I have a friend who tells me I sometimes take things too deep and heavy too quickly in conversations. I have explained that it isn’t an intentional change in depth, but instead just my present observation which I share. It often deals directly with the previous contribution from my speaking partner, so I continue the conversation in context, while incorporating broader scales of the same pattern described in the motivating story.
Awareness, consciously describing the given story and the world in which the story is told.
I know I volunteer some perspectives simply too much, when not needed. That’s my ugly part. I am more aware of the scathing, or wince inducing experiences with my presence.
To enrich and bestow graciousness. That’s what I want to do unto one, full breadth of symbiosis, embedding fates, finding it from the pull and following the tug. Fanning the flames, blowing upon the fire. We’ll make it glow, and burn it down if we must!