@lambdatauri answered:
: i think dysphoria is more about your “phsyical sex” feeling foreign to you; i think this is probably not fitting with gender stereotypes :> well i think it coudl fit. i consider myself non-binary, with no further or more explicit definition since i am still pretty new to the gender discourse and such, so my biological sex is definetly foreing to me. i don’t feel like it. and if no one points me out that i actually have breasts, i am fine with being just a “they” me. i even FORGET that i own a vagina? those things do not tie me at the “ beign female” prospective. they are just things i have like bones and blood. they dont MAKE ME FEEL female.. but when i am in front of people who see me for what i look like and assume i should and will have certain desires/ behaviours/ looks… that’s when it get upsetting to me. but maybe you are right and i am overreacting. i just had a normal discussion with my grannies soon after havign wrote that post and for several hours later that day i honesly thought havign breast surjery wasnt that bad of idea. lookign outside how i feel inside. for others more than for me really, but i guess they wouldnt understand( not out of malice, more out of genuine incapability of getting it) really so it’s not even worth bothering about i, is it?