Three years ago I had found out about my husbands affair, three years ago my heart was completely shattered, my life was turned upside down, and I thought my life was over. When I started this tumblr him and I were still together, my dad was still alive.
I spent the next year of my life experiencing things I never thought I would heal from. Well, he just married the women he had the painful affair with and guess what? I was fine that day. No tears, depression...It was just another day. I cried to so many people that it hurt so bad I could hardly stand it, that I was scared, and I couldn’t believe it was happening, and now I hardly ever talk about it anymore, I rarely think about it, except when we have to exchange our child but even then it’s sadness for his decisions and the reasons why we are the way we are now.
I actually just got married myself. I’m thankful all that stuff happened because I found someone that was right for me, I went on so many adventures, had a failed relationship between the RG and MM, and now I can be unapologetically be me. I’m free, and I never felt that way with RG. I have my own home now that is truly mine, I have someone that beams with pride when he calls me his partner. I’m beyond lucky.
