Zofi has no siblings and probably no first cousins. She kinda hates that fact, and that’s part of the reason for her bond with Riley. She found a pseudo-sibling and held the fuck onto him.
She realized she was bi probably in her early teens, or at least she knew for sure by then. She had a crush on some girl at her school and told Grandma Lia about it, and it was never a big deal even with her parents because, well, Tomas had two moms himself.
She thinks about her folks a lot. Thinks about trying to explain her choices, trying to smooth things over, etc. It’s not like things are terribly hostile, anyway, but it’s not comfortable, and she feels kind of bad about it. But then she rethinks it and decides they can reach out to her if they want.
Zofi’s a pretty cheerful, energetic person, and that’s partially just how she is, but a lot of it is deliberately trying to cheer herself up. Not quite pretending she’s okay when she isn’t, although that does happen, but more…trying to take control of her life and be happy. She can’t cover up her pain, but she’s fighting to enjoy her life.
She sleeps in her jackets fairly often. If she needs sleeves but doesn’t have anything else, or if she’s just too tired to take it off. It’s not comfortable except that it is, because they’re her security blanket.
When she’s in that Broody mood and headspace she tends to end up in the cockpit of her ship with a drink and some music that matches her headspace. 90% of the time she doesn’t drink much, just gets her brooding done until she’s tired and then puts herself to bed, gets up later and finds herself smiling once it’s light out.
She was a really good cop and her boss didn’t want to lose her. It’s not like she wasn’t good at the job or she didn’t do a lot of good there - she could’ve been even better than Geoffrey and Lia and definitely better than Tomas. But besides her trauma, her faith in CSF has been waning, like. Probably since she started the job? She’d rather help people from outside the system. And the police don’t deserve her.
Lately she’s into clubbing and casual dating/sex. She’s a bit of a dork but still a big flirt and a sweet, gorgeous, respectful lady so she doesn’t have too difficult of a time picking people up.
She doesn’t talk about being related to Revan. Like, at all, unless it’s just family/close friends. And she’s never particularly thrilled about it being brought up. It’s not like she minds the thing itself - it’s like, whatever, that’s her family. She’s also related to two of the best CSF chiefs Coruscant has ever had, the right-hand woman to a beloved and progressive senator, and a strong willed and loving scientist who was the backbone of this family. She can’t be ashamed of her history because of one member, and she doesn’t completely dislike Revan. It’s just not a thing she wants to discuss with people. It’s like “hey, didn’t your aunt start the Jedi Civil War” “Well, yeah, but even my parent’s weren’t alive at the time, so like, what about it?”
It probably helps that the aforementioned Revanna is the only member of the family that clearly is, but Zofi’s never wished to be force sensitive. The idea freaks her out! She’s really glad she has about as much Jedi in her as a piece of space rock - it means she didn’t have to get kidnapped by monks and she doesn’t have to deal with, like, Sith. Zofi would not handle Sith well. Zofi is very happy to not have anything to do with Sith, or Jedi, or the Force. It’s a damn blessing and she knows it.