[luvrof]

wlew (women love exclusively women ) i love u so much we’re so cool tbh 💪 us >>

[luvrof]

"being a lesbian is inherently gender non conformity 🥺" Do you realize just how Misogynistic you sound 😐 bc essentially what i'm hearing is "womanhood is solely liking men" i'm not gender non conforming by simple not being attracted to men, because attraction to men has nothing to do with womanhood. i am just as much of a woman as straight women bye

[fallacious-faggot]

Men DNI on lesbian blogs hurt my heart lowkey. Like... I understand but there's also male dykes and lesbians who are trans and it just... I of course respect that but I'm one of y'all like... it hurts.

[luvrof]

HELP ??? "Male ****???" What does that even mean 😭

+ Men DNI =\= trans people dni, so maybe try not demonizing lesbians and trying to portray us as transphobic... ur not slick

[fallacious-faggot]

I mean. Not really. I've literally been attacked for IDing how I do and sent death threats due to the TERFism a lot of lesbians have downloaded into their brains. I didn't say every lesbian. Now did I? But its sure as fuck a lot.

[luvrof]

You're literally a man co-opting the lesbian label because you don't wanna be straight. Maybe that's why lesbians attack you? Lol. It doesn't matter that you're not a cis man, you are still a man.

[luvrof]

omg i forgot all abt his but i saw this tweet and it was saying the kids from turning red were in a "platonic polyamorous relationship" ??? 😭 twitter users discover friend groups !!

[luvrof]

lesbians of tumblr — i want your opinion !

does anyone else dislike being called queer? like, listen, if you call me queer i'm not gonna correct you because whatever, i technically am, but i'm not gonna be into it, you know?

like i'd so much rather be called a lesbian. lesbian works fine, you don't need to say queer . and it feels like ppl often use the term queer instead of lesbian bc they're like afraid to use it or something . idk just me rambling

[luvrof]

think i'm gonna change up my blog layout! i wanna start being more active on here!!

[fallacious-faggot]

Men DNI on lesbian blogs hurt my heart lowkey. Like... I understand but there's also male dykes and lesbians who are trans and it just... I of course respect that but I'm one of y'all like... it hurts.

[luvrof]

HELP ??? "Male ****???" What does that even mean 😭

+ Men DNI =\= trans people dni, so maybe try not demonizing lesbians and trying to portray us as transphobic... ur not slick

[transman-pheonixwright]

trans men attracted to women are not lesbians. nonbinary lesbians are valid (bigender, agender, etc) but binary men cannot under any circumstance be lesbians.

You've never listened to a trans man lesbian, have you? Thankfully, I have, which is why I understand them much better than I could have on my own. Some reasons I've heard from (actual) trans man lesbians whom I have known for identifying the way they do:

Before coming out, they were in lesbian spaces. After coming out, they still have ties because many of these spaces were the first places they could explore their gender without fear

They're trans men and nonbinary (which means you're lying when you say you accept nonbinary lesbians). I know a genderfluid/bigender (cannot remember exactly) person who calls themself a trans man and who identifies as a trans man AND genderfluid/bigender. They also identify as a lesbian

They call themselves a man as a simple way of communicating that they experience their gender in a masculine way

They just identify as a lesbian. And as trans. Maybe even as a man. Maybe man-adjacent. Maybe it's none of your fuuucking business (it isn't).

You aren't the authority of lesbianism OR of trans manhood, and I find it interesting to see you accepting nonbinary lesbians only when they fit your narrow parameters (in that you're "validating" nonbinary lesbians but you bash against a lesbian who describes themself as a trans man).

This ask is serving "women and nonbinary people" realness. Listen to trans man lesbians before running your exclusionist mouth in spaces you aren't welcome in. You got a nasty case of lesbophobia and transandrophobia.

[luvrof]

me when i'm a lesbophobic lesbian bc i say men can't be lesbians

[luvrof]

just saw someone on tik tok saying trans men can be lesbians bye 😭😭

trans man cannot be lesbians. men cannot be lesbians. i don't care if you "identified as a lesbian before coming out 🥺🥺🥺" you're not one. you're straight. trans men can't be lesbians

[luvrof]

i hate tik tok so much sometimes. there was this video last year of this trans woman saying that genital preferences were transphobic and that gay people can "absolutely change what they're attracted to". that's literally just homophobia. like you're just regurgitating pro-conversion therapy rhetoric under the guise of being woke or whatever.

i'll write up a longer post on this w/ examples of the disgusting shit i see people say

[luvrof]

i literally fucking hate pick me men. like men that go "ugh i hate men"... YOU are a man. the amount of times i've heard men , both queer and straight, talking about how they hate men, or how men suck, or how they hate being attracted to men bc they hate men ... is astounding

like literally shut the fuck up

[luvrof]

people on the internet throw around the word "terf" so much and it's so weird. terf is an acronym , it stands for trans exclusionary radical feminist. terf is not a synonym for transphobe , like some of y'all seem to think it is. and when i say that, i'm not saying terfs are not transphobic -- because they absolutely are. what i'm saying is that not all transphobes are terfs. it's like a hot tub/jacuzzi situation, yk? all terfs are transphobes but not all transphobes are terfs.

y'all will see a cis woman (ESPECIALLY cis women are are lesbians) say ANYTHING regarding sex/gender/sexuality that you disagree with or find problematic and label them a terf. it waters down what a terf is.

for example: there was this girl on twt or tik tok or smthn that said that cis women are oppressed for having uteri and vaginas and stuff and ppl labeled her a terf ?! despite the fact that, in her other posts, she had said multiple times that trans women are women and that they face misogyny just like cis women.

or those lesbians who said they were only attracted to women and not women + nb people -- ppl labeled them terfs ??

if someone isn't a radfem, they can't be a terf. if someone isn't exclusionary to trans women (in the sense of excluding them from womanhood), they aren't a terf.

y'all drive me nuts sometimes LMAOOO

[luvrof]

idk who needs to hear this but not being attracted to non-binary people is not transphobic ... and i know that like 90% of the people who see this will think "well yeah, obviously, nobody disagrees with this statement" but apparently there are people who genuinely think otherwise.

i saw a post months ago where lesbians were saying they were WLEW -- women loving exclusively women -- and you can have whatever opinions you have on people making a diff flag for that; whatever, it isn't what i'm talking about -- but people in the comments were literally calling these women terfs for saying they were solely attracted to women. like they specified in the post that they were attracted to trans women as well so people wouldn't assume they were terfs , as people like to throw that word around all the time.

i also saw a comment on a post where a gay man said he was only attracted to men and he said that someone called him transphobic for it. and some rando replied and was like "that's literally transphobic". they spent forever arguing WITH NON BINARY PEOPLE about it being transphobic, despite the every other non-binary person in the comment thread saying it wasn't😭

like please go outside and stop worrying about who random faceless nameless ppl on the internet are or are not attracted to 😭💀 it's so weird

[honeyrolls]

Heart Parfait / Heart Latte

[luvrof]

looking at that r/mensrights subreddit and it's literally 50% men just rebranding issues that stem from misogyny as "misandry"

"gay relationships are illegal in some countries but lesbian ones aren't" yeah people don't view wlw relationships as legitimate because they don't involve men 💀 like yeah it's awful that male homosexuality is illegal but let's not pretend like lesbian and bisexual women have some sort of societal privilege over you 💀💀

[luvrof]

happy halloween

[luvrof]

one of my biggest pet peeves is when, in the comments/replies/etc. of a post about the fetishization of WLW, mlm bring up how "mlm are fetishized too!!1!1!1!"

mlm & wlw will never have the same experiences with fetishization. while yes, both are bad, they are nowhere near the same nor will they ever be.

let wlw talk about how they experience fetishization and the experiences unique to US without men trying to insert themselves. it's so fucking annoying.

[andrewszombie]

one of my pet peeves is also equality.

[luvrof]

yup checks out