Remember when joining fandom as a younger person meant lurking for a bit and figuring out the vibe and etiquette instead of coming in on day one and calling people weirdos for liking weirdo shit in the weirdo factory.
Yeah I stalked for a while then to ease myself in I sent a few anonymous asks before actually trying to join in. Also, ngl, I'm still kinda scared to try to really join the facebook group.











