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submit your secrets.... 2!

submissions may be NSFW or include heavy subjects, be safe! <3 when possible, please put warnings at the top of your ask!

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i will not post:

detailed talk of: abuse, CSA, rape, incest; pedophilia, zoophilia

proship+antiship/label/flag/system discourse

actionable suicide plans

non-anon submissions

hate speech

body image

etc

i redact:

identifying information

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FAQ under the cut!

Q: what happened to the old tea-and-secrets? A: the old blog was deleted early 2023! i got permission to continue!

Q: what qualifies as "detailed talk of" [x]? A: generally mentions of the subject are fine, play-by-play descriptions are not! i use my own discretion when queuing secrets

Q: what qualifies as "body image"? A: secrets exclusively about weight loss/gain. these topics can be triggering for people with eating disorders

Q: why did you tag a post as #[x]? A: TAGS ARE NOT PERSCRIPTIVE! i tag with overlap. please let me know if i miss a tag!

Q: info about the mod? A: transmasc, 20s

Q: the queue is broken! A: happens a lot 🤷‍♂️

Q: transandrophobia A: [here]

Q: you're annoying. A: are you mad at me

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going through colonoscopy prep and I finally understand the meaning of the phrase “shitting your brains out”

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I’m looking to get my own place. I’m in such a teenage mood right now, where I wanna get my place and be left alone for the rest of my days like Shrek. It just feels like not a lot of people like talking to me, even my own family doesn’t respect me. My own place is where no one will have to deal with me, and I won’t have to deal with them.

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My dad’s being such an annoying p.o.s. tonight! I wanna tell him off so fucking bad

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i sent an ask forever ago here about a girl i wanted to be mutuals with who i was scared to talk to

we are close friends now, i talk to her so much, she is so so so amazing, please dont be afraid to reach out

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I went to an urgent care to get something checked out on Monday. The doctor said to get a second opinion just to be safe, and in the meantime prescribed me something to help me out. My second opinion appointment isn’t until Friday, and I worry that between my case being mild (if it is what it really is), and the prescription actually doing its job, I won’t have anything to show the doctor on Friday. Still wouldn’t hurt to go, I guess, but still.

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i have severe trauma from covid and i feel forgotten and like no one takes me seriously. im closer to suicide then i ever have been because of happened to me and all i ever hear is "get over it" or "im glad it wasnt me" and i feel like im losing it. i cant take this. why did it have to happen to me. i dont want to live with this.

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i’ve been reading smut since i was 9. it was warrior cats and it was about the filthiest shit you could find on wattpad. i will take this secret to the grave with me but i figured i’d share my shame with all of you.

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I really do think I should get my name changed because I told the Starbucks barista my name was Avery and they typed down slavery

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sent 10/10/25

have dated Not One Single Time in my entire 20s... i still have 8 or so months left but i imagine things arent likely to change (unemployed, cant drive, rarely leave my moms house & too insecure to talk to anyone. also i feel pretty incapable of feeling anything legitimate for anyone beyond surface level lust but thats a whole other can of worms 🤠)

too scared to kms but i prob like. objectively should right lol like whats the fucking point of living this miserably 💀

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I’ve become insecure about using the skin tone emojis

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So I just found out that I'm not as close to some of my friends as I thought I was. Realistically this is fine and I'll live, since we're not on bad terms at all and will likely still talk in the future even if it's not as often. But I feel like once it sinks in, I'm going to want to explode

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I hate that my dad uses A.I.

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just for once I don't want to be the person reaching out. If there's a friend I haven't talked to in a while, I'm pretty much always the person saying something first. Even when making friends, I'm practically always the first person to talk to the other person. Just for once, I'd like someone to reach out to me after not talking instead of the other way arounf

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it's getting really fucking annoying watching my friend complain daily about how she cancelled her therapist appointment and won't see them for another few days and feels terrible while I haven't been able to get therapy at all for EIGHT MONTHS due to insurance conflicts.

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🫆 Im getting married to my partner of 10 years in a few months. I seriously, deeply, absolutely adore him but Im poly and hes not. I thought it wouldn’t be an issue and I could make it work but it’s getting harder. And there’s really no good way to say hey babe we’ve had 10 good years of monogamy but I think I want an open relationship now without hurting his feelings.

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These two brothers at my school are really bringing back guys wearing slutty short denim shorts and I can't help but feel a little gay about that

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