unsure of whether or not to define myself as arospec because romance is confusing and the choices are either A) I do not feel romantic attraction or B) I am at least slightly in love with all of my friends. Why the Fuck
(claiming 💿 as a signoff if it hasn't been claimed already)
it can be hard to figure out how you feel and what label feels best for you. Remember no matter what you identify with, labeled or not, you are valid. :)
perhaps you could look into Quoiromantic/WTF-romantic?
“the feeling of not being able to distinguish romantic from platonic attraction and therefore being unsure if one has experienced it” source
It sounds a lot like what you are experiencing, and is an arospec identity. however, only you can decide the best identity for you.
