Tauradonna was never really a thing
There are a lot of comparisons out there of Adam being the abusive ex-boyfriend kind of character even made by crwby but I don’t think Adam and Blake were ever really in that kind of relationship.
I don’t think Adam was every really in love with Blake and Blake wasn’t ever really in love with Adam. I think Adam used her as a crutch to deal with his crippling Inferiority Superiority complex and Blake likewise “used” him as an object of worship and not an actual person. That isn’t to say Adam isn’t crazy or abusive, it’s the love/boyfriend-girlfriend part I’m questioning form both sides.
Adam insecurity is obvious in so many ways but the most obvious is his brand. Adam is never seen without covering it. Not in private or with people he trusts, never. Even when he took off his mask in the forest he immediately covers it with a black blindfold and continues on that way as he’s all alone, following team rwby through the wilderness and probably only encounters Grimm. His entire character song is Adam convincing others and himself he’s the “warrior” they need to lead them to salvation, that he’s their champion. His entire character in v4 and 5 is about power, control and how he falls apart when he has neither.
Adam is the only villain who has literally no one close to him, even Roman had Neo, Emerals and Mercury have each other and arguably, Cinder. Salem has her faction, even fucking Jacques has his son. Adam has no one, only in his character short is his relationship with Sienna truly revealed but even there, it’s snippets and it’s clear that Sienna is kind of manipulating him into turning out the way she wants him to. (Although no any of the other examples aren’t exactly healthy, they have a lot more emphasis relative to their respective screen times). Before or after there’s no one shown to be particularly close to him at all.
Characters with Inferiority Superiority complex and very little people close to them will often put others down to make themselves feel better, Blake referrences this when she says “he was making her feel small”.
“But!” you say “He called her my darling and my love”. Yes, he did and he also uttered the most over the top lines possible for an abusive ex. I believe adam knew Blake was in love with him (or something like that as I’ll get to) and was using that against her, indeed to break her mentally. But I don’t think Adam ever truly loved Blake, he needed the stability and worship she brought for his crippling insecurities and just as crippling ego.
Yang says something along the lines of “the person you were pretending to be.” but I don’t really think Adam was consiously always trying to pretend to be something just for Blake. I think his descent into the person he is/was today was slow as the character short obviously tried to show. Adam started out as the person Blake saw, he just fell from grace. And Blake idolised him, Nevemore uses the word “infatuated” and Blake herself says she was blind to his faults, saw him as justice at first but slowly started to see him “for who he truly was”. Adam started out as justice and slowly descended into “spite”. Blake just didn’t really want to see that at first, she was too busy propping him up onto a pedestral of the saviour. She didn’t make promises to the man “Adam was pretending to be” she was making them to who Adam used to be and to the person she had a hero complex about.
In that sense, I don’t think Blake ever really loved Adam, but rather the person she wanted him to be in the same way Adam doesn’t love Blake now, but clings to his version of her. And it was never real love to begin with but more of a very unhealthy co-dependency.
What you should not take out of this:” It’s all Blake’s fault, she should have known better and not lead him on!” or “Blake should have stayed with Adam to make him a better person” or “Adam is actually blameless in this and his past excuse all his actions”. You should take this as: Adam was a very broken person before Blake met him, he still is, and they had a very unhealthy relationship where they both used each other and Blake saw this and got out but Adam never did or didn’t care and didn’t try to do better” Also Blake was years younger when this happened and Adam should have been better but he wasn’t and part of the reason why he wasn’t, is his past.















