What do you think of wlew mlem? (Women loving exclusively women, men loving exclusively men) trans are included just not non-binary
I don't like the acronyms very much (no real reason, they just don't sound good to me) but I have zero problem with the identity. I'm (pretty much) exclusively attracted to women, but even if I wasn't, I have no right to say I dislike someone's identity.
I will say it's probably not accurate to define attraction as 100% exclusive, or say you will definitely never be attracted to a nonbinary person, because it could happen. Not in a "you just haven't found the right enby yet" way, just... be aware that it's a possibility. At least for me, attraction can be very looks-based, and nonbinary people can look like anything. I might see someone who I think is a woman, and find them very attractive, and actually they were nonbinary but I had no idea. There are so many people I see and think are hot, odds are some of the "women" I've checked out were nonbinary.
Also, it's important to note that "woman" and "nonbinary" and "man" are not separate or mutually exclusive categories. Some women are men, some men are nonbinary, some nonbinary people are women. There's a lot of nuance in gender. I'm usually not attracted to nonbinary people that I know are nonbinary, but there's been the occasional demigirl or nonbinary woman I'm still interested in.
So, attraction is a little more complex than attracted or not attracted to nonbinary people, but wlem and mlem would be useful if, for example, someone wanted to make it clear they wouldn't pursue a relationship with a nonbinary person. I think they're neat terms and if you want to use them, live your best wlem/mlem life.
