Softness has never come easy to me. Strength, stoicism and harshness is where I feel most comfortable. • I’ve spent time cultivating softness in my life but it was never for me. It was always because I made others uncomfortable by being too much. Yesterday I decided I wanted to start practicing my softness, for me. • The softer side of things, the sitting with myself is where all my emotions bubble to the surface. And if I’m 100% honest it’s not my favorite place to be. • It’s been easier to stay stoic and avoid them. To lean into my strength and drive in these moments. To allow them to carry me through. But this is when I need the softness most of all. • So this morning I spent 20 minutes with myself in the mirror softening my edges. Being soft and sensual for me. Not for anyone else. • So often as women our bodies’ beauty is something to be possessed by others that we often forget to cultivate this soft, beautiful magic just for our selves. • Do you lean more towards strength or softness? Do you practice whatever doesn’t come naturally to you? How? • - • - • #sensualselfiechallenge #sensuality #soften #softness #createcultivate #learningtolovemyself #learningtoloveme #sensual_women #movementculture #selflove #womenempowerment #womenpower #womenstuff #grlpwr #loveyourself #loveandalliscoming (at Denver, Colorado) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpFtAqzAwNn/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pe6d7efag5k3
