Heya! I'm Stormy. Please use he/him/his or ey/em/eirs for me. I make a lot of queer content and I don't shut up about gender! See my Carrd for more info (It has a list of my current projects and other work.)
⚡ Blogs:
@your-bigender-big-brother (multigender positivity and more)
@database-of-maverinities (an archive of maverine identities)
@stormy-archives (an archive of queer content in general)
@the-otherspace (alterhuman nonsense, artwork, and worldbuilding)
♡ Hello! I’m your bigender big brother, and this is an inclusive space for to talk about being bigender (and more!) I’m hoping to connect with you by sharing common experiences and hearing your unique stories.
All of my coined terms are on the YB3 Wiki if you want to check that out, and my Carrd has links to my other work!
♡ Other important links:
YB3 zine on Instagram
Ko-Fi (It has a shop page!)
Inner Space Discord server
Bigender resources on Fandom
Queer-focused essays
Stormy Talks YouTube channel
Similar blogs to follow
Database of Maverinities blog
Personal archival blog
♡ No matter what your gender experience is, you're very much welcome here!
- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚
(Tags, BYF, and further info under the cut. It’s a bit wordy!)
♡ My tagging system:
bbb.txt - regular positivity text posts and some discussions
bbb.ask - asks ("anon" or [username] will be tagged)
yb3.zine - issues of the YB3 zine from Instagram
bbb.prompt - occasional prompts for interaction from the community
bbb.update - blog and project updates
bbb.reblog - posts reblogged from myself; largely unused now
bbb.flags - pride flags I've created
bbb.coining - terms I’ve coined
gender troubleshooting - gender-related questions and advice
gender of the day - highlighting key genders with concise explanations
♡ This blog does not support:
Fakeclaiming, gatekeeping, and general bigotry toward marginalized communities.
TransID usage and radqueer identities.
Transmisogyny and MRA stances.
Proshipping, MAPs, and anti-recovery "pro-paraphilia" stances ("Proshipper" exclusively refers to incest and underaged shipping.)
Anti-religion, anti-spirituality, and religious extremism.
Anti-veganism and vegan extremism (By all means, critique the movement as needed.)
"Kinning" or choicekin identites.
Neutrality on any of these stances.
This is not a DNI and I don't block much. Just please do better if you're going to be in this space. Also, I hold myself to the same standards. I need to be better too!
♡ I believe that all gender and orientation experiences are valid, and that people know themselves better than anyone else. They can use whatever labels make them feel safe and secure in their identities.
♡ This blog's focus is on inclusivity and positivity, and I will do my very best to uphold that whenever I post or respond to asks. Trolls will not be paid attention to, but I'll take the time to educate them whenever possible. Please let me know if you need a particular post tagged for whatever reason. I will try to use tone tags, but I often forget to do so. Just know that my tone is always in the range of /gen, /nm, and /pos. If you're going to interact with me directly, you will need to be accepting of tone tags. If tone tags are in your DNI, feel free to reblog or like my posts, but don't contact me.
♡ I don't believe in documenting every single thing a person has done wrong, particularly if this is not ongoing behavior and this person does not hold any power in the community (putting everyday people in a callout post is vastly different than putting a celebrity in a callout post, especially given the permanence of such a choice.) I believe in rehabilitation in conjunction with taking accountability. I believe that who a person is right now matters more than what they’d done in the past. If you’re doing your best and making an effort, then you’re welcome to interact, but there cannot be repeating bad behaviors. I hold myself to that as well!
♡ This blog was created as a space for me to better myself and contribute more to the queer community. I will never overstep boundaries because some people will (rightfully) be uncomfortable with my presence in this space and that's okay. I try my best to keep to myself here and continue posting informative content on multigender identities and others. I also plan to help archive coined terms because I believe queer history is important (even when the person contributing to its archival hasn't been a good person in the past.)
Note: Feel free to add my terms and their flags to wiki sites, Carrds, Instagram stories, Bluesky posts, and any other space meant to be informative. Please wait until a term is added to the YB3 Wiki before adding it to another website, if possible. Click here if you want to see a database on Drive of every flag I've ever made. If you requested a flag from me, it’s yours. That flag can be used, remade, and uncredited to your heart’s content. Please do not "recoin" or "reclaim" any of my terms. If it seems a term was coined with a bad definition, send me a message and we can discuss changing it.
♡ Thank you if you've read this far. Feel free to ask me anything at all about my genders or my experiences with queerness in general. I'm always here to enlighten and educate.
