The matching process is done and most, if not all of the people that joined the event is already sending messages to their Xingmi Valentines. However, we’ve gotten a few messages from people that still want to join.
For that reason, we decided to open a new batch of submissions so keep reading for the details below:
ɴᴇᴡ ᴅᴇᴀᴅʟɪɴᴇ: January 29th
ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ʝᴏɪɴ: To enter, you simply need to reblog this post and also fill out THIS short form so we can match you with the best Xingmi for you!
If you know someone who would like to join this event, share this post, spread the word and get the chance to meet another awesome Xingmis!
After filling in the form, follow our blog for further updates and make sure your ask is open to anons too!
(╯•﹏•╰) don’t know how to turn on the anon option?
Don’t worry hun, we got an easy explanation in our small F.A.Q ε=(｡♡ˇд ˇ♡｡）
If you have any other doubt we didn’t explain in our F.A.Q then please, don’t hesitate to send an ask or dm us! ヾ(o✪‿✪o)ｼ
Here are some answers to some of the questions that we’ve gotten so far and that will help you to know how this event will work. We’ll be updating this post as the event goes on. Feel free to ask us anything ∠( ᐛ 」∠)＿
How does this event work? (ʃ⌣́,⌣́ƪ)
It’s quite easy. You will be matched with two other people. One will be YOUR secret Valentine and the other for who YOU will be the secret Valentine.
Before January 24th, we will message you to give you an URL. That URL will be the person who you will be the secret Valentine. You will message them on anon and just chat and befriend them. While you are messaging your Valentine, someone else, shall be messaging you as well.
The point of this event is to make friends and get to know a fellow Xingmi/EXO-L.
Can I still join the event? (๑ּగ⌄ּగ๑)
Yes! The deadline to join the event is January 17th. You still have time to join.
What are the tags for? (๑•́‧̫•̀๑)
If you’re not following your Secret Valentine and you don’t want to make it too obvious, you can track the responses with the hashtags and the other way around. It’s easier to look for those posts through the blog with them.
I don’t have my ask box turned on, or my anonymous option. How do I turn them on? (◞ ๑⑈௰⑈)
For desktop users:
Go into your settings, on the right sidebar, under “Blogs”, you will see a list of blogs you have. Select the right blog, then in the main page, you can turn on both options under the “Ask” section.
For mobile users:
You can only turn on anonymous option through the internet site (NOT through the app). From the dashboard page, go to the top left corner of your screen and click the icon with the three horizontal stripes. From there, click “Settings”, and then “Account”. Select the blog that you want to turn ask and anonymously ask on for, located in the right sidebar. In the main page, you will see an option to turn on those options.
so i wrote this for @itsabouttogo-go as a vday present but it’s a day late because i fell asleep last night before i could post it im SO SORRY
anyways
here you go beautiful, i hope you like it ♥♥♥ and happy valentine’s day from your xingmi secret valentine~
There are moments when Junmyeon reads comments from netizens and wonders how all of these people can think that his group is not a family, that they do not love each other as brothers do.
He sees it every day, with every interaction between them, in the dorm and at the studio and in the practice rooms and during interviews and onstage at their concerts. There are so many instances of it, between every possible combination of his members and then of course as all nine of them.
(Those times as nine are much rarer now, with the political tension between their two countries, but about once every couple of weeks Baekhyun yells for them all to come to the living room where he’s FaceTiming Yixing and they scramble for seats, squishing each other to get closer to Baekhyun’s phone, and the fond smile Junmyeon always catches on Yixing’s face as he watches Baekhyun direct everyone around warms his heart.)
They all love each other, they do, but sometimes Junmyeon sees Chanyeol and Baekhyun and wonders what it would be like to have someone that matches him that perfectly. The two of them are always in sync, knowing what the other is thinking, and when one starts the other immediately follows. They make each other laugh - and by extension, the rest of the group, and they’re there for each other whenever one of them is struggling. Junmyeon’s been witness to their playful attitudes with each other and how much both of them light up around the other, and it makes him want to protect their friendship even more. They really are like platonic soulmates, he thinks, remembering all the times they were being interviewed and Chanyeol kept watching Baekhyun whenever he talked and the PDs kept telling him to look at the cameras instead, and then of course every time the two of them do a live on V App, giggling and hitting each other and just having a great time.
And then there’s Jongin and Kyungsoo. Two of their quietest members, both very introspective, and yet so comfortable around each other it’s like they’ve been friends since birth instead of a little over seven years. At least he thinks it’s seven years. He can’t remember how long they’ve all known each other now, it just feels like they’ve always been like this. Especially around those two. They don’t show it as much as Baekhyun and Chanyeol do, or even as much as Minseok and Jongdae, but Junmyeon sees Jongin wrap his arms around Kyungsoo after a hard practice and he watches Kyungsoo pull Jongin into the kitchen with him at their dorm so he can make another attempt at teaching him how to cook and he catches the two of them grinning at each other during their ending ments at concerts, and he knows that the bond between the two of them is as strong as any other.
His mind drifts to their ninth member and he smiles. Every single one of them loves Yixing, and he them, but it’s Baekhyun who shows it the most. The two of them are almost as inseparable as Baekhyun and Chanyeol - when Yixing’s in Korea - and it always makes Junmyeon smile when he sees Yixing grinning at Baekhyun’s antics, and when one of them surprise backhugs the other their loud laughter makes Junmyeon’s heart expand with love. They bring out the softer sides of each other, and Junmyeon finds it amusing how Yixing is the only one out of the group who still folds after a single round of Baekhyun making cute faces at him. They’re so playful, always happy when they’re together and able to make jokes and tease each other, and Junmyeon loves seeing them be that joyous.
There are moments when Junmyeon reads comments from netizens and wonders how all of these people can think that they are better as a group of eight, that Yixing does nothing and contributes nothing. Those articles make his knuckles go white. He deletes them out of their mentions so that hopefully the members (but Baekhyun especially) don’t see them, but they always frustrate him to no end.
Yixing is the most hardworking member out of all of them. There is absolutely no doubt about that. Junmyeon is always on him to sleep more, to rest more, to not push himself so much, but Yixing never listens. His determination is remarkable and his stubbornness leads him to keep going, to keep pushing, until Baekhyun has to enlist Junmyeon or Minseok’s help to carry Yixing to bed when he comes to Korea. But that’s not to say that what he produces is subpar, because it most certainly is not.
All of them own copies of both of Yixing’s albums, and he always catches Baekhyun humming along to What U Need or I Need U before concerts. Baekhyun also made them all watch every episode of the Chinese dramas Yixing’s starred in - Junmyeon’s not afraid to say they cringed the entire way through Operation Love, but he caught Jongin and Chanyeol crying during the finale of The Mystic Nine and he might have shed a few tears during To Be A Better Man - and they’ve watched his movies as well during their weekly movie nights - and he knows Kyungsoo’s sent him a review and tips for every one. And surprisingly it’s not Baekhyun but Jongdae who sits the group down for a Go Fighting binge watch, because they never really see that side of Yixing and it’s so refreshing and wonderful to see the older cast members take care of him. (They all pitch in to send Huang Bo flowers after they watch that episode in season two.) Yixing is so dedicated, so strong, and he bounces from fanmeet to movie set to recording studio and back with little to no rest, and they can all see just how much passion he puts into everything he does - and he still manages to stay humble, always bowing and refusing to accept compliments and pushing praise to others instead of taking it for himself. And then there’s his dancing. No matter how hard the rest of them work, Yixing is just so far beyond them in terms of innate skill (well, except for Jongin) - and he continues to work even harder, to push himself and his body to their limits, and it’s awe-inspiring, it really is.
He sometimes doubts himself, though, and Junmyeon knows that Yixing sees the articles too, that he’s under immense amounts of pressure and that his brain constantly chants “not good enough” and that’s why he keeps working so hard, so they all do their best to shower him with love. Not in public, since that makes the political situation much more difficult, but over their private group chat and with individual messages and during Skype sessions and whenever he manages to meet them for dinner.
Because they are nine.
Nine members of a family; nine brothers with bonds of friendship that bind their hearts together. Together as one.
Happy Valentine’s Day from your Secret Xingmi Valentine @exosvisual !! I hope work isn’t getting too hectic for you and if it is i hope these pictures help! <3
Idk it's just.. me being dumb like it's not that ppl don't like me or my blog I just... don't know?? ahjdjdjkf uhhh i pretty much can listen to any genre.. I don't have any favorite tho, I'd listen to anything ^^ -💘
Ohh, I hope your day was nice!!! -💘
shgsalhglsakhgsalhkg i am so excited to find out okay how could i be disappointed??? youre awesome!!!
perfect~
it was good! i’m heading to bed now though so i’ll see you when i wake up! ^^
💕💕❤️ omg I hate group projects with a passion!!!! Sorry you have to deal with that :( ❤️💕💕
Ik, my post wasn't even about a group project jfjfjjg those ppl are my so called friends LMFAO but yeah me too... I can't escape them though I'm in like 3 differents groups rn ://
hey, thanks for your kind words 😣💗 you're so sweet!!! I feel a little bit better, and hopefully id feel even better soon! ^^ valentines day is so close and im a bit nervous of you knowing who I am sbdbjfj like idk if you'll be happy idk lmao I don't wanna disappoint... >.< okay... anyway, do you have any songs/playlist that are really chill to like, listen to when you're doing homework? Or any recommendations? ^^ -💘
good i’m glad you feel a bit better! 💖💖💖💖💖
slkahgsahgjskla shutttttttttt i am so excited to find out who you are okay like you could never disappoint!!!!
i have so many recommendations okay but it really depends on what kind of music you like! do you prefer more upbeat songs, songs with more of an r&b feel, sad emo slow songs, happy slow songs, r&b chill, smooth chill, etc? i already know you like exo blackpink and red velvet... hmmm..... what are some of your other favorite artists/songs/genres?
