#wankish

[inziladun]

"túrin is so stupid" -- unlike you, brave reviewer, who would surely have mastered your fate ! 🫡

[quickreaver]

Happened upon a fun little naughty SPN event one day...

I’m always looking for an excuse to get iddy! And then this. “The moderators are fully supportive of kink and do not condone purity culture or censorship. However, we have enacted certain content restrictions for this bang. The following content will not be accepted for this bang: Explicit Underage Content, Incest, NSFL (necrophilia, snuff, extremely graphic nonconsensual torture). If you have any questions regarding the content restrictions, please contact a moderator.”

Hate to break it to you, mods, but what you’re doing is exactly condoning purity culture and censorship. So my question regarding the restrictions is: why even run a fandom kink event, in the Supernatural fandom in this, the year of our lord 2022, and disallow not only one of the major ships, but canoodling with unliving bodies (which likely includes just about every vessel and meatsuit an angel or demon has commandeered)? If a mod is squeamish, hey, I get it. I’ve run a ton of events and I don’t groove on everything that’s submitted. People are complicated and sometimes pretty damaged critters, and that’s a heart-breaker. Which is why we require tags for filtering, or get different mods to shepherd those fics that might be an issue for someone. There are plenty of solutions that don’t involve banning some pretty ridiculously common SPN fandom stuff. There seems to be ulterior motives at work here...  🤔 

Thank Astraea that I missed the deadline to sign up as an author, to save me from being a fly in their ointment. Sign-ups for artists are still open, but ha ha ha haaaaaa, NOPE With greater and greater frequency, new events are banning not only ships, but shippers. Not because an event is focused on a particular ship (therefore excluding others, which yeah of course) but because of some flavor of mandating what a good, virtuous fan looks like, and what they’re permitted to create. Despite all the excellent ways we’ve formulated to organize and search/filter our fandom experiences, we’ve still managed to become more judgmental and less inclusive in ways that earnestly make very little sense and don’t bode well for the future of fandom. Fandom is becoming more and more mainstream and toothless, to placate the masses. Seriously, make it make sense. Friendly reminder: if not for a Wincest shipper, there would be no AO3 right now. If not for a J2 shipper, there’d be no A/B/O. YKINMKATO is an awesome thing and paved the way for all kinds of safe, fun, experimental shit, not to mention the realization for a lot of us that we may not be as arrow straight as we thought we were. What’s current fandom so afraid of? Not being enough of an activist in their fictional adventures? CHARACTERS ARE NOT REAL HUMANS, Y’ALL. Fiction, in broad strokes, can influence the mainstream (for example: the popularity of slash fiction contributed to the realization that queer stories actually had an audience), but if fiction alone could make us better people, we wouldn’t need therapists. If it made bigger villains, more D&D players would be a serial killers. My level 16 half-orc cleric would be appalled, okay?  

[lizzybgood]

Misha Stans: Misha is a lead actor.

Foreign press: Interviews only Jared and Jensen, reinforcing that Only Jared and Jensen are important and no one else matters.

[samsfidgetspinnerofdeath-blog]

Thanks to Brianna and Kim's atrocious bts behavior, I don't care if Jody and Donna get killed.

[saintedsam]

Welp, Sam sent him on the mission. 

Garth’s gonna die.

[castielsdisciple]

I’m conflicted about this whole hot topic t-shirt thing. My shirt’s not due to come in until Friday. Do I keep it, or do I return it?

On the one hand: It’s a Destiel shirt. Dean and Cas are on it together--which we don’t get very often, if at all. it was advertised as “destiel”. Even with the “retcon”, it’s still a destiel shirt. And I feel returning it will just send the wrong message that we don’t want destiel merch (which isn’t true).

On the other hand: I don’t want to feel like I’m supporting the BS Hot Topic pulled. I do feel manipulated and conned that they kept it up long enough (4 Days) to make bank, and then changed it and are now claiming “it wasn’t their intention”. 

What are you guys going to do? 

[whyjm]

The Magic of JIB CON

The reason Jibcon has been (is) so special and appreciated through the years by so many of us has to do with other panels than J2 have been presented. All year round Creation spits out cons like candy and at every one of those we get 2 J2 panels. 2 at EVERY con, and it’s the same questions the same old same old over and over again. Misha some years back joined them for a few minutes in the main panel and we got all 3 of them goofing off.. This has stopped completely and I do not know the circumstances around this but can guess SIGHS..

At Jibcon we get the rare opportunity to have a Misha/Jared panel, a J2M panel and a Jensen/Misha panel. Many of us have written Creation BEGGING for panels like this bc we LOVE our boys ALL of them and we LOVE seeing them in different constellations. We got a Misha/Jensen panel at Honcon this year bc of the YANA campaign. That was an exception. Also the UK J2M I do not know if creation is responsible for this con?? Regardless 2 very rare things happened.

ONCE a year we get an opportunity to watch our faves (and we have different faves which is fine to have) interact in a different setting. And let me make this ABUNDANTLY CLEAR to all who screams: “you only care about your ships”…….

That NO we actually do NOT.. We care that ONCE a year we get VARIATION in the panel setups that ONLY happens in one place JIB.  Jib was (Is still???) popular bc of this.

At Jib we get to see Misha and Jared goof of like two buffoons which brings us all so much joy the same with Jensen and Misha.. And when all three of them are together you never know what will happen you can only be sure of one thing: beautiful chaos. These differences in setup is what has been (is) so popular about Jib..  It also helps tremendously to see how much fun the boys have in these different constellations. You can tell they really enjoy themselves and are happy about being there!!

Last year Misha/Jensen panel were cut short for whatever reasons. And this year it was completely erased. The other panels have been honoured but this one has for two years in a row taken hits, so to see people upset about this is quite natural to be honest. This is a panel that is happening ONCE a year it’s a unique and RARE event to see two of our faves have fun and goof by themselves.. Just like we some minutes?hours? before had seen two other faves (mishalecki) being allowed to do. And being disappointed about missing out on this is more than fine and is in no way hate on Jared. Please people understand this now!!!

I hope that next Jibcon is back to ALL panels get their time in the limelight as they are advertised (as before spiteful individuals bombared Daniela and Co with demands and shit pushing her so much that she felt the need to rant on FB and somewhere make the decision to take away the Jenmish panel all together.)

We all deserve to see our faves at least ONCE a year get some ALONE GOOF TIME  together whether it be Mishalecki and/or JenMish.

(for you who don´t read wank don´t read the below about Misha)

This year a bunch of Misha haters sat out to exclude Misha by clogging up the question lines and only ask J2 questions. They came to JIB with the intention of ruining the con for the “destihellers”. Pics of some of their nastyness over this can be seen here on Destilettes post (I KNOW there is more of this on twitter): http://whyjm.tumblr.com/post/173897068102/destielette-destielette-destielette#notes

There is a lot more one can say about this but for now I just leave this here..

[inevitably-johnlocked]

What the hell is wrong with that jerk anon? First of all, if you wanted to use a fictional character to heal yourself (not that I am sayin you were doing that), you would be allowed to that. Who would you be hurting? How dare does a random person try to define you psychologically. I am like really mad. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PERSON?!?!? [On a side note, I am sorry about your mother. I did not know previously anything about your family life. I hope that bad days are behind you]

Hey Nonny *hugs*

Thank you for your kind words; they do mean a lot to me. That anon is clearly very unhappy with their life, and I fear, honestly, that they may be in a similar situation and don’t like the fact that I am slapping truth bombs onto them, otherwise why come at me so harshly – TWICE – when I replied that emotional abuse is very real. I know that it would piss me off, anyway. I really do feel sorry for them. 

And don’t feel bad about my personal situation. I am not very open about my personal life unless I need to make a personal anecdote to help prove a point. The first time I did mention it was in the read-more of this post here, and I have kept mostly quiet about it ever since, because I want my blog to be my happy place, and because I didn’t want this EXACT THING to happen – people accusing me of being biased about Mary – and not tainted with the stink of my mother’s betrayal. I am moving on with that chapter in my life, but I also find that using her is an effective way for people to see that they, too, are being manipulated by people they love. It’s a lot easier for it to be dismissed when it’s a parent, and I only wish to raise awareness for it.

I am actually much happier now; the past does attempt to rear its head from time to time, but my dad’s family are amazing and have essentially been my rocks.

Thanks Nonny, you are very kind <3 Love you!