Surround yourself with passionate and inspiring beings
Choose an environment that has a lot to teach, exposes you to a world outside your comfort zone and challenges you as a person to unlock the potential within you. But more than just being around inspiring people chose an environment that understands you emotionally and mentally. Supports you, even during your bad days. Makes you feel fueled rather than drained. Gets you going. Chose the people who encourage, believe, support and add positivity in your life. The people who bring the best in you.
Negative Environment
You will meet people that will degrade you, make you feel negative about yourself and feel you are not worthy. It may not always be through their words, attitudes, actions but simply through their vibe itself. Personally, I would say change your environment, because you may not realize this at that moment but you are definitely worthy of so much more and indeed have a lot of potential within you. Or you can change your mindset, in such a way that you don’t have a care as to what they say or how they try and make you feel. You chose to believe and see yourself through your own eyes rather than theirs because honestly speaking them not seeing your worth does not decrease your personal worth. You have every right to be a part of a better environment, surrounded by people who nourish you with positivity and love. The ones who make you see life from a better perspective.
Insecurities (Negative Emotions)
I am blessed to be surrounded by such beautiful and loving people. They all have something to teach or the other. I feel grateful to have them in my life until I let my negative thoughts get the best of me. Their act of kindness triggers the insecurity and inferiority in me. When I meet someone and get to know their thoughts and opinions I feel like I am so left behind in life. I feel as though I am not worthy to be around them, as though I am inferior to them. But then I ask myself am I going to let my insecurity stop me from growing? I can use their actions as a teaching and implement it in my own life. I can learn through their actions, speech, and thoughts. I have learned it is only through making an effort to uplift yourself are you able to inspire the people around them to do the same.
It is okay to copy other people, after all, it was through imitation of our parents and the people surrounding us we learned to talk, walk and carry out basic needs. We should be okay with the idea of imitating the good actions of others, being inspired and wanting to implement what intrigues us. We should constantly learn and radiate it out in our unique vibe. Instead of being jealous and letting the negative emotion get to you, learn, implement and later on with time you will have the quality in you as well. We need to realize whoever we are right now, is just temporary. We go through problems, we endure, we get hurt but we grow through them. We are constantly changing.
One thing that helped me keep pushing past insecurity is using it as a motivation to overcome itself. By working on your strengths, working towards your passion to the best of your ability. Being better at something you are good in. If you feel there is a weakness work on it, getting support and help from others is not bad. Let their Strengths help your weakness bloom and your strengths to bloom there’s. Eradicate the idea that asking for help is a sign of weakness because they are ones who will help you grow to a person who is capable enough of helping others the same way.
I just wanted to let you know seeing all these inspiring people don’t forget you are beautiful, hardworking and intelligent too! You chose to be the person you want to be.There is always room for change and hope as long as you live!
- @beautiful-sensitive-soul
