About the sexuality thing, it can actually really damage people if a very personal thing (true or false) becomes a mainstream idea. I read recently that Heechul had an identity crisis when he realised everyone was serious about him being gay and that's why he's less feminine now. Suga is his own person and we shouldn't speculate anything, especially as these speculations usually come from homophobic lgbt sterotypes.
exactly? why should we associate certain behaviors with lgbt and press this false assumption on people who act a certain way? being lgbt is nothing to be ashamed of and the stigma around the community needs to be erased but it still makes it hella uncomfortable to accuse someone of being lgbt when they’re not. for example, during my freshman year of highschool, me and my bestfriend were often asked if we were dating eachother/we were lesbians because we were really comfortable with eachother (tied eachother shoes, shared food, were really touchy, and got “sad” when we were separated in class, etc) but it made things so uncomfortable for us bc we’re straight and didn’t want to be known as the lesbian couple bc that’s not what we identify as? and bc of this, we stopped having the intimacy that we previously had for a little bit
