This is a rarity! Our custom leather bondage gear is made to measure in your choice of leather color, nickel free hardware color, and size!
Our steel day collars are the best for 24/7 wear, if you’re the type who doesn’t like to take their collar off for showers or sleeping. We’ve got some lovely classic styles like a ring of o collar, and colorful crystal options, too!
Lastly, our acrylic collar tags are also totally custom, made with your custom text, in your choice of acrylic and hardware colors, and we’ve got dozens of shape options from Kitty cat heads, to diamonds, to triple moon goddess.
And of course, it’s all handmade in our home workshop!
I'm fully-recovered and ready to yap about it! We thought it was endometriosis that had me bedridden for the past 5 years - turns out it was adenomyosis! This is incredible news because that only affects the uterus and that bitch has been yeeted into a medical waste bin.
Now that I've bounced back from the surgery, I feel like a million bucks and I'm able-bodied again! Naturally this means big things are coming to Restrained Grace, starting with a huge backlog of new products.
In the meantime, we're hosting a storewide sale to celebrate yeeting my uterus and being able-bodied again. 30% off storewide! This is the biggest sale we're gonna have until Black Friday.
The coupon code is DYNAMO (because my husband proudly declared "Dynamo Annie is back!" this weekend after we deep cleaned our dining room.) And the sale ends Monday 11/3/2025.
I’ve got new meds for endometriosis that are working so well I feel like I did in 2019 before I became bedridden! I’ve been catching up on a LOT of things that have fallen behind in the past five nightmare years - I’m making inventory of everyone’s favorites and designing tons of new gorgeous things for y’all to customize.
Meanwhile Miss Tara just had her second baby, but she made sure to load the shop with ready-made bondage gear, and it’s been going fast!
We’re also adding a ton of new pieces to our Samples & Seconds Sale! discounted up to 50% off 👀
Lots more exciting news to come now that I’m feeling alright, so stay tuned!
Hello, my name is Rola, and I am a mother of two children living in the Gaza Strip. Our lives were once filled with love, laughter, and dreams for the future. But everything changed on October 7th, when the war shattered not only our home but our entire world.
That morning, my family and I were enjoying coffee together on the balcony. Out of nowhere, an explosion erupted, shaking our home violently. My husband and son ran for cover, falling over each other in panic, while I stood frozen, still holding my cup, unable to process the chaos around me. When I looked out the window, I saw that our neighbor’s house, once filled with life, had been reduced to rubble. Ambulances rushed to the scene as people scrambled to rescue the injured and pull bodies from the debris.
The bombings didn’t stop. At night, the rain poured heavily, and the cold seeped into our bones. I stayed awake, covering my children to keep them warm and praying for their safety. But safety is an illusion here. Another explosion shattered the night, and our neighbors’ home was destroyed. Their children, who had been sleeping peacefully under a blanket, were found lifeless, their cover soaked in blood.
I looked at my children with tears in my eyes and thought, How can I protect you? We had to flee our home with nothing but the clothes on our backs. We left behind my children’s toys, their clothes, and their beautiful bedroom. Everything we had worked so hard to build is gone.
Our Current Reality Now, we are displaced and living in a nightmare. Food is scarce, and prices are unimaginably high—$10 for a kilo of sugar! The fear of death hangs over us constantly. My children deserve a life of joy and hope, not one defined by fear and loss. Why can’t we live like everyone else—go to work, visit family, and watch our children play in safety? Why do our children have to grow up surrounded by death and destruction?
How You Can Help I am pleading for your kindness to help us rebuild our lives. We need your support to: 💔 Rebuild our home, so my children can feel safe again. 🌍 Evacuate from Gaza, seeking a future where my family can live with dignity. 🩺 Provide urgent medical care for my children, who need protection from this nightmare.
Even the smallest donation can make a difference. If you can’t donate, please share my story. Every share brings us closer to hope.
What Your Support Means Your kindness is not just about helping us survive; it’s about giving us a chance to dream again. To rebuild what we’ve lost and to ensure my children have a future filled with possibilities, not fear.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Your support means the world to us. Let’s work together to rebuild hope, one step at a time.
🌸 Please share our story and consider donating today. 🌸
Hi I am Fatima and live in London UK. I have known Rola now for appr… Fatima Rajwani needs your support for From Despair to Hope: Help us to
“tik tok is brainrot I’m glad it’s getting deleted” YOU are ignoring an early warning sign of fascism bc silly dances and asmr annoys u. tik tok ban is a part of a MUCH bigger bill that indicates any foreign app, if deemed a threat, can be banned if the owner does not sell it. aka the government is mad bc they cannot censor & their capitalist puppet masters are mad they aren’t making money from it. and if ur ok w that……hm
I’ve been wanting to come back over here for a long time. But I haven’t had a writing brain for a few years thanks to burnout.
And then I spent a good amount of time oversharing on TikTok, which was fun for a while, and then the app started pushing rage-bait and comments got a lot more mean.
I spent a lot of time trying to be an evangelical leftist - but I got tired of being called a fear-monger for warning folks 2 years ago about what’s happening now.
And now with Meta and TikTok becoming state owned/controlled media, I can no longer comfortably yap on threads.
My pet peeve on here today is seeing witchy folks posting, reblogging, and creating AI content.
Like wow you are killing mother nature for a couple likes. You're erasing the divine gift of human creativity? Get hexed. Eat rocks and jump into a lake.
One should always have at least 2 craft projects going. That way, when one of them is messed up and misbehaving, you can switch to another, and let the first one sit there and think about what it's done.
Sometimes (oftentimes), when a creative project is "misbehaving," it's because it is tired, and overstimulated, and just needs a time out to rest -- like toddlers often need.
And sometimes, you should give your creative projects time to talk to each other, as well as to you.
Dude I have a baker’s rack for my different types of crafts and unfinished projects and steps. One tray for UV resin, one for paint and glue, one for faux florals and one for using glitter 😮💨
I’ve been working my cutie patootie off getting our website’s act together. Back in September I had to rebuild our whole website after our cart just stopped working. There are a lot of loose threads I haven’t had time to clean up, and I’m handling them all bit by bit.
Our menu got a complete overhaul, because a lot of stuff was missing and it was just plain ugly. Now everything is pretty, and extremely visual, so you have an idea of what you’re in for as you browse collections - and we want you to have fun browsing, just like you would if you’d been in our now closed brick and mortar store. 🥹
