I always thought that "decentering men" included not having them as important romantic and sexual figures in your life, but turns out I was the naive one! Turns out, most women understand "decentering men" as something only mental, not physical, and it's totally possible to "decenter men" while being married to one! You can "decenter men" in your head while still doing everything that literally every other woman on Earth does (performing femininity and marrying men). So there's literally no visible difference between you and women who "center" men, it's all in your head! I thought it's the action that counts, not just words... Oh, silly me.
"We literally share this planet with men!"
And that means you have to marry one, live with one, share your resources with one and have sex with one... Greatest argument for dating men ever! Her logic is bulletproof. This video is even better than the one in which she defended make up and told women who criticized performing femininity to "stop policing other wahmen"! I rate it 10/10 on the libfem scale.















