#what a drag

[notsogroovybaby]

sometimes youve gotta just edge and then take a nap

[burstnova]

[inthemoodforblastt]

Tradwives are happier than you'll ever be.

You literally admit you're depressed. Most girlboss types do. What's wrong with a woman wanting to choose happiness?

Depression is a genetic issue for me; becoming a tradwife wouldn’t have magically made me less depressed because it's in my genes. BUT statistics show that single women live longer and are happier and psychologically healthier than married women. It’s also been shown that single women suffer less from stress-related mental health problems than married women. So no, I don’t believe that, because the statistics contradict your claim, and because I’d rather be a depressed woman in my own home doing whatever the hell I want than be depressed while also having to deal with a man’s bullshit and his uselessness in everyday life. Save the pathetic pick-me, dick-riding speech for someone willing to buy into it, I have two degrees, and I’m not falling for it.

[therealeststruggles101]

So I'm back up on my bs, getting back into dating and right away find a decent match who I can chat with easily and otherwise seems like he'd have potential. That is until he took me back to his place and has his kids pictures up, which I have no problem with other than that he didn't have it in his profile and didnt mention having a kid for the 2-3 ish weeks we chatted before meeting, and then I had to actually ask him about it even being in his apartment surrounded by the photos for him say anything. Ok maybe he's guarded thinking it'll kill his chances sure, and he says he coparents and its only a first date so I didn't try to pry too much. 2nd date comes around and I stay the night and we sleep together yeah yeah ik my sister gave me an earful about intentional dating at my age and all that jazz but the next morning before I leave he tells me more about his coparenting and visit schedule when I ask since I do enjoy his company and our chats and would like to see him more and thats when he drops the bomb that he's married and they live separately and thats why his coparenting situation is very complicated at times but they try to be reasonable and flexible about things and live 10 minutes apart and he of course helps take care of bills for them. Idk how to feel about this, im not like emotionally invested in him its only been about a month since we started chatting after meeting on OKCupid but I did delete that dating profile after this confession of his. Maybe its my fault for not asking more sooner, I figured maybe messy ex gf situation or one night stand that ended in a baby or something like that cuz it happens and plenty of people coparent. But im not sure really what to think of the whole debacle or how much to trust what he has told me so far. He said he just prefers to let dates ask him and he has no problem answering, but shouldn't this type of stuff be brought up sooner rather than later? I can imagine it'd be embarrassing and probably prevent alot of interested profiles otherwise but I dont wanna get stuck in the middle of a marriage. Idk if im ready to date intentionally necessarily but I thought there might be potential with this guy for a moment ya know? Now there's certainly no promise of a future and this definitely seems like just a search for easy fun since they dont get along and I really hate being used for my body. Its a big part of why I stopped dating for the last few years entirely since it seems like men only ever view me for their pleasure no matter the environment or context or how adamantly I tell them I'm not looking for just hookups. I feel a bit betrayed since ive been as open and honest about my baggage that would be dealbreakers for plenty of people and I just thought id get the same in return but ig thats what I get for thinking. So ig I'll go back to having guys in rotation for when I want attention that way on and off as my desire for intimacy fluctuates as I'm finding I identify most with being aceflux more than anything else. Such a shame people can be so charming and sweet just to get what they want but I already knew that and its my fault for even bothering to try again that I allowed myself this disappointment once more. Sigh, if you can't beat em, might as well join em right? At least I think that gives me more control of my expectations so I dont have those feeling things become a problem when inevitably men do what they do as usual.

[spacenoirdetective]

Enzo Sciotti, movie poster art for "Cop in Drag", 1984

Words escape me. Here's a look at a poster with live action stills.

This was an Italian film. Am I the only one who thinks he looks like a young Patton Oswalt in drag? It looks like The Birdcage/La Cage Aux Folles as a buddy cop movie.

[emmaline0-o]

got a leadership position and still feels like nobody takes me seriously

[emmaline0-o]

i'm so gonna fail the SAT i might aswell just not go to college atp

[emmaline0-o]

i am not ready for today