Self love is the best love
⭐️as a teenage girl I don’t particularly hate myself as much as I used to. But I don’t love myself enough and I’m starting to come to that realization.
I mean let’s all be honest, we sometimes think more negatively of ourselves compared to positively. But I feel like that is what slightly holds us back, the less we think of ourselves, the less we can do. So at the end of the day, the only thing stopping YOU is YOU.
As people we all drive off of motivation, even if thats by the smallest bit. And motivation may not always come from other people, so as a person at the end of the day all we can depend on is ourselves. And why would you depend on someone you don’t love? Exactly! So to take care of the things in life it all starts with us. Nobody’s going to appear in your life and save you, you may get help along the way. But the main person whose going to change your life for the better HAS to be you, and to change the best was to start is a positive mindset along the way. Because even if you lose people on the way you’ll still be there to cheer yourself on.
The more you love yourself gives you the opportunity for more love and happiness to come to you, and without self love I don’t think anyone can ever be at peace.
A beautiful mindset leads to a beautiful soul.
we can start by treating ourselves how we would want to be treated by our lovers.
Give yourself affirmations, count your blessings, find the positives in life, doing this can give us a more optimistic outlook on our life’s overall. You can even find blessings in the negatives, don’t wanna wake up to go to school? At least you woke up, and you’re able to have an education. Some people pray for that in life. So, stop complaining and start appreciating.
Tell yourself you’re attractive , notice all of the nice unique features that you have that others wish for. Cause it’s guaranteed someone will always want something that you have! Think about past experiences when someone’s given you compliments and remind yourself of that, little or big! Give yourself daily affirmations and journal if needed.
Give yourself rewards for things you’re proud of. Validate yourself, you’re proud of your grades? Go buy that perfume! And give yourself those standards for yourself, strive to push yourself for the best and what you think that is, the main person you should be trying to impress is only you. And remember not to be too hard on yourself, because unfortunately there are some things in life we can’t control and that’s alright.
Consume healthy media. Instead of doomscrolling all day a better option may be to consume media that is healthier for the mind and helps you improve yourself a little more. For example, read a book, listen to a podcast, read a article/blog, watch a video essay on advice, follow more people on social media that post on advice, or just watch a video about something that you may find interesting and informative. These all can help you
find a different outlook on you or the world possibly.
Do more self care. Let loose and relax every once in a while, you need it and your body might need it too. So, find some time when you’re bored and have nothing to do. And go on that walk, or take a nice warm shower or bath, bake yourself that little sweet treat, put on a face mask and rewatch your favorite movie, do some Pilates, do that hobby, and play that game, clean a bit and declutter to make yourself feel a bit better, or just even lay in your bed and take a nap after a long day. But just do the things that make YOU happy to destress. Doing something is better than doing nothing and wallowing.
Lastly, surround yourself with people who make you happy. Surrounding ourselves with negative people and bad influences is something we all sometimes deal with and we all should avoid. I promise that hanging out with people who constantly make fun of you and do things that you don’t thing are the best won’t do you any well and WILL reflect on you. People may get a bad impression on you, or you might notice yourself being in a bad mood when your’e around these people and it’s for a reason. Those people might even change your personality all together. So remove yourself, and even though it might all be to hard, or ‘not that easy’ it’ll be worse staying then leaving. So I beg that you take those negative people out of your life and surround yourself by people who help you improve, make you feel happier, and help you love yourself. Even if thats only one person. You don’t even have to have anyone but yourself at some point, it’s okay to be alone, you don’t HAVE to fit in. “Choose that urge to be chosen, choose yourself”.
Anyways I’m hoping whoever’s reading this has a great day and a life! And that all good things will come to you, if you’re going through a rough time it’ll pass at some point I promise. But also what you’re not changing your choosing!
Be sides that remember you are loved, and you can love. And that you are deserving of good things in life.
“To acquire wisdom is to love yourself; people who cherish understanding will prosper.”
Proverbs 19:8 NLT
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