#wedding gate

[soupy-girl]

it’s insane how the spommy drought ended and it’s somehow not the most exciting thing on smoshblr these past few days

[reiadoesnthavearealname]

Ok, People.com convinced me shartney is real. This is my Amanda moment.

[wntw-virtuemoir-edition]

Where are u Betts? There’s a pic of j&s from their wedding.

i saw!!

i was working on posting this 🔥:

and then got sideswiped by this from the winery:

imma need a better shot of her dress to fully critique their (her choices), but i’ll allow the matching eye crinkles and at least the suggestion of happiness!

[realeyesrealizereallies4036]

Considering Danneel unfollowed Gen and Jared on IG immediately after Clif’s wedding, Mitch claiming Gen stayed home to babysit all six kids is even more of a laughable bold faced lie. They have nannies, nobody needed to stay home. I think he deleted his comment though. I’m guessing no one gave him the green light to post that and he made up that explanation himself.

I forgot about that one. The insta "glitch" that made Elta unfollow and Jennifer's mom unfollow Elta? Iconic.

[reiadoesnthavearealname]

Outing myself as a smosh fan here.

What the fuck are shayne and courtney up to?

[reiadoesnthavearealname]

I have never been more on the fence than I have been with shartney wedding gate. help me.

[lilac-hecox]

First, you are awesome for answering all the asks.

Second, some of y’all need to remember that most of these people are in their 30s. I am a Smosh fan in my 30s. Let me tell you that with maturity comes the ability to be happy for others even if you’re not satisfied with aspects of your own life, that you realized your teens and early twenties were way more dramatic than they needed to be but that it’s because it does feel like that when you’re learning to deal with complex emotions and haven’t had a lot of therapy yet, that years of being an adult and dealing with aging and responsibilities really makes you focus on what’s important and to not feel bad about things you can’t control, and that nobody makes you feel anything unless you let them.

You also learn that friendships might take a “pause”, but with the right people, when you can finally get together, the love is still there and it will feel like no time has passed at all since you’ve seen each other. Friends understand that life gets busy as you get older and may not see each other as much.

I don’t remember the last time I agonized over being excluded. There’s always a reasonable explanation for everything. And sometimes, my friends don’t owe me an explanation. Their lives, their choices. Being bitter, if I had any reason to, is just such a waste of energy. I have better things to do.

All this to say, I agree with you that it wasn’t that serious, that if I had to guess I would say Damien is joking and having fun but also really wants anime and v/o stuff back in his timeline because he’s a fucking weeb (/affectionate), and that overall, he’s probably really happy for his friends who are in love.

(Also, if it was me, I have zero interest in constantly seeing videos of my real-life friends kissing and staring with longing in my timeline. Just no. I would probably ask for cat and nature memes myself but everyone has a preference.)

I’m the old man yelling at clouds aren’t I? Oh well, thanks for reading if you got this far.

That's a good point! I just think that it isn't that big of a deal or there are no real bad feelings. I mean, I have even seen Smosh fans say that the oversaturation of Courtney and Shayne's wedding has made them feel overstimulated in a way so I can only imagine someone who is closer to them also feeling overstimulated in a sense over the subject.

[lilac-hecox]

I think Damien found out that his "best friend" got married at the same time as us.

I don't blame him for being "bitter" and "paggro."

I really don't think that it was a total surprise. After all, on FWS, Courtney said she was getting married. Ian also commented, inferring he knew it happened, just surprised that they dropped the knowledge on April Fools. He and Shayne and he and Courtney are all very close. I really, really do not think Damien was in the dark about the wedding.