Hi! Can I request how seventeen would react to a girlfriend who's a bit closed off, like she's not really open about her feelings? Thanks so much! Love your blog btw~
Thank you very much for the compliment and request! Here you go:
S.Coups:
would find it hot? tbh would be into the idea of being your Most Trusted
would be very patient to an extent, but after he bares his soul to you and cries in front of you multiple times he might start to be concerned that you donāt trust him, and would do anything to prove to you that you can tell him things without worry
when you do tell him things, he would TREASURE the moment and thank you for your faith in him very sincerely and remember the details forever
Jeonghan:
would not know quite how to deal with it at first and would be afraid to be vulnerable in front of you
once he realizes itās just a part of who you are he learns to tell all the different subtle ways you sayĀ āi love youā and show your feelings without verbally exposing yourself, and heās all the more enchanted by youĀ
he LOVES to tease you about it though. loves to make you admit you love him in front of people and see you get flustered
Joshua:
he would be flustered and fascinated by your cool calm image, and would kind of love how put together you seemĀ
both of you might end up in little fights though after not confronting problems head on (him because he avoids confrontation, you because you arenāt so ready to say how you feel about things) so youād have to learn how to work together without accidentally hurting each otherĀ
but if anyone can get someone to open up, itās quiet, good listener josh, so maybe you would surprise yourself with how much you feel safe telling him, and even if itās just a bit, he would really appreciate it!!!
Jun:
jun would be fascinated and he would AMP UP that constant flirting to a ridiculous degree just to try getting any reaction he couldĀ
he seems very good at reading his members insecurities, so he would probably be the same with you, and it might scare you a little even because he seems to know you so well
a very patient person in general, so heās going to be very happy letting you take it at your own pace, and heāll back off as soon as he knows heās smothering you
Hoshi:
this bright light of a boy is going to be so caught up in jokes and banter at the start that he may take a while to work out youāre a bit closed off with deeper things
would be very upset to think he canāt be your shoulder to cry on, but if you reassure him that youāre actually more open with him than anyone, it will open his eyes to your perspective and heāll be VERY FLATTERED
would try to coax more info out of you by being ridiculous and embarrassing until you canāt resist him (and thereās less worry about opening up when heās clearly willing to humiliate himself in front of you already)
Wonwoo:
heās the same in all honesty. maybe not even closed off, but just with a general lack of that urge to share that some people have
but he does love deep conversations after all, so he probably likes staying up late and venting frustrations that he will tell to you and only you, and it takes him a while to get used to the fact that you donāt willingly reveal as much, but he loves the moments when you do even more because theyāre rare
has a little catalog in his mind of every personal thing youāve ever told him probably. and he never EVER forgets
Woozi:
another boy with a lack of ability to share. we all know woozi gets grumpy and lashes out before heās willing to unload to another person, so he 100% understands you
might cause problems if you both just bottle up and close off and refuse to say anything meaningful, like a stubborn battle of the wills, i-wonāt-be-vulnerable-if-you-wonāt thing
but woozi is also logical, and because he cares for you he would eventually get some advice from coups or something, who would tell him to just SHARE. and you would be able to follow his lead because you know he gets that itās hard, but heās doing it for YOU
DK:
as an oversharer himself, heās intrigued by your lack of openness, and iāll admit it kind of draws him in even more in an opposites-attract kind of way
probably builds up a lot of worry thinking he should also try to be as closed off as you until one day he EXPLODES with feelings and emotions and you have to deal with comforting him that of course he can tell youĀ stuff. itās just harder for you to do the same.
once he knows that closed off is just the way you are heās your biggest defender whenever other people are trying to get you to spill a secret
Mingyu:
very VERY attracted to your closed off nature because i think heās someone who likes some mystery in a relationship
probably accidentally offends you sometimes by making you feel vulnerable in front of other people or teasing you too much, because he can be thoughtless at times, but always apologizes after with those puppy eyes of his Ā
loves to make you flustered with a very open soul-bared compliment and loves nothing more than to hear your grudging āi love youās in response
The8:
will take a while for the8 to warm up to talking as well, so maybe the two of you will work through it together
problems may arise with this savage boy if he accidentally hurts your feelings without realizing, and since you donāt like to make it clear, he might take a while to learn when something is off with you
but as soon as he gets used to the signs he will be the best at very firmly reassuring you without you even needing to say anything. so matter-of-fact and no-room-to-argue that you can know for sure heās being honest and trustworthy.
Seungkwan:
he cries all the time so he would be surprised to fall for someone so different, but he would kind of love feeling like he has someone strong in his life
would probably get sulky with your continued closed off nature at some point and would worry that it reflected your feelings for him. would definitely need you to explain, but once you did, he would tell you he would just have toĀ āfeel enough for both of youā and give you the sweetest smile, and become okay with it
the best at giving unexpected hugs when he spots that something is going on with you. no need to talk, but just that solid warm comfort
Vernon:
vernon is such an understanding person that heās there to fully support you for being yourself no matter what that is
he is also a very thoughtful person though so would want to discuss deep topics with you and might be discouraged if you hesitated to show some part of yourself, since he believes in honest communicationĀ
but most of all he would be patient with you and willing to learn how to make the relationship work as a team, both getting used to each other, and both consciously working on how to become comfortable and close
Dino:
dino would appreciate the lack of drama that comes with you not wanting to constantly talk about issues- he gets enough drama from his hyungsĀ
he could be uncertain though (because itās the maknaeās first relationship and everyone would be giving him so much advice it would be confusing) and worry it was a sign of you not trusting him
but he would be so genuine with his love that it would become very clear to you that itās safe to talk about some things to him, and he would appreciate even the small things he learns about your inner thoughts














