Got Selected for Arthalaya
Met Alok, my friend, at KIST Talk Show which was co-organized by Samriddhi, The Prosperity Foundation and organized by KIST Bank. He told me if I would apply for Arthalaya, today was the extended deadline. I looked at the registration charge, Rs. 5000/- was highlighted. I exclaimed, five thousand... and instantly it was out of my thought. He mentioned that scholarship was also available. I looked at the form, it had 50-70%, 30-50% and 0-30% scholarships. Ok not bad, if you can get me 70% scholarship, I told. Both of us laughed. After I entered the hall, I had a talk with an Arthalaya graduate, who had attended the program @ 700 NRs. He told it was worth 5000. Alok had also explained how were they covering the event with low charges and that the price might increase in coming up batches and the recommended me to participate telling that it was a very good program for person like me. During the talk show, I got the form and started filling in. Later I realized that I need to write an essay in 500 words about 'How Nepal could be Prosperous.' I stopped filling the form. After the program I met Alok and told him if I could complete the form online and the essay before midnight, then I shall certainly apply for it, since there was loadshedding problem. We got separated and was back home in the evening. I talked to my brother, a previous Arthalaya graduate and my sponsor, about participating and the charge. I found him positive and challenged if I could complete it by the deadline which was few hours from then. I started typing the form entries. Thank god, there was power supply late in the evening. I completed my essay, downloaded the form and filled the entry finally applied for Arthalaya. It was about 11:40 pm. And I was happy and waiting for selection.
On Saturday, I received a call telling that I was selected for the group discussion and interview, which were scheduled for Sunday, 10:30am and I needed to reach Samriddhi, The Prosperity Foundation office.
Unlike my usual habit of getting late, I reached earlier this time, introduced to the people sitting around the library table and reading newspaper. Something interesting happened during introduction. Shall talk about it later. The temperature was normal but I was feeling extra cold and shivery. I was completely unknown what made me feel that cold, but definitely not the weather, it was warmer than previous days. So I decided not to take my bags off so as to keep myself warm. After a while, Sandeep entered the room handing us the sheet to mark our attendence, there I realized that some of the friend who were supposed to be in my group, Group A, had still not arrived, I took a breathe of relief, some people are later than me.
I was calm and composed for the group discussion. We were called above, seated around the conference table, with 3 evaluaters from Samriddhi. The discussion was like a role play, in which we were given the topic and 6different stakeholders to represent and we were supposed to express our views from respective viewpoint on the topic. After a brief introduction of one another, we were presented with the topic 'Private Schooling System'. Though it started calm, in a while we were reprimanding one anothers view. As the discussion was getting, we were informed of 2 or 3 remaining minutes. Then, soon we managed to avoid rambling recrimination and organized the discussion to the conclusion. We picked points to be included as a summary, and took turns expressing our view. There was a boy, whom I had noticed trying to say somthing time and again but had not gotten a proper chance, since others voice ...SUPERIMPOSE..or..OVERRODE.. that of his. And again this time during our concluding points, he was trying to express his point, but he was stopped as we were taking proper turns, anticlockwise, and it happened that he was the last person to have his say. You can easliy guess that he didnt get a chance to conclude his point, as everybody had a lot to say in limited time trying to strengthen their roles and points. The time was over. I felt a bit bad about that he didnt get a chance, since I was a bit dominant during the discussion. Now it was time to give the concluding remarks within a minute time. Again, as I had drafted the points, I asked others and stood up and this time I think, I finished it on time and asked the guy to put his points, if anything I didnt covered. The boy was Prasanna. And I felt happy that I gave him a chance.
As we came out of the group discussion, Mochan hinted me of my dominance, which I had already realized (Ok, that was Mochan who made the introduction a bit interesting. I was introducing to everyone around the table, and now I was shaking hands with him. I spoke, "Hello, Im Gauraw.". He was mute. Then smiled a bit and with eyes looking at me in a familiar manner, he kept quiet and started thinking, I guess. I paused and waited for reaction. He told, "Gauraw, right.". I told yes, there was no point in getting my name correct as I had already told it several times. Then he smiled again and acted in a manner that he had something to say, and that thing was just not coming through, may be blocked in the throat then finally added, "Gauraw Dhakal !!!". Totally wrong. I told, "Im sorry, Im Gauraw Rijal.". He repeated, "Oh yeah Gauraw Rijal.". By this time, I found him, from his facial expressions-as if he knows me well and mistakes he made in recognizing me, pretty humurous character. Though I controlled myself and told, "Eh ok, do you know me, ...?". "Mochan.", he replied and added, Rotaract Club of Dillibazar. Ok, he had a point. Yes, we had met earlier also. I thanked my memory for that.). He also told me that my points might decrease in leadership as I didnt listen to others properly. I thought he was right. But agian, to some extent, I dont feel it as my fault because, I had a lot to say and the way others presented was passive and they didnt seem to be that enthusiastic and exciting. After that we were called for interview. I was in hurry so I left the office immediately after the interview.
It was Monday afternoon, I was waiting for a call from Samriddhi office but the phone was with my dad, my phone rang. But as he was getting it to me, the call ended and I missed the call. :( I looked at the number it was unknown number. May be it was from Samriddhi, I was completely confused about what to do, call them back or not. Also that I was not so sure that if it was Samriddhi. While I was not being able to decide what to do, the same number blinked on my mobile screen again. I instantly picked it up, I found the sound from the other side so soothing, as it selected me and requested me to complete the registration by Tuesday 5:30pm.
The next day, I went to Samriddhi office, registered my name and happily returned back home. Now all I need to do is reach the office by 12:30pm, Wednesday with my bagpack for 6 days, 5 night stay at Dhulikhel Village Resort. Yippie, it was finalized, and I was going to be the part of Arthalaya.