all things go

Teresa / 29 / loves coffee, mornings, and cats

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Ang sakit hahahahah tangina

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Kaya dapat talaga alam ninyo ang financial status/capacity ng isa't isa, at clear yung communication ninyo. While having a partner with a ~provider mindset~ is nice, it's plain stupid and inconsiderate to expect for your partner to be the sole payor of a house and main bills just because of gender roles. Stupid kasi uhmmm do you know how much a house costs???? I don't know where people get the audacity to expect this and not offer to contribute (not necessarily 50/50, this depends on a lot of factors like each one's financial capacity, circumstances, etc). Inconsiderate naman kasi isn't a relationship a partnership (including finances)???? You help each other out, hindi yung wala ka na lang pake kung nahihirapan man ang partner mo sa shared expenses ninyo.

Hindi mo kailangang tanungin yung iba if normal ba ito or not, I say mag reflect ka at isipin mo nang mabuti if nagmmake sense yung expectations mo.

Sorry, na trigger na naman ako. Hahahaha jusko!!!!

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Ang saya pala magpalinis ng unit 😅 I should do this every 2 months or something

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My yoga mat came a few days ago!!! It’s giving me a lot of flashback nung pandemic, when I would do Chloe Ting workouts with my mat :)) I love you Chloe but HIIT just isn’t for me 🥲

I thought of getting one again this time coz I want to do push ups, inspired by bb Hysa!!! Because I never do them (besides the occasional knee pushups pag naisipan), I haven’t really done a proper strict one I think.

Here’s my attempt at doing pushups after a long time! From today I will find time every day or every few days to do them so I’ll get better at them. As seen in the video, I can’t really do strict pushups yet, but I can do negatives then knee pushup paakyat,so I’ll practice those for now until I get stronger.

The goal is to do a pushup with perfect form after one month and maybe 5 after 2 months. Not sure if this is a realistic goal but lez see!!!

[teremisu]

Kinikilig ako hahaha aside sa excited ako for my workmate (and I know he’ll do well— he’s so smart, independent, and good at his job. wala akong masasabing negative talaga haha), idk I feel so honored being chosen as one of the people he wants a recommendation letter from???? Sure ka na baaa hahaha eme

[theweight]

can i say i dont give a fuck if anyone is 'performative reading' bc like at least they are reading at all. people are reading less and less so idrc if someone is reading to cultivate a certain image or whatever the fuck performative reading means

[herjourne]

puro kasi performative this, performative that! have we forgotten that all the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players? life is meant to be performed. romanticized. lived. we perform when we get dressed in the morning, when we host dinner parties, when we decorate our homes, when we celebrate birthdays, when we tell stories, when we fall in love. performance isn't automatically the opposite of authenticity. it can exist alongside it. you can't live without performing. even when no one's watching, you're still performing for yourself.

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January 2026 and June 2026. Time really does fly.

[pnglove]

THAI FOOD

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I’m afraid I’ve fallen down the rabbithole of ceramics (specifically mugs, cups, plates, and bowls) collection ✌️😭

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Dinner tonight with bbs Zei, Annie, and Sili. Zei made eggplant with giniling + ensaladang mangga, while I made salt and pepper tofu 😊

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I couldn’t sleep so I called K again (we had already talked earlier) and jokingly asked him to sing me a lullaby so I could sleep.

K didn’t even think twice and started singing “You Are My Sunshine” 😌😭😭😭 hahahaha I didn’t expect that at all hahaha I realized I never asked him to sing before. I would always tease him by asking him to flex his biceps (he would get so stressed but would do it eventually hahahha) or do a dance (this he wouldn’t do, though he did it once) on video call.

This was new to me haha I told him na I had finally confirmed that he truly loves me (yes dahil kumanta sya, not because of the other million things he does for me and the way he takes care of me charot). Sabi ko next time I’ll ask him to sing everytime we’d call jk

I love you always K. Four years in and I still never get tired of talking to you. You make me so happy and you never fail to make me smile and laugh. Az an even funnier partner— I know I also do the same for you, and I hope you keep being amused by my unhinged self :)

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Finished playing one game of Inis after four hours 😵 my brain is so fried haha good night

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it’s been a couple of hours since i talked to my friend, but now I am still smiling and my jaw is starting to hurt :) friend went through a breakup last year and started going on dates this year. tonight she told me that she thinks she’s ready to date exclusively because there’s this guy that she thinks might be “the one.” we were both giggling and smiling so much while she described him and told me about their dates so far. she also made me listen to the recordings of her sharing her thoughts about the guy after their date. ang cute, kilig na kilig siya haha love that for her!!!

the thing that’s different about this guy from the others is that he doesn’t rush, is genuine and open with his feelings (not the pa-cool / nonchalant type of guy), and “hanging out with him feels restful” said my friend. AAAAHHHH i’m so so happy for her; it’s been a while since i saw my friend so kilig and happy.

dear universe, i hope this turns out well! i haven’t met the guy, but from what i’ve heard so far, i like him for my friend already! hope he doesn’t fuck this up (he kasi perfect friend ko emz). i am so excited for my friend!!!!

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My phone is sick of gym mirror selfies wahahaha

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ang saya pala gumawa ng workout reels???? hahaha

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HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA