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this is just for me to be horny, if you're a minor, don't have your age on your blog, or are a cishet man, please don't follow me or interact, i'm being really nice about it, but i will block you on sight.

about me:

28, any pronouns, my gender is lesbian. soft stone top butch. switch.

autistic in a really good at jeopardy but don't understand your subtle hints kinda way. you can totally message me, but keep in mind that i may ask lots of clarifying questions

if i reblog something about bottoming it's bc i'm thinking about my femme and if it's something about a dick i'm thinking about my strap

this is a lot of butch4femme nsft content, free use, and breeding to be honest with you. i don't tag content specifically so be careful

#dear diary #corporeal form

whenever I see two feminine women together in a post on tumblr dot com I feel homophobic literally like where is the butch

#dear diary

!!!! Do you live in CT? I do!!

Unfortch I do not, I live in Texas

#i think this is because I mentioned CT in the tags of a post but that’s because the movie takes place in CT #sorry

beastliness

[muttering feverishly] I need to chase that man around my gothic manor in a silk nightgown

beastliness

we take turns

#bringing up baby #yes yes exactly except it’s a provincial manor in Connecticut

fairimari-deactivated20250327

a butchfemme dynamic isn’t about the butch doing everything for the femme or vice versa… it’s both of us looking at each other and saying “you do so much for me, let me take care of you” and i think that’s so important to recognize. you shouldn’t be doing everything for your partner without them giving you everything in return. the ways you spoil each other might look completely different and that’s okay, but one person shouldn’t be carrying the brunt of the relationship. that’s not what being butchfemme means.

In 2025 I really hope you come to see butches and butchness not only in the context of being the counterparts to femmes but as an independent identity completely separate from femmes.

Butches are butch even when they don’t have a femme.

#dear diary #I’ve been having lots of thoughts about how the butchfemme community talks about butches and it’s driving me nuts #saw a baby butch only describing their butchness in terms of what they do and what they can provide for a femme and that made me megasad

whizpurr

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comfort places

femmehorror

Butches found out that the scalp was an erogenous zone years ago, and femmes understood the assignment.

cosmic-terrestrial

ever since I was a young lad I knew I wanted to be a middle-aged man with an undone tie around his neck who’s having a crisis so he goes to the bathroom to splash water on his face only to look up at himself in the mirror and wonder at the stranger looking back