DID trans guy(*technically i'm xenogender + agender + a trans guy) positivity is when we had our first experience with binding.
now, see, nearly every system we know tends to have at least one headmate of the other binary gender, but for us, that's not the case because we're a system full of xenogenders and "dudes", whatever that may mean for an individual headmate, so we often feel.. really *alone* in system friend groups because of that.
but. i recently got a binder, and... just. holy hell. you never realize how much you needed something until you just.. start crying.
looking in the mirror finally had the one experience we've never felt since we realized we had DID: that's us. that's going to be us. we're actually gonna make it. one day, we're gonna go on t and we're finally gonna get the vocal range we've been so desperate to have. we're gonna make it! i love being a trans system!
this is transman, agender, xenogender, and system positivity! very happy for you anon :)