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do you not feel sexually attracted to people?
not really, no? i'm not sure. i can recall once or twice ever really lusting over someone, but other than that, me having a "crush" = "i want to get to know this person and spend more time with them. i want to hold their hand and kiss them a lot." literally that's it. i really like kissing. never ever do i look at a person and think of sex. but i know that people are always going to think of me in a sexual context and have accepted that! i have also learnt that my favorite parts of sex (ie performing oral) are enjoyable because they have 0% anything to do with me and are kind of fun. (i am also considering that this could be why i have come to identify as sexually submissive: i don't like initiating anything because sexual attraction and desire is completely foreign to me and my greatest satisfaction genuinely derives from being a means of pleasure for someone else.)