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i love xenogenders because they reveal how arbitrary gender symbolism already is.
we can say ‘my gender is space, cool rocks, and curiosity.’ 👽
is that any more strange than saying, ‘femininity is empathy, flowers, and the color pink’? 🌸
gender is what we make of it, whether practical, picturesque, poetry or prose <3 💖
[ID: the above text in a facebook post by MC Perrin, along with a symbol-less version of the xenogender flag: stripes in dark pink, salmon, pale orange, pale yellow, blue, lavender, and magenta. /end ID]
Just a wee reminder that the first recording of neopronouns was 1789, one of the oldest noted examples of neopronouns were 'thon'! And also remember the key word 'recorded' so that means neopronouns could've existed even WAY before that
(Edit! Thon was actually created in 1858! And in 1789 it was 'ou', sry for not updating that quick enough 😅)
You should let your ace friends know you love them.
You should let your aro friends know you love them.
You should let your polyamorous friends know you love them.
You should let your aplatonic friends (or aquaintances/family) know you love them.
You should let your afamilial friends know you love them.
You should let your bi friends know you love them.
You should let your nonbinary friends know you love them.
You should let your mspec/conflicting label friends know you love them.
You should let your xenogender friends know you love them.
You should let your neo/xenopronoun using friends know you love them.
You should let your trans friends know you love them.
You should let your queer friends know you love them.
Xenogender folks, you are loved 💗
Neopronoun Users, you are loved 💗
💗— Anxiboygender ! (,,>﹏<,,)"
Anxiboygender is a xenogender for those who identify primarily as a boy/man (or with masculinity) but experience strong urges to express softness, cuteness, “femboy-like” qualities or playful/feminine aesthetics— such as wearing pink, dressing cute, or embodying gentle traits. These desires are often entangled with anxiety, fear, sadness, and pain caused by internalized transphobia and restrictive societal expectations of masculinity. An Anxiboygender person may wish to embrace softness, cuteness, or femme-coded aesthetics while still rejecting anything that associates them with girls or women (e.g., being called “princess,” “fem,” or “girly”). Their identity remains rooted in boyhood and masculinity, even as it explores gentle femininity or softness on its own terms. They may also feel deep envy toward cis femboys and other transmascs who can freely embody femme aesthetics without conflict. Anxiboygender represents a masculine identity intertwined with gentleness and softness, often shadowed by tension, longing, and the struggle for acceptance. While it is centered around people who experience anxiety, it is not limited to them. This xenogender can also be embraced by enby mascs who share these experiences!
Coined by me!
✦ Flag meaning: #7a929c • Dusty blue: masc/boy core. #93a4ab • Muted blue-gray: masc stability but dulled by anxiety. #e3e3e3 • Pale gray: repression, internal conflict. #93a4ab • Dusty pink: softness, cuteness, femme-coded desires. #bfb4c4 • Muted lavender: in-between space, envy, longing for free femme expression.
happy pride! be weird! ^_^
FUCKEDGENDER
A label for when your gender is fucked up beyond recognition (whatever that means to the user), for genders that are so fucked up that you can't find labels that describe it, you can't describe it to others or not even you understand it
