This side blog is for practicing and learning more about tarot. If I post readings, I do them for entertainment and for fun. Therefore I do not do private/personal readings as for now. Anyhow, let's have fun!
I really feel this needs to be addressed. It costs you nothing to give feedback, especially, since you can use anon. And literally, you get 2 gains from leaving feedback:
1.Good Karma. if you want, I can post more about karma and how it works 😇
2.It encourages to keep doing free readings, because it tells that you want to see more of them.
Because feedback does not mean to tell, if something came true or if you believe it will. Feedback is a lot about simply sharing your thoughts and feelings about the pile you chose/the reading you read. It's your chance to vent or to spazz about it ❣️ 😁
In PART 1 I already explained the purpose of this reading and how it works. The difference between PART 1 and PART 2 is that PART 2 is the same question but about the 18+. In other words, perhaps why you are never meant to have 18+ with the person you are asking about.
🎈 Which pile did you choose? 🎈
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Voting ended onAug 9
1.🍆This might sound crazy, but their D is not the right fit for you. It just would not work. I see that they are also too weak for you. They could want dominance, but not in a positive way. To be honest, it seems more like they are too weak, maybe you would always have to take the lead and it's not your thing, if you chose this pile. In all honesty, I'm simply seeing that you two are not a match. They could not give you, what you need.
2.🐏This person is like the devil in sheep's clothing. You don't want this. This looks straight out harmful. Like I don't even know, how to put it into words. This person might actually have you know what and you don't want any of it. But more than that, the cards talk about them having extremely dark desires, like really dark. Literally the imagery shows like a person, who is like the devil and you would be innocent, like too young or something like that. Just think about evil stuff and really, really dark stuff. Could be even darker than fifty shades of grey. Like the cards scream evil intent. So, even if they wouldn't be a bad person, their sexual desires are extremely dark, whatever that means.
3.🐷They could be too heavy for you or you are too heavy for them. It kinda feels like, if you want them to take the lead, they don't. Or reverse it, if you like to take the lead, they don't let you. Also, you don't see affection the same way, you don't match in that area. I'm seeing pride as well. This person seems to be really picky about the looks, so they have a type of who they sleep with, who they date. It's weird, but I see like a status obstacle, like for example they only sleep with someone, who is university graduated, or only with celebrities. Something like that. I just see something that's not physically matching. So they could also be actually even too big for you. I'm seeing restrictions in movements. You could feel like they are using too much force or pushing you to do things you don't want to.
4.🐍They might use sxx as a way to trap people to them. They also seem to be looking for multiple flings. So, if you don't want someone with a high body count, then this is not it. They might want to do it in the public, so if you know yourself to be private, it would not really work. This person also might want to do all kind of things you don't want to. The cards are showing heavy manipulation. So maybe they would kinda expose you, like tell things that you did or something. They might also be into making you gag and having their hands around your throat, if you catch the drift. I'm seeing possible bruises and bite marks. Especially your chest and neck area. It seems you would not like the way they touch you. You could actually experience it to be yucky.
5.🎥This person might smell bad. They are a gossip boy/girl. They would not see it as something precious to be with you. The cards are showing excessive disappointment. They might be too serious during the act. I don't like this, it's like they would make a joke out of you and talk shxt about you. They might belittle you somehow. You might not like their voice at all or the tone in which they would speak to you during the act. But in short, it would not be a good experience and they would tell everyone about you. This is not someone to be trusted. They could even film you and share it, because I'm seeing also a reference to fake smiling and this could be afterwards a nightmare, especially if they do share a video of you two in the act with their friends.
6.📐Honestly, this could be someone, who would try to make you pregnant to keep you stuck on them. Otherwise, it just seems you simply wouldn't really feel satisfied. Either they don't touch you enough or you don't like it, how they touch you. Moaning could be a problem, whether it's the lack of it or you would not like the sound of it. Something about their voice could be a bit of a turn off or how they breathe during the act. Something about eye-contact, whether it is disturbing or it's lacking. Also, they could be rather selfish, where it's only about them getting, what they need. There is a feeling of false promise like they seem promising and like it could be a good experience or you could see them as even husband material, but if you would actually have sxx, you'd feel like it wasn't quite it for you. Something is somehow lame or you need more.
I don't know how to really word correctly this reading's title, but the intention while doing this reading was simply to ask the cards, why that person is not your person, why they are not meant for you. Sure, you might be asking about someone married, about someone taken, but if that is the case and that is why you will not be together, there is a reason, why they are married to someone else, why they can not to be your person. So, we are kinda diving into that, to see, what could be the reason. Since it's not a personal reading, maybe out of the many reasons per pile only one or two will pile, but I believe that you will know the answer instantly, as you see it.
This is part 1, because people voted for an 18+ reading, so I decided to make an 18+ version of this reading.
Anyhow, make sure to let me know your thoughts on this type of reading and do you find it helpful and whatever you'd like to add or share with me.
🎈 Which pile did you choose? 🎈
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Voting ended onAug 9
1.💐It looks like this person's job in your life is rather to make you see something. You may not like to hear it, but obviously, it's about things you need to heal. Maybe you have the tendency to be the person to support others, while not receiving any support back and they seem to be here for you to see that, so that you would finally understand that dynamic doesn't quite work, at least not for you. Something about illusions. For some of you, maybe you don't match with people, who are genuinely romantic. Maybe the person for you is not meant to be someone romantic and loving. For others, the issue is that you need someone with a heart full of love, someone romantic, someone, who could even write you poems or songs or share some songs with you or a more sweet communicator and this person is not any of that and they are here to show that you need someone loving. Someone, who is more creative, when it comes to romance. Perhaps you are so romantic that you need someone, who matches your vibe in that way. So, maybe your lvoe language doesn't match. It does seem like this could be someone, who is still looking for hookups. They just want to experiment and experience multiple romances and hookups and go out and have fun. So like said, if they are romantic, it could be more like an "illusion", because what they want is multiple experiences. They might have a strong aura or energy and it's easy for them to pull in. But they are rather here to show you that you want something real and raw, not an illusion. Hope it makes sense. Additionally, it seems like they would stress you out, cause you headaches and really trigger you, bring your fears out. They seem to be the type to ghost. They don't care to give answers, they don't care, if they leave you feeling anxious. It's weird, but the cards are really emphasizing that they would make you restless and cause you sleepless nights in a negative sense. They could make you feel a bit crazy and way too emotional. So, there is a warning about mental and emotional manipulation. You are definitely meant to learn a lesson here. And I see also rejection is God's protection. So why you can't have them is also because you are protected from them. I think that says a lot.
2.🎭To be honest, it seems your values don't match, your way of acting doesn't match and also, it seems like they can't give you, what you need. With this person there is a victimhood theme going on. Whether they play the victim and blame you for everything and never take responsibility or they could try to make you feel like a victim, like you are simply getting used by them. They wear a mask, they are not their authentic self with you. Or you could feel like you can't be yourself with them. So, it could be they play some role with you. They don't keep their promises, they don't nurture you. They leave you out in the cold. Maybe they kinda play this victim role, where they take everything you give them and give you nothing in return. This is giving strong rebound vibes. Definitely you are not from the same soul tribe, if you believe in such things. You probably dealt with them or they are in your life to activate healing. So that you see, what needs healing. Well, that's the basic reason, but the message came in separate, so.. There is something about unpredictability. In a way, they just cannot be trusted. Like maybe they ask you on a date and then never show up. In other words, you need consistency, someone you can trust, and this person ain't it. It does seem this person uses their attractiveness to get, what they want and need out of other people. But emotionally they are not available. They are more lazy and difficult to please. They have a strong drive and motivation, but it seems to not include you or other people. They have more of a conquest mentality. It doesn't seem that they try to hide really anything, they might be the type to think, if they admit stuff, then it makes it okay. They don't feel sorry for anything. This person can give you intimacy, but they wouldn't bring any additional value to your life. Hope it makes sense.
3.🦴First of all, this could go in two ways. This could be someone, who already has kids or who wants to be a dad now. So, obviously, if you are not ready for that or you don't want someone with kids, then this could be one of the reasons. I'm seeing pets, too. So, maybe you disagree on pets, whichever way that would go, be it you don't like the same pets or one wants to have and the other doesn't or their pet would be a problem. Like everything is possible. It could be also family, for example their father might be someone, who would not accept you into the family. The cards are saying that this connection would be a clear dead end. Your paths don't seem to align and there would be too much chaos, too many storms. It's like it's just not meant to be, really. This person could be more the selfish type, where they don't quite "participate", they don't do their share. They just easily let go and move on. This person is clearly emotionally detached, they are rational and logical and they care more about what things look like. So, they could be quite fickle actually. They just take what they want, what they need from you and then bye. This person is all about their education and their work, their career. And routines, big on routines. This is someone, who would save themselves and let you drown. That's what the cards are showing. They could also have a small temper. Like they react quickly to things, despite of being emotionally detached. And there is something about what can you do for me. Like if they give to you, what would they gain from you.
4.🪩Oh wow, there could be a bit of power struggles here. The way the cards are coming through is that your energy is more majestic. And it's time for you to step back into your power or to step into your power. There is a theme about revelations here and shamanism energy. You are deep and I don't know, how to put it into words, but your power runs deep and is profound. It feels more like they are here for you to kinda wake up and reclaim your power back, for you to step into your power. Also, with this pile, this person could be someone that someone is doing black magic on or there is something like that surrounding them. I'm not getting that they would be into it, but rather a third-party. So, maybe some strange things could be happening.. I don't know, maybe whenever someone mentions their name objects start falling to the floor or something. So, you wouldn't really want to deal with that. I mean I don't know, if you want to, but since it's about why they are not for you, I'd say you are protected from it. Also, it's possible that something about them could make you feel lonely. I'm seeing the topic of values, so it could be about that. This person could also be a bit of an opportunist. There is something about intensity as well. They could be too intense about some things. There is very strong divine intervention in this pile. There is a sense that you most likely already know, why they are not for you. There is something about communication. Again, it seems to be about values. You don't share the same path. Looking at the reading, overall, the cards are saying you deserve better.
5.🪆There is something about conveniency here. About looking for an upgrade. If you've been praying for this person to love you and to choose you and it's not answered, it's because this person would only use you. There is something about spirituality and beliefs. The reason could be a religious one. This person is definitely someone, who takes without giving anything back. They are ungrateful. I think they are very devoted to whatever it is they think they can gain from dating someone specific. The cards are literally mentioning the underworld. There is something rotten here. They could be the type to use silent-treatment. This is someone, who wants to be the master. And it seems like everything is about them. Like you would only exist for them. They could be very small-minded and very opinionated. They want someone, who carries them on their shoulders. So, they could be a very busy person, but in that case they think you should be the one to carry them and the whole relationship. So, it seems something like that why you are not meant to be with them. Like it would be emotionally heavy and they would use your feelings to make you do things for them. It seems like they want you to obey them. So, if you are too smart for them, it's not gonna work. Because I'm seeing that you are smart and you do want to feel loved and you have standards. So that's why it does not seem to work.
6.⏰This person is very realistic and it seems they are looking for their own personal servant. This can mean that they are looking for someone, for a relationship that serves them. So it doesn't have to be something like that you clean the house and cook for them, it can also professional benefit. Like you have a status, a title that serves them, gives them a higher status, for example. This person is very judgemental and they care a whole lot about, what other people think. This is the type of person who chooses status and conveniencies over true love. Also, it seems this person is quite toxic, something venomous about them. They could be an energy vampire or their actions could create that kind of situation. It looks like in their eyes you would be a rebel. So in other words, you don't seem to really see eye to eye on what you think really matters. You are meant to have breakthroughs and to be freed, but for them it's like they are seeking professional breaktroughs, they are patient in those matters. The cards are really emphasizing that this person focuses on their personal goals and dreams. And on abundance, material and status success. They don't mind using relationships to achieve their dreams, to open doors for themselves. To you, it seems that you do want abundance and a materially healthy connection, but you also seek a true bond, real love. Your paths do not really align. It seems you are meant to have a breakthrough and walk a different path. I mean you might not know yet, what is to come, but it's good things and you will have growth, but it's your own path.
Btw, last time I wrote that random topic, when I mentioned appearances, I didn't mean just looks. I meant it in every way. Looks, title, education, status, etc. Lots of people care more about what their life looks like from the outside. They don't always really understand, what means happiness, what means to really feel and be present. They do things, because everyone else does, because they want to fit in, because they want to belong, to be accepted. But also, most people are no longer humble and thrive to be superior. And it really shows in romance as well. You can be cool and fun and so you'll be approached for a good time. But when it comes to a real relationship/marriage, they'll choose the person, who ticks all the boxes. Looks, education, profession, salary, you name it. This post is continuation to the previous one, so not everyone is like that. It just seems to be the trend now and therefore the majority 🙃
Lately, I've come to realize that to lots of men love doesn't matter, they care more about appearances. I'm referring more to taken men. But since they've caught feelings for you, they want your attention. So they usually give you mixed signals. Because they want to hook you in, but they never choose you. I don't know, what to call it.. but it's like they want you to like them more. Through that they somehow twist the situation so that they feel like they got, what they need. They have you hooked, they have your attention, you want them, but they don't care about you. By having you have feelings for them, they deny their feelings for you. And they feel good about it, because you are left behind with nothing. For some, it goes deeper than that. They enjoy your pain. Pain here means that you are miserable, desperate, crying, longing for them, missing them, envious, obsessive, jealous, you name it. They want you to wish you were theirs, yet, you can never be, because they'll never choose you. They take but don't give anything in return. They can be nice people as in general, but still.. their actions make them an energy vampire. I've been witnessing this happening a lot and therefore I wrote this in case, this could bring some enlightment to someone, who needs it.
🌸 Btw, feel free to send me an ask and start a conversation or talk about anything you want. Like share random opinions, thoughts, etc. Let's have a chat~~~ 🌸
I read all the three pac's and they resonated a lot with me all the 3s i was shocked but in a good way. I think you are a great reader! Make more of these please, people love spicy pac's 👀🫶❤️
Its tough when people who are taken are inappropriate/inappropriately flirtatious with their single friends etc because it feeds into the BS stereotype of, for example 'men and women can't be friends' etc etc which helps nobody
True. I recently saw a reel, where someone explained that actually the true reason would be that men don't like women??? And that's why they objectify women. What do you think? Do you agree?
🌸 Btw, feel free to send me an ask and start a conversation or talk about anything you want. Like share random opinions, thoughts, etc. Let's have a chat~~~ 🌸
I just felt like sharing the reason why I don't want to do future spouse readings, at least for now.
I think it's important to focus on the present. If you are a follower of mine, you might have noticed that I haven't done readings, which timespan would be longer than a year. That is because I think what matters is the now.
The problem with future spouse readings is they are mainly nothing but illusions. I know some people want good vibes only, but you are simply deceiving yourself. If you want good vibes only, then do a good vibes only reading. And I mean that as a topic. When I did the runes reading and some asked about their future spouse, I noticed each of them got "negative" responses. Like I replied to one anon, I think the reason might be, because most of you are obsessed with future spouse readings, and since they are all sugarcoated, not true at all, then when you ask from me, you get the truth and it's nothing like the readings you've read or received before. I'm saying that indeed if I were to make a future spouse reading, you all would be crying for the rest of the year.
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