#wehurt

[aishayros-blog]

[thecpdiary]

We hurt, we hurt others

We hurt, we hurt others because we’re hurt, but that makes us very much like the people who hurt us. It makes us just like them.

If we are to judge how lovable we are, based on someone else’s inability to love without hurting us, we will eventually acquire an inaccurate view of ourselves. The reflections of love we acquire from those we love, are not always reciprocated.

It’s not that others will consciously choose not to love or hurt us, but their experiences based on their own unconscious thinking is the reason for their inability to show love. Growing up, we base our ability to love on the love we receive from others, this is particularly true of parents and siblings.

When that doesn’t happen, the mirror image of what we see becomes our inner voice. No matter how much we defend our corner growing up, when it comes to put-downs and criticisms, on a subconscious level we will begin to believe what we hear.

We buy into the flaws reflected in the mirror, even though we consciously know our loved ones are distorting their impression of us. But we can change that. Nothing’s set in stone enough for us not to change.

I would often use reflection as my tool to understand my life. I believe that if we reflect long enough, the bigger picture becomes obvious enough. That some of the issues we think that are about us, are other people’s issue of us and that’s not the same thing.

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[ifaabeyo]

#wedance #welove #welaugh #wecry #wehurt #weheal #wegrow #wehug #wecook#wecreate #weremember #wefly (at New York, New York)

[moonleaflove]

“We hurt, we burn, we bloom” ... all beneath the light of the moon. *Thank you @buffy_thrive for this one! #hurtburnbloom #cxx #wehurt #weburn #webloom #webloomfromwithin #bloombeneaththemoon 🍃🌙🍃

[thebluesjane]

SOME THINGS THAT BREAK, DON’T GET MOSTLY FIXED // by: ajpzn 🌹

I saw you with your blue shirt on & Your glasses that fit your face perfectly I saw you smiling or more likely you were grinning You were telling a story & you were laughing

I saw your eyes gazed up to mine I didn’t flinch, I didn’t move You blinked… Twice, thrice But you didn’t smile

I saw you walking passed by me The rigid heartbreats stormed my entirety You looked straight ahead You didn’t looked at me

People say people come & go But is it necessary? Or is it uncalled for? People come but it’s a choice to let go Why was it so easy for you to go?

The last time I saw you You were happy Your eyes were smiling I saw you happy without me

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…And that broke me

[underwearmodeling]

Being black is like showing up to a costume party you were personally invited to and you're the only one wearing a costume. Even though your costume is fly af and you look beyond lit, people are staring at you. And you can't tell what the nuanced look on most faces mean, but some make you really uncomfortable. There are however, some nice people at this party who are kind enough to offer you a change of clothes, but you really like your costume and don't see why people care so you decide not to change. They stop talking to you before the night is over. Despite having to navigate this party and deal with awkward interactions as well as some down right assholes who go out of their way to make it known you are out of line and need to learn your place at this party, you find two or three gems who make the rest of the night a tolerable event; maybe even fun. This, my friend, is what it feels like to be black. Except at the end of the night we don't get to go home and take off our costumes and feel at peace knowing that this will never happen again. No. We go home, lick our wounds, and fix our face in preparation for the next battle. One that might cost us our life

[yuki-rakuen]

Brin and I aren't wind fans. #beagle #cuddlebuddy #wehurt

[sgavenue-blog]

When your short and can't get a full extension😐😐😐...Mel got me a bench though, because that's what friends do✊ #BarbaricBeings #FridayNightTurnUp #ShortGirlProblems #TypicalFriday #WeHurt #OffSeason #NPCFigure #TEAMSG #DoWork #TheRealSupergirl #FitChicks #GirlsWhoLift #girlswithmuscle #shoulders #biceps #growingseason #bodybuilding #BrolicLife #TeamVentura #fitfam #fitlife #figurecompetitor #aesthetics #alpha #TrainHard @_princessmeathead (at Mr D's Ultimate Fitness Patchogue)