlackQueens and they're bodies. How ya'll judging ppl and don't know there health condition. There is as many skinny ppl in the grave as heavy ppl! Just cause you skinny doesn't mean your healthy. Personally I was healthier at biggest then I was my smallest #TrillQueen keep doing you! Reposted from @daniebb3 As someone who coined the phrase #voiceofthecurves I’ve muted my voice for a few months now out of shame. I felt shameful of gaining weight. Even though I brought a whole human into the world, I still felt shameful because I wasn’t able to maintain my normal body weight post- pregnancy. And a year later i have only lost roughly 20lbs of a 60lb weight gain. I was quiet in hopes to post that snatch back photo like so many celebrities miraculously do. But that’s not my story. Just like Lizzo, and so many other “fat” girls we should be allowed to make healthy choices publicly without being made to feel like frauds for trying to be healthy. I feel it’s important to share the journey, as a reminder that we are not alone, we ain’t always got it together, and that we are ALL works in progress. So I’m sharing. I’m doing all kinds of diets, cleanses, making all kinds healthy choices. Not because I don’t love myself now, but because I DO love myself, my body and my mind. Bc I want to continue to feel strong and sexy without catching “the sugars” or any other disease. It’s okay showing the in between of growth. You ain’t always gotta have it all the way together. Just speaking from the heart.❤️ ~Danie. 📸@msayles https://www.instagram.com/p/CI3Y-UYsYYJ/?igshid=3nrmpr4vtdcr