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Writings:

Just enough lee-way: A non-sexual predicament for a lee and a switch

Feathering, Sniffing, and Licking

A response to @prettymeredith's questions for Lers

How Many Licks to the Centre of a Tootsie Pop?

The Towel Game: A Predicament for Two lees

Serving Suggestion: Potential Consequences to The Towel Game

A brief musing on predicaments inspired by @alittlespankandtickle

city-tickles

no way just the sight of a feather flusters you

Hi!

The sight of an unexpected feather flusters me lol I expect it from the blogs but not the ads

th3hands

I'd raise my hand in solidarity, but you know... that's a vulnerable position

lovietklee

th3hands

Wishing to be everyone here

pleasechokemedaddy2

I thoroughly believe men should be loved the way women are expected to be loved. Shampoo his hair for him in the shower and rinse it out for him. Pull him to your chest and play with his hair when he’s feeling sad or sleepy. Take him out to dinner and pay for his meal. Bring him little surprise gifts. Kiss his forehead and temple when you see him. Let him be the little spoon and hold onto him like he’s everything to you. Be obsessed with him, treat him with all the love you expect to be treated with.

th3hands

Intellectually, I agree with this wholeheartedly. As someone who was raised a man (and let's face it, still probably is), there are elements here that just feel foundationally wrong. Not in a universal way, but in a "this is butting up against a deeply-ingrained bias" kinda way.

Maybe it's not about mannishness, maybe I was just raised to think that you take care of people by paying for things, and that if you can't do that, then you're a failure. The first half of that is something I see most of my family do (e.g. both Grandma and Grandpa are very giving), but just fucken try and pay my Grandpa back for anything. You can't do it.

Does anyone here have an alternate contact for Rune?

I've had his Discord for quite some time (since he left Tumblr), and today I got an error message suggesting that the account might have been deleted. I am worried about his wellbeing, if anyone can help clarify that.

Thanks in advance.

#tword community

tenacious-teasing

I want to tickle someones erogenous zones until they're so turned on and squirmy they're begging me to touch them properly and give them some relief

Let me put you on a milking table and tickle your balls and groin until you're leaking

Let me sit you in my lap and pin your arms back and tickle your nipples until you think you might cum just from that

Let me spread your legs and tickle your thighs and groin and labia until you soak through the sheets

minors/ageless blogs blocked on sight

th3hands

Thought that maybe my switchiness was a brief phase, but that makes me want to throw my Dom hat right out the window.

Oof.

simplee-giggles

Apparently restrained arms but unrestrained feet turn me into a mermaid...

@aussietummytickler

aussietummytickler

Can confirm that I got a safeword out of her after all 😇

th3hands

It's my boy!

If you get a star ⭐️ in your inbox. It means your moot appreciates you, and your efforts in the community. Send this to 10 mutuals to continue the love!

Aww precious!

drowning-lessonz

daily affirmations

i am the unkillable faggot

i can exist in grocery stores

i have the shittiest music taste in any room

i have a gun

th3hands

I only briefly had a (junior) shooter's license, and *I* think my taste in music is impeccable-- if occasionally unapproachable

tklish-princess

So let's talk. There is a very unsafe person who has interacted with me. He goes by Jaredjuggernaut on here. Let me just show you all.

Keep in mind this man is 39 years old and crossed a boundary within about 5 minutes.

Then he makes the comment "you're acting like you're a minor." Which let's me know pretty confidently that this has happened to him with a minor.

He also says that my boundaries are "too strict". Aka me not wanting to talk about tickling with someone I literally just met 5 minutes ago.

If you can't be a decent person, stay the fuck out of people's DM's.

This behavior is honestly sickening and I warn anyone that sees him in your inbox. HE IS NOT A SAFE PERSON.

There is no room in this community for this kind of behavior, and I'm honestly sick of these entitled assholes.

hedgeytheswitch

If you think for one second it’s okay to insult people’s boundaries and be rude and disrespectful to fellow community members, then you definitely DO NOT belong here.

What a prick!

Hope you’re not too disturbed by that experience. Blocking them now

deadeyedfae

T4T....wait a minute! This isn't T4T! (Suddenly Bi!)

th3hands

If I can use this opportunity to be vulnerable: I don't think of myself as trans, but I have (increasingly) enjoyed being femme. My hair is really long, I paint my own nails now, I like knee socks, and I've started to shave my upper-body.

Something that I do, in my head, is really not good for me, and is outright insulting to other people. That is, I will make judgements around passing. Like, I see some people who I think are beautiful and I think "I am attracted to this, and I wish I could be that pretty". Sometimes I do look at myself and think that I'm pulling "cute" off. However what I also do is see people who I don't think are attractive, for a variety of reasons (and I will not describe the characteristics that make me think these thoughts) and I will reflect "Fuck. Is that what I look like?". I will denigrate someone else's appearance, and I will not know whether they are perfectly happy with themselves and presenting in that manner on purpose, or if like me, they are trying for something and perhaps not getting there. But I will use my own insecurities, and foist my values and preferences on them in order to reinforce my own negative self-image.

I need to do better than that. For all of us.

xxxhopelessly-ticklishhips

I’m So Fucked Financially.

I’m still homeless. Last week, $700 was taken from my account for student loans. Then another $400 hit for car insurance—for a car I can’t even drive right now. On top of that, my dog was hit by a car (he’s fine, thank f*cking god) but that was ANOTHER $200 for an emergency vet visit.

My account went negative by $470.

My paycheck today was $475.

I have $5 to my name until next Friday.

No savings. No backup. Nowhere stable to stay. I’m doing everything I can—working, fighting legal battles, trying to rebuild—but I’m drowning. I’m scared, exhausted, and trying not to give up.

If you’re able to help in any way—donating, sharing this, or just sending some support—it would mean the world right now.

Venmo: @mckaylabond

Cash app: $mckaylabond1

Thank you for reading. Thank you for not looking away. Truly.

th3hands

This is some very tough shit.

novalyfe

Feather TICKLISH Miranda is face down and tied on a bench. She gets tickled by nice soft feathers and LAUGHING non stop !

th3hands

Despite this clearly being one of my favourite things (as can be inferred from reblogs and the like), I have not done nearly enough of this in my personal life.

Must rectify, forthwith

aussietummytickler

TW: suicide.

Reminder that this month is also Men's Mental Health Awareness Month as well as Pride Month.

Make sure to check on your male homies too.

Suicide is the biggest killer of males aged 18-55 (I believe that's the age range). Fuck stoicism, and fuck social stigmas that force us to keep shit bottled up as a means of "strength".

To my fellow male friends, there is no weakness in vulnerability, there is no shame in emotions, there is no unreliability in expressing mental health difficulties, as much as you may have been made to feel as such, as I have even. Don't be hollowed out by the unbelievably cruel apathy and antipathy you see on brain rot platforms by misandrist "content creators" celebrating male suicide rates (yes, this is a thing and I have seen an alarming number of these kinds of posts and videos. One is too many.)

Don't be like me.

Don't constantly keep your struggles to yourself, don't feel like you can't outwardly express the difficulties you're going through, don't feel like because of certain people you've encountered in life, certain social stigmas that have been hammered into your head, that you're better off keeping those moments of vulnerability to just yourself.

It *will* kill you.

I am a failed suicide survivor and I still struggle with all of this for multiple reasons that I am still yet to come to grips with, and still struggle to reach out, even on rough nights like tonight.

It does not matter what one's circumstances are. It does not matter if you have a good job, it does not matter if you are well off, it does not matter if you are in a good place in life, it does not matter if you have a roof over your head, mental illness can strike you down no matter what your circumstances, positive or negative. Mental illness does not discriminate.

There are avenues for help, there are people in your social network who support you, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, there is always a way out. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Message me if you feel you haven't got anyone else to turn to. I've known that feeling and it is one of the most hollow and debilitating feelings on earth. You are not alone, and never will be.

Stay strong, Kings.

In a world of Andrew Tates, be an Aragorn. 💙