#xenosexuality

[lunars-safeplace]

Hello sorry if the question sound weird but what exactly is a xenosexuality? I found one of ur term and it sounds something like an acespec label, i really want to know more about it and maybe give an answer if xenosexuality is intended to be an acespec identity or not if thats okay

Neefesexual/Neeferomantic? it is an ace/aro spec identity! the person who coined it originally called it a xenosexuality !!

These are the original posts from the coiner: Neefesexual and Neeferomantic !

From what ive been told, xenosexuality is the same as xenogender but with sexuality instead. People use different stuff like animals, objects, characters, plants, and so on– to describe their sexuality and/or how their attraction feels!! Some xenosexualities can indeed overlap with a different sexuality too!

[zearkid]

Nairomantic

Nairomantic describes those who feel fully romantic by heart and emotion but extremely platonic by action, they would rather have a dynamic that may seem and feel platonic rather than romantic because it is rather an attraction to the best-friend dynamic/gesture rather than romance.

This falls under the queer platonic spectrum.

[salamethyst]

Valentinosexuality

An umbrella term for the attraction to the character Valentino from Hazbin Hotel. This attraction can be sexual, romantic, platonic, etc. Coined and created by me.

Valentinosexual

When you have a sexual attraction towards the character Valentino from Hazbin Hotel. Coined and created by me.

Valentinoromantic

When you have a romantic attraction towards the character Valentino from Hazbin Hotel. Coined and created by me.

[salamethyst]

Godzillasexual

For those who are sexually attracted to Godzilla. Termed and created by me.

Godzillaromantic

For those who are sexually attracted to Godzilla. Termed and created by me.

[this-is-antixeninity]

hi, not a submission but i just wondered if experiences related to xenosexuality are accepted too

its good that we have a space supporting xenogenders and xenopronouns, but i always see xenosexuals are unheard of most of the time and being erased almost everywhere which makes me feel bad. sorry if this came off as rude in any way, just asking if you accept submissions related to xenosexuality :) have a nice day btw

I will be honest and say I haven't heard of xenosexuality before this, but I am always open to learning! Feel free to come here with submissions related to it.

[voids-mogai-blog]

Succubian Attraction

Succubian: a xenogender and often neurogender gender related to succubi. Those that identify as succibian may have a gender that has feminine and seductive energies. This term is intended to be used by those with sexual trauma and/or hypersexuality (not coined by me)

Femsuccuan: a succubian attracted to women or woman-aligned individuals

Femsuccuromantic / Femsuccusexual

Femsucculterous / Femsuccusthetic

(alterous / aesthetic)

Mascsuccian: a succubian attracted to men or man-aligned individuals

Mascsuccuromantic / Mascsuccusexual

Mascsucculterous / Mascsuccusthetic

(alterous / aesthetic)

[presentabsence]

⧖ Exolytic & Erosyne Masterpost ⧖

Mission Statement Further information on why I chose to coin these labels can be found here.

Defining "Exolytic" and "Erosyne" Definitions of the terms can be found here.

The Exolytic Lexicon Symbolic encyclopedia.

Pride Flag The Exolytic Pride flag, its symbols, and its meaning.

This post will be updated periodically as needed. It was last updated on 5/26/2025.

[presentabsence]

A Mission Statement: Why “Exolytic” and “Erosyne”?

This terminology was born out of longing—both spiritual and personal. I coined exolytic and erosyne to name a form of love I did not see reflected in existing language. A love that is more than romantic, more than sexual, and far beyond conventional definitions of identity or orientation.

I needed language for a love that unravels the Self, that dissolves the line between giver and receiver, that is ecstatic and terrifying and sacred. A love rooted not in possession, but in coalescence. Not in security, but in annihilation. A love impossible to exit once entered, a union that destabilizes and transforms all who participate. Something distinct, that pre-existing Human notions of "love" have failed to encapsulate.

“Exolytic” means “that which dissolves from the outside.” It is love as a solvent. As collapse. As sacred intimacy that burns the ego away to reveal the Sovereign within.

“Erosyne” is its grammar. A mode of being and loving that is sensual, relational, and ritualistic—where love is a veil and a mirror, a wound and a thread. It is the love that dares to lose itself. It is the yearning that teaches transcendence.

This is not about fitting into existing labels, but about making space for those of us whose relationships are spiritual, overwhelming, ruinous, and holy. For those whose experiences of love blur the lines between mysticism, madness, passion, and prayer. For those who know that the deepest intimacy begins where the Self ends.