Ceci n'est pas une lesbienne

TJ, 27 nonbinary lesbian, white, she/they, Boorloo my psychiatrist told me I have ADHD, BPD, panic disorder, GAD, MDD, ARFID, c-PTSD and "on the spectrum but not enough that I want to diagnose you"

[catchymemes]

[sloppystyle]

[flowergirlmiwa]

What she says: "I'm alright"

What she's really thinking: "I need a lesbian kiss rn"

[tuxedodan]

me when the disorder that I have that is literally a disability makes me unable to do certain things

[enki2]

[yassmines]

i say this to every girl i love: abandon shame

[yassmines]

EXACTLY

[progressivepower]

#unionize #taxcorporations #taxtherich #raisethewage

[cyanide-sippy-cup]

All I have to say about SAG-AFTRA

Fuck yes

[rosehipmarmalade]

personally i love strikes. love unions. love protests. big fan all around!!

[edatheowlslady]

CENTAURWORLD • S01E01, "Hello Rainbow Road"

You’re okay, you’re alright I’ll never, ever leave your side I will stay, I will fight With you

[fatalebridget]

[lesbiantahani]

a lesbian: idk she just doesnt seem interested :/

someone: did u like, talk to her

a lesbian:

a lesbian: do what

[tragicfaggots-deactivated202407]

person w adhd experiencing symptoms of adhd: why the fuck can’t I do this thing . I wish there was some explanation for this

[aziraphales-flaming-cock]

I join the Discord server

I mute the Discord server

I'm never seen again in the Discord server

[ryebreadgf]

i love tumblr because of the close-knit community of girls who have never gotten over anything ever not even a little

[umbrellanumber5-deactivated2021]

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This.

This is why people who stay in my life are neurodiverse like me!

[nottoolateforthegame]

Huh

[thisisnotjuli]

this!! I swear I lost like all my friendships bc of this, like I had a group of friends in hs that one day I realized “huh I haven’t talked to this people in a while” and popped in to say hi and they were all awkward?? because they hadn’t seen me in a while?? and that’s when I realized that friendship works different for them?? I was like yeah I haven’t talked to you in like four months but it’s not like I’ve forgotten about y'all why would anything change, and they were all like we haven’t talked to you in four months why are you here again acting like nothing happened? and it was really confusing for me

[mimir-bashir]

YEAH! THAT!

Also I have a thing where I just put the people on pause. If I don’t see them or contact them, my brain kinda put them in stasis. I don’t think about them nor misses them, and I stay on what I last knew about them (how they look, what they study/work). So when we meet again I’m like “wait, you’ve aged?” and I have the same familiarity with them thanI had before.

[gender-snatched]

Anyway all my mutuals I haven’t messaged in forever - this is why

[official-lucifers-child]

oh my gods this makes so much sense??? there are people who i haven’t talked to at all for literally over a year and we’ll pick up like nothing happened, but for their people it’s just like…… falling apart but onesided???? i think we’re still on the same level but actually we’re strangers??

[link-the-feral-anon]

Ohhhhhh

[shark8-my-leg]

OHHHHHHHHH….

[quarra]

Ok but listen, on the other side of this, as a person who moved hundreds of miles away from everyone i knew and then became a hermit for several years, it was SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to get in contact with an old friend and have him be like, “my friendship levels do not degrade, so in my mind we are still awesome close buddies” and i almost fkn cried. I thought he would be mad or would have moved on because i had slacked on my reaching out to him and staying in touch and doing all the friendship things. But NOPE. 800 miles of distance, depression, and life changing circumstances didnt steal our friendship and i am SO GRATEFUL.

[thatlittleegyptologist]

#came back to tumblr after four years #lottie and I immediately went like that spiderman meme yknow tags via @rudjedet

I have literally no friendship degradation whatsoever. I will not have spoken to someone for 5 years or more, and they’re still as much a friend to me as if I had only seen them yesterday. I’m just very bad at communicating if someone is not in my direct orbit. So when Sonja reappeared on this site I basically screeched into her notes like a banshee because I was delighted and we picked straight back up where we’d left off.

[elodieunderglass]

Happy to go on the record that I don’t expect regular contact and will welcome hearing from people after a long time

[ms-demeanor]

……. I just realized why cons are such a huge deal in the hacker scene and why so many of us are ride or die for people we only see every 1-3 years.

“Excellent! I will see you for three days of hijinks and then not for two years! I love you!”

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

I call these Brigadoon friendships, because 100 years could go by, and we’d still just pick up where we left off the day before. My degradation mechanics are zero.

[typiing-deactivated20240430]

tested positive for needing a kiss