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unpopular onions fresh from rain! / accepting.
i think people are mean and that’s bad. i just genuinely think that on socials, esp tumblr and twitter, you’re very much encouraged to be a dick. i’m not talking about like, dragging transphobes or whatever ( though sometimes i do very much get the vibe that it comes not from any desire to actually hold anyone accountable or whatever so much as people just salivating at an excuse to be cruel ) but like...not every “good faith but kind of cringey” take needs 500 people dunking on it or justifies being needlessly mean.
and i know there’s like the Thing on the internet where everyone labels themself as mean and i hope it’s joking but a lot of the time it isn’t. it’s genuinely just that fucking...middle school desire to bully your lessers. being unkind or aggressive in contexts where it’s not 100% warranted is not cool, and even when it’s technically “deserved” it’s exhausting how often i’m just left thinking ‘you don’t care about this, you just want to do harm and be applauded for it.’ i don’t have an interest in meanness anymore. i’m a grown ass adult and the world sucks already. i’m not interested in making myself feel better by making another human feel sad or judged for anything that doesn’t really matter.








