#yeah !!

[vero-lynn]

Today... today sure has been a day.

[mousetail101]

Ummm I feel kinda weird asking this but can people not use the word/slang "twin" for/with me ?? It makes me uncomfortable, however werid that might seem !!

[etclouie-rambles]

what if i said i've got 11 chibs series ideas in planning..?

[akechi-if-he-slayed]

i feel sympathetic for nate in the same way that i feel sympathetic for homelander . To be quite honest

[scrapped-stars]

[mind jumpscare. .]

[technically this drawings already posted but i'm posting it on this account because. . .yeah :3]

[really proud of this one !!]

[wuyoob]

okay so. ive decided i think... that wuya will be on a small hiatus while i decide what i wanna officially do with her. ive talked w/ a couple people, and gotten some unbiased ( non rpc ) opinions on it, and while i still feel pretty bad about her and where she sits at current. i dont wanna shelf her, i love her too much to do that. and i think i have enough people who love her too that it'd be unfair of me to nuke her just because i feel a little bad n have a little doubt in her as an oc / muse.

so i think... ill just minimize my presence here. and do some work in the bg, to figure out some of what's been making me so anxious when logging on here. like my canon muses are just fine. it's literally just wuya that's been eating me alive for the last week.

[selfship-confession-box]

Unpopular opinion(?): I know this might get taken the wrong way but I think a lot of people in the selfship community are ruining the experience for themselves because they care too much about others / what others think and focus on pointless stuff. Like how others perceive their selfship, the amount of attention / validation they receive, what anyone might say about their f/o or etc.

At the end of the day this should be a source of comfort and joy, not a cause for stress or competition. When we start obsessing over every little detail and comparing ourselves to others, it can really take the fun out of it.

And I say this as someone who has also struggled with these feelings a lot, I know how easy it is to get caught up in the small stuff. But I promise that distancing yourself from it and focusing solely on your selfship can make a huge difference.

Let's try to remember why we started selfshipping in the first place and make it a positive experience for ourselves ♡

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