Hi! So sorry if your not taking reqs rn if so just disregard!
But I’ve been plagued by like soft dom schlatt just like random little instances? (I literally just had the word in my head and couldn’t think of it forgive me) He probably doesn’t even realize he’s doing it it’s just kind of second nature at this point.
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I will say I think about this a lot too hehe (this is literally just a bunch of hcs of him being a good boyfriend lol).
Jschlatt x reader, MDNI 18+, sfw + nsfw, afab reader, no use of (Y/n)
Wc : 2,117
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SFW :
⋆ Soft dom Schlatt who is such a type A personality that he loves lists and routines for himself, so he naturally keeps track of things for you (especially if you're a little forgetful). Always making sure you take your daily vitamins and drinking enough water. It's very common for him to urge a water bottle into your hands like a silent command. He makes sure you do everything in your morning and nightly routine to the letter and steps in to help if you're too tired to do it yourself. He loves to brush your hair after a long day, it's one of his favorite things in the whole world. You're too ashamed to admit that he has brushed your teeth for you a handful of times too. The type of boyfriend who absolutely takes your makeup off for you if you're too sleepy or drunk after a night out.
⋆ The Schlatt we see on camera who is boisterous and larger than life is the complete opposite in his personal life. He tends to stay relaxed and calm, almost stoic depending on the day. His tone is oh so gentle and loving with you, and he's surprisingly patient.
⋆ He controls the system, not you (if that makes sense). He sets the rules / expectations and then enforces them fairly, leaving you to decide how to act on your own terms (aka if you will or won’t respond to his gentle suggestions). Most of the rules and expectations are for your own benefit too, he’s totally not a secret control freak who just wants the best for the person he loves. He sets the standard and has a gentle authority over you, which eases a lot of your stress. Just be his good girl and all will be well! If not, you know you're in for a looong night in bed (probably tied up and teased until you cry and beg).
⋆ Never bats an eye when you need a shoe tied or a purse held. To an untrained eye, it would look like he’s fully under your thumb, but it's quite the opposite. He has YOU trained to ask him for anything and everything. Schlatt loves to take care of you and enjoys being useful.
⋆ Will never order you to do anything, he 100% gently coaxes you into doing things for your own benefit and so you think it's your own idea. It’s never in a patronizing way, it’s just him being patient and knowing what’s best.
⋆ His hand on your lower back to guide you around. He doesn't even think twice about it. It always makes you feel comfortable knowing he has a hand on you, especially in crowds or unfamiliar places. Sometimes he places a gentle hand on the back of your neck to guide you around when no one else is watching, especially if you've pissed him off a little or act bratty on purpose.
⋆ Schlatt is a decisive man and he knows how to get you to make decisions too. There will never be the infamous “where do you want to eat” conversation with him. He's found out the best way to navigate choices with you, which is to give you an array of choices to choose from and let you pick from his suggestions. If you don't even want to do that, he will simply just pick for you. He knows you hate the choice overload and he loves making straightforward decisions to avoid hassle, so it's really a match made in heaven. Is also known for going to multiple food places for you just so you can have a little bit of everything that you're feeling, even if it is a little extra work on his part.
⋆ Spoils you rotten but never lets you forget who is in charge. He created a bratty and spoiled little monster, but he eats it up every time he gets to really put you in your place. Purposefully lets you get away with things you know you're not supposed to do so his actions and words have more weight to it. Relies heavily on positive reinforcement!
“That's my girl!” “Great job, baby.” “Thank you for doing that f'me, sweetheart.” “You know better than that.” “Atta girl.”
⋆ For as much as he enjoys intimate romantic moments, he loves the occasional grand gesture. Booking your favorite expensive restaurant months beforehand. Planning trips to Japan. Any designer perfumes or shoes you could ever desire. Schlatt handles it all, the meticulous planning to keep something a surprise, trip itineraries, reservations. He doesn't plan big things constantly (even though he has the means to), he just likes surprising you with nice gifts every once in a while to see the disbelief and excitement in your eyes because he never gets enough of it.
⋆ You never dare to touch a steering wheel when he's around. You are his passenger princess always. You rarely open your own car doors, Schlatt likes to casually stroll around to the passenger side and open it for you. It's a perfect time frame to put on lip gloss or check your reflection in the visor mirror.
⋆ On that note, he will always open doors for you. Pulls out chairs for you. Always follows the sidewalk rule. He's so much bigger than you and he uses that to keep you safe and shielded in public. Always leading you through crowds so you can walk behind him to ensure no stranger bumps into you. I think he also would be willing to crouch down so you could sit on his back if your feet really needed a break (he'll grumble about it but he could never deny you).
⋆ Will hold you close to him on the subway too, your back pressed to his chest and his free hand on your waist to keep you balanced. If you're really short, you like to hold onto his bicep to keep you steady instead of grabbing the rails. Plus it's an excuse for you to feel him up a little and he loves it.
⋆ Very much the type to give you the best seats and sit next to strangers so you don't have to (whether it's at the movies, public transport, or wherever else).
⋆ A little softer and more vulnerable in private. Loves to lay on top of you, his head buried in your chest, his arms wrapped around your waist in a tight hug like you're a soft body pillow. Will melt in your hands like putty if you play with his hair when you're both comfortably laying together. Will also whine or grumble if you stop playing with his hair or stop drawing shapes into his back. It's the closest thing you'll get to him “begging” for you to do anything. He’s a big teddy bear softie at heart, we all know this (Mr. Ted Nivison himself said so).
⋆ A bit more dominant and strict if you’re stubbornly independent, but it’s for your own good! Parentified oldest daughters, he is the man for you. Schlatt catches on pretty quickly once you start dating what the vibe is, he’s perceptive. He makes it his mission to never let you lift a finger or take full control of a situation if he can help it. Very big on preparing things beforehand so you never even get a chance to worry, he loves to plan and is a solution guy anyways. It takes time and lots of unlearning on your part, but he wants to make your life stable and easier (I’m pretty sure he was being genuine when he said on a sleep deprived podcast that the one thing he provides in a relationship is stability, I forgot the episode number BUT I am so mentally ill I remember distinctly he said something like that).
⋆ His patience and gentle nature highkey turns you on… like damn okay you’re really principled like that!!! The more he respects you and treats you well, the more you want to be feral and chew on him like a wild animal.
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⋆ I fully believe this man is a soft dom through and through (I’m sorry sub Schlatt truthers). Maybe he'll let you take what you want from him sometimes, or whenever he's lazy and he'll let you ride him for a while. But overall, he needs to be in charge. Most of the time he's respectful and reverent, big on the fact you both are “making love” and not just fucking (although he thoroughly fucks your brains out every time, he’s generous like that).
⋆ Will be mid rearranging your guts or fucking you stupid to coo sweet things in your ear that make you shiver, his tone low and rough just for you.
“S’good f’me baby.” “Gorgeous…” “So pretty sweetheart.” “Takin’ me so well…”
⋆ Schlatt treats you like glass in the beginning of the relationship. He’s a big guy and genuinely does not want to hurt you. The dichotomy of such a big man being so gentle in his touches and lovemaking is so dang cute to you! Took a while for him to be comfortable being truly dominant in bed, you damn near had to beg him to throw you around.
⋆ Ties you up. Always makes sure nothing is too tight on your wrists or ankles no matter how fed up he is with you. Loves to tie your arms behind your back so you can’t touch him while he fucks you hard. If he’s in a real crazy mood, he’ll choke you out with his belt during doggy. If you’ve misbehaved enough he likes to tie you to the bed and hold a vibrator to you for as long as he wants, just to edge you until you cry and beg and convince him that you’ll be good. Teases and talks all soft and gentle while you’re sobbing from overstimulation. Wipes your tears and kisses your cheek softly while turning the vibrator to max.
⋆ Could kiss along your body all day and night. Something about how your heated skin feels in the palms of his hands is so satisfying to him. The soft breaths and moans you let out as he presses gentle kisses to every part of your body while holding you down so you can’t wiggle away is all he would want to do for the rest of his life. Major back and shoulder kisser! He also isn’t afraid to bite you (enough to leave slight teeth indentations) if you’re squirming too much, especially on your inner thighs or ass. His mustache and chops definitely tickle you too, but his insistence at doing it anyway is your favorite part.
⋆ Such a tease. Baits you into misbehaving just to give himself an excuse to be a bit more dominant. Loves seeing you mad or bratty, it’s like a switch flips in his brain. The moment he can see the “oh shit” look in your pretty eyes when you realize you’re in deep is like heroin to him. Imagine mid disagreement and you see that sleazy smirk he does and you realize you’re fucked. Especially if you try too hard to be good all the time, where’s the fun in that? He likes to shake things up sometimes, and if that means poking and prodding you so he has an excuse to stick his face between your thighs until you’re screaming his name, so be it.
“Sorry for makin’ you mad, baby. Just needed you…”
⋆ Loves to pin you down because he knows you can’t move him physically. Uses your size difference to his advantage whenever he folds you in half to devour you. Unafraid to pin your knees almost up to your ears to really get between your legs and taste you. Pins you down by the neck often, but his grip is never too rough or tight. He doesn’t ever aim to hurt you, just a subtle reminder of who’s in charge.
⋆ Aftercare king, I said what I said. He loves to relax with you afterwards (and relax all the time actually), whether that’s a nice bath together or just cuddling. I imagine him being a bit lazy and sluggish after bruising your cervix, but he never skips taking care of you. Likes to lay you on top so he can run his fingers through your hair and rub your back, he thinks you act like a cat and it makes him all fuzzy inside. Lots of forehead kisses and praise during and after, gets very gentle and likes to make sure you know you’re cared for and loved. He really is a sweetheart through and through and will never let you forget it even if he’s a bit firm or rough sometimes.
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