#whatisgender

[yourstuliply]

been questioning my gender identity A LOT lately

it's like

am i a woman

am i even a person???? i barely get out of bed

[spacedwarf-cemetery]

× kiss the pain away × . . . #makeup #genderbend #piercing #pierced #whatisgender #nonbinarymakeup #fuckgenderroles #gendermakeup #malemakeup #menmakeup #gentlewoman #femaletomalemakeup #femaletomale #wig #longhair #beard #beardlove #makeuplover #blonde #blondehair #draginspired #drag #curlyhair #curles #facepaint #lipstick #redlips #suit #freckles https://www.instagram.com/p/BmdQa66BmmW/?utm_medium=tumblr

[intersexbutch]

Genderfluid struggles

1. I want to be able to have multiple sets of pronouns for when my gender changes (because I have recently started to be more fluid with most all genders, probably genderfaunet), unfortunately as i'm also transmasc i have had people use both she/her and they/them against me to intentionally misgender me and i don't think i have healed from that or will ever which is unfortunate because i think i would benefit from using he/she/they right now in my gender experience. i tried finding neos that i liked to use instead, but kinda came up empty because none of them fit like i would want them to. i do use xe/xir (or ze/zir) just because those give me euphoria but they don't really have what im looking for on days that i'm more feminine, or androgynous.

2. i honestly still doubt my genderfluidity everyday because even though i am clearly never going to settle on a label sometimes i still feel like i'm just a "confused" boy who likes feminine things. and even if that is the case my fluidity is still valid. like what even is gender if not just an inherent feeling within you that can change as you change and even if i find out later that i prefer to only identify as male later that doesn't diminish the fact that i am genderfluid/androgyne now.

[agentddddheaven-blog]

Gender vs Identity

Gender is what's in your pants.

Identity is the social role you choose for yourself.

This isn't a difficult concept. You can have a dick and call yourself a female all you want when describing your personality. Your gender is still male. Just male. People and organizations promoting the idea of 100+ genders are spreading misinformation and it is counterproductive to the education of young people.

It's not wrong to give yourself a different role than might be traditional for your gender, but short of surgery and/or hormone treatments you have not changed your gender. I'm happy to use whatever pronouns you want me to when talking to and about you, but as soon as you tell me that's your "gender" I consider you a dumbass.

[brooklynwildlife]

People often ask if I’m gay or straight or...? I never answer them. I always ask .. why does it matter ? (Unless you are hitting on me). Life is about love 💕 . Shouts to all the folks that are out celebrating this weekend. I want to express love and solidarity with people all over the world. As pride becomes more commodified and mainstream.. keep in mind that stonewall was a riot. Being yourself is a beautiful thing and I appreciate every person that is brave enough to be themselves in a country where just being how you were born can get you killed. In all the hoopla this weekend, have fun but also remember the people.. the humans, the ❤️. Remember the struggle and the need to keep pushing society.. the oppressor will never stop on their own accord. Only we save we. Peace and love - stay safe. #pride #whatisgender #love #brooklyn #parnhash https://www.instagram.com/p/BzTw7XJlUQa/?igshid=g529i9krcxss

[wonderfulworldofawhovian]

That moment when you realise you may be a little bit trans

[addirockart]

Song: This is the Best Artist: USS (Ubiquitous Synergy Seeker) Album: advanced basics #lyrics #self #selflove #selfportrait #selfie #uss #ubiquitoussynergyseeker #thisisthebest #whatisgender #masc #genderbend #fluid

[nameyourgender-blog]

What Gender Is v.s What Gender Isn’t